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Slow and steady wins the race?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, in today’s modern society most things tend to happen pretty fast, and sex & dating are no exceptions to that. In our newest article, Paulina Tenner gives insights to the world of slow dating, slow attraction and slow sex.

*********uema wrote on Mon, 15. April

yes, of course taking the time that an encounter needs to let it grow into its most beautiful form will feel slow if "i" got used to do it…

New at the JoyClub? Welcome!

*****ich wrote:

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It's nice that you registered at the JOYclub and found your way here. From now on you are a part of our exciting community. Congratulations! We are happy that you are here.

*********nots wrote on Sun, 14. April

hi from another world, i need to find me my wife as a life partner, to really restart life.

**********eld86 wrote:

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Let's take the advices. My favourite is Stranglehold - Ted Nugent.

*********Girl wrote 7 hours ago

https://youtu.be/DxHCOygRIDg?si=lb53KHSmIi67khK8

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Taking It Slow

11 April 2024

In our fast-paced world, we rush attraction, dating, and sex, missing the depth of slower connections. Explore the art of slow intimacy for profound satisfaction and read on!
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*********uema wrote on Mon, 15. April:

Yes, of course taking the time that an encounter needs to let it grow into its most beautiful form will feel slow if "i" got used to do it faster, focusing on other criteria instead of enjoyment of the moment.

MMF Threesome - Living the experience!

*********nots wrote:

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There are many dating apps, date searches and posts, hook-ups and ads, but what is the reality behind it? What happens after the call for a date goes out into the world, how does the selection process work and what is the end like, for all parties?

*********nots wrote 22 hours ago

With my partners we usually opted for the dogging scenario.

The 'A' in April stands for ...Anal sex!

*********nots wrote:

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Did you know that April is anal sex month? It is not an official holiday but let's celebrate anal pleasure between consenting individuals, and get rid of the taboo around it! So let's make it a JOYclub challenge: Have YOU done your April anal yet?

*********nots wrote 22 hours ago

Meine Ex-Partnerin verlangte 'Anal sex', wahrscheinlich zweimal pro Woche. Ich war der Erste, der sie darauf aufmerksam machte ...

Do you prefer ass or boobs?

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What you prefer You have men Who are ass lopers and men who love boops What you are/what you choose

Guest wrote on Sun, 14. April

I love booty also love to massage them

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Anal Fisting

02 April 2024

Curious to try anal fisting, but not sure how to go about it? You've come to the right place! Divine Theratrix will show you how.
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*****993 wrote on 10. April:

Hy everybody

Pulling and Playing - do you have a hair fetish?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers! JOYclub is a fantastic place to discover new things, and today we might have something you’ve never heard of before.

********rlin wrote on Sun, 14. April

What is the best Swinger Party in the UK?

*********nots wrote:

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Thank you to JOYclubber @SensualSuffolk who lined out a few swinger clubs & parties in the UK. I am quoting them here to show their recommendations. We have the Unseen Lounge listing their events here on JOY already as well.

*********nots wrote on Sun, 14. April

We visir Cupid's in Msnchester. We're in the NW frequently so hoping to try some of the others. Found them too!

What's the naughtiest shit you've ever tried?

**********ver99 wrote:

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I'll go first: I had outdoor sex with a stranger I met in at the park. We fucked in the bushes whilst people went past us along the path, just a few meters away from where we were hiding.

*********nots wrote on Sun, 14. April

The naughtiest shit I’ve ever tried would probably put me in jail if I told you. Even consensual acts between adults are illegal some places.

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Everything about cuckold & cuckolding

27 March 2024

Cuckolding refers to a type of sexual play where the man gets satisfaction from the knowledge that his wife is having sex with others. We explain what this erotic preference is all about!
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*******cho wrote on Fri, 12. April:

I am a Spanish bull with an 8in long 6in thick cock.

Another thought form a PoetWolf

*******Wolf wrote:

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I love you naked.  No, not without clothes on.  Naked without your walls up. I love you naked.  No, not bare skinned lying on the bed.  Naked with your mind wide open. I love you naked.  No, not emerging from the shower damp in lust and water.

*********nots wrote on Sun, 14. April

I am in awe of your work. It resonates so much- I was told how beautiful I am naked, truly naked without my walls up.

Best parties in Budapest?

*****ght wrote:

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Hello, We are visiting Budapest the first weekend of April, and wondering from locals, what are the best parties and clubs there? Our first time in Budapest. Thank you, N

***re wrote on Sat, 13. April

Interesting thread, will be more often in Budapest this year ;) Last time I stayed at this hotel (see pic).

Bit cucky? Let's talk about cuckolding!

