‼️ ENGLISH-SPEAKING EVENT! An Erotic Reading on Surrender, Rope & Consent
This evening is a mix of story, curiosity and lived experience.

I’ll start with a few words on why I write about desire, power and consent and why shibari, for me, has never really been about rope. It’s about intention. About choosing to let go. About the quiet conversations that happen before (and after) anything physical.

I’ll read an erotic short story written especially for this event; spicy, playful and a little unexpected. It circles around strength, surrender, the choice to hand over control, tunnel play and ofcourse shibari.

Additionally, I’ll share some personal thoughts from my own experiences entering rope and power-exchange spaces. Not as an expert, but as someone who’s been curious, nervous, excited, unsure and learned a lot about language along the way.

We’ll touch on:
✣ why surrender can feel powerful, not weak
✣ how words shape consent (and mood)
✣ what happens before the rope, not just during

This isn’t a how-to.

It’s a chance to listen, recognise yourself, and maybe leave with a few new words in your pocket.
Come curious. That’s enough.

ABOUT LISA:

Lisa Opel is a writer, speaker and erotic storyteller based in Hamburg.

She is the author of GIVE IT TO ME! a compilation of short stories, SEX SEX SEX – Your Complete Sexuality Workbook (DE/ENG), and just released SAVED IN NOTES... a book of poems from grief to horny, host of the bilingual podcast DEEP&DIRTY, educator course on long-term relationships on JOYClub DE and a TEDx speaker on sexuality, language and self-expression.

Lisa’s work lives at the intersection of erotic literature, pleasure education and honest storytelling. Rather than teaching techniques, she focuses on giving people words for desire, boundaries, fantasy and consent.

Website: https://pleasepinchmehard.com/lisaopel
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pleasepinchmehard
Podcast: DEEP&DIRTY (available on all major platforms)