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, do you find pleasure in your partner getting it on with someone else? Or in humiliating your partner by letting someone else satisfy you? Well, you're not alone, and you might be into cuckolding. No clue what that is?

*******cho wrote on Fri, 12. April

I am a Spanish bull with an 8in long 6in thick cock.

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Hair Play

20 March 2024

Hair play may sound innocent, but for some people it's a huuuge turn on! Follow April Maria to her first ever hair play party and learn what it's all about.
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********rlin wrote on Sun, 14. April:

Nice 🤩

What is the best Swinger Club in London?

*********nots wrote:

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Recently I shared my personal experience in the London group about my first visit to the swingers club LeBoudoir: My partner, wanted to try a club and it was the first to stand out due to it's central location- and their event listings on JOYclub…

******ini wrote on Fri, 12. April

Actually, I just discovered this club -on a recommendation by a JC member here - Thank you! have you heard of it/ been before? https://ourplace4fun.

Swingers experience in South Carolina

*******s61 wrote:

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Hi, I will be the next 2 years on regular basis in South Carolina. Is there a good way in the US to connect with women and couples? Has someone some clubs to recommend? Many thanks for any advice.

**********r2469 wrote on Thu, 11. April

You could try SDC. It has a pretty decent presence in US, although I don’t know about South Carolina in particular

Nude Sunbathing around Basel

*********an222 wrote:

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Hi! Looking to spend some time in the warm sun this weekend. Are there any wellness centers with outdoor areas that allow nude sunbathing and use of the saunas? Anywhere within an hour or so of Basel is good. I look forward to your suggestions.

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Getting the Ick

06 March 2024

One moment you're head over heels for your partner, and the next, you find yourself recoiling at the mere thought of them. Know the feeling? Learn what "the ick" is and how to overcome it!
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*******7117 wrote on 16. March:

Keine Vorschau zum Beitrag verfügbar

Anal Fisting - ever put your whole hand up there?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, there is a lot of shame around the anal area, so let’s break some taboos! In this week’s article, Divine Theratrix provides us with an explicit tutorial on anal fisting for all the visual learners among you!

*****993 wrote on 10. April

Ever explored the prostate?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers! Anything to do with pleasure and the anus is often considered taboo. But it shouldn’t be, so let’s break it! For people who are lucky enough to have a prostate, this little “button” can provide immense pleasure.

*********_male wrote on 9. April

Experienced fingers for prostate massage i number one. The feeling when a woman or man knows how to massage the prostate is unbelievable.

******ple wrote:

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Can anybody suggest naturist/swingers resort where to stay in Maspalomas? As we was able to book just 3 nights in La Mirage. On booking. com its hard to understand is this for naturist, adults only etc... Thanks!

*****dor wrote on 9. April

Is there a lifestyle hotel or resort in Costa Rica?

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Shattering Sex Toy Taboos & Exploring BDSM

28 February 2024

There is a lot of misinformation around the topic of sex toys, and Venus Libido is here to debunk it! Explore the world of sex toys and BDSM with her in this article, all while finding out about her favourite BDSM toys.
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*****_71 wrote on 5. April:

Guess what I am wearing in my shorts?

Perspective from a Poetwolf

*******Wolf wrote:

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Hurricanes Are Not Just Thunderstorms. I don’t want ‘just sex’. Sex in a vacum Sex in a box Sex for a moment, An hour and then gone. I don’t want to ‘get off’. Get laid. Get some. I don’t want to show up. Fuck, Go home.

*****i26 wrote on 8. April

Lovely. Well said. There's definitely more to this journey than one and done. Lee'Ann

Looking for clubs in Algarve, Portugal

*********ouple wrote:

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Any suggestions for clubs/private parties in Algarve, Portugal. Seems to be nothing available short of driving to Seville, Spain...

****BG wrote on 8. April

Was in Algarve last summer and couldnt find anything, after some excessive research :\

Uniting Zurich 😉 Which 🔥 places do you know?

*******inz wrote:

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Hey 👋 I'm new on this site and don't know exactly how everything works here) I speak English and German both, so you can contact me in any convenient for you language) Which 🔥 places can you recommend in Zurich?

*******am04 wrote on 7. April

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Prostate Massage

26 February 2024

Curious about prostate massages? In this video tutorial, Divine Theratrix shows you how. Go ahead and push the button!
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*********_male wrote on 9. April:

Experienced fingers for prostate massage i number one. The feeling when a woman or man knows how to massage the prostate is unbelievable. I have multiple orgasms as opposed to ejaculations, screaming my head off.

Toys are for playing!

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, playing is fun, right? And what do you need to play? TOYS! This week is all about sex toys: Venus Libido is debunking myths and breaking taboos on sex toys, all while exploring BDSM toys in her newest article. Click here to read it!

*****_71 wrote on 5. April

Guess what I am wearing in my shorts?

Sexual bucket list?

*********life wrote:

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Places are common for bucket lists but do you have a sexual bucket list item or fantasy that you’ve not tried yet?

*********nots wrote on 3. April

Joining a happy couple and give a hi five to the guy while his woman is scream-orgazming in our intense dp. Team work must be great.

Where are all the unicorns?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, have you lost faith in unicorns yet? Well, hopefully Venus Libido can help you restore it! In her new article, she tells you all you need to know about unicorns, how to find them and how to secure one for yourself. Intrigued?

***on wrote on 27. March

Hallo, ich bin 21 Jahre alt und am 6. Mai in Stade. Ich möchte ein Mädchen zum Sex treffen

best sex clubs in Frankfurt for Hotwire Fun

*****and wrote:

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We are coming to Frankfurt on March 29 for a few days/nights, staying in Steigenberger Hotel and looking for hot sex clubs to attend for Hotwire to have fun with men

***nz wrote on 26. March

I went to Emmanuelle and played with the wife in a nice couple, but it was a weekday and fairly quiet. Grane opera in.

Do you worship in the bedroom?

*********rial wrote:

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You think you know all sides to BDSM? We might have something you’re not aware of yet: Our author PriestessPow practices BDSM with a spiritual or devotional approach! What that means? Find out in our new article!

*********nots wrote on 24. March

Bonjour, je m'appelle Piotr, je suis polonais, j'ai 40 ans, je ne parle pas français, j'habite près de Paris, Mon rêve est d'être…

Fetish sex club with playroom

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Hi. I want to surprise my husband by bringing him to a fetish club where we can see others to play around in different playrooms. The event should be on 06 April or 07 April.

****79 wrote on 24. March

Guten Morgen 🌞☕

Looking for libertine clubs in Malaga, Spain

******l50 wrote:

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I am planning a short trip to Malaga and the neighbourhood, Spain, at the end of April. Are there swinger clubs in Malaga?

******ert wrote on 19. March

7 km weiter Torremolinos 3 clubs . Eden, Papua ,kamelot swingers.

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers! One moment you're head over heels for your partner, and the next, you find yourself recoiling at the mere thought of them. Know the feeling? Well, the problem you’re facing might be the ick. The ick? The ick.

*******7117 wrote on 16. March

*********rial wrote:

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Have you ever found yourself wondering: Is polyamory right for me?

****21 wrote on 15. March

Hallo, ich bin hier und nächsten Monat in Deutschland. Wer sich gerne vorher vernetzen möchte.

Happy International Women's Day

*********nots wrote:

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International Women's Day is a holiday celebrated annually on March 8 as a focal point in the women's rights movement. It originated during the Suffragette movement and gained importance in the second wave feminism.

****erj wrote on 10. March

И попробуй забыть про цветочки и подарки! )

Looking for swinger clubs in Salou, Spain

*******cki wrote:

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We're planning a trip to Salou, Spain, this summer. But even though the city has quite a reputation for "party central", we don't see any swinger clubs on the map, only strip clubs. Are there swinger clubs in Salou? Or in it's vicinity at least?

*********nger1 wrote on 9. March

Hallo, ich war schon öfters in Salou, aber nie in einem Club. Mit Google findet ihr bestimmt irgendwas. Ob es gut ist, muss man immer selber testen.

Swingers club in Copenhagen, Denmark?

**********sires wrote:

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Hello, Is there a good swingers club in Copenhagen, Denmark, where they accept single men?

*********oyce wrote on 6. March

We had a great experience at Cityswingers 1 and hope to return there some time soon! *herz2*

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Is there any swinger clubs open on a Monday, that is recommended for a couple?

***23 wrote on 3. March

Hey we visited as a couple with a friend of ours (M). We had a great time on a Sunday. The place is by far stunning inside. Not over crowded.

Looking for swinger clubs in Southwest France

**********spect wrote:

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Are there any great swinger clubs in south west France? I have been looking at events and parties in several French cities and does not seem to be very popular. Is it maybe that this platform is not very popular there?

*****mne wrote on 3. March

P.s. just update we are not fan as well from now on, they suck and they are bad to be avoided , seems like they are all touristy attractions

Best Budapest spots

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Best places to visit in Budapest? Clubs sex parties xx traveling alone 😇😇

****r1 wrote on 2. March

What are the best saunas to meet couples in Budapest?

Visiting Munich for a day

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Hello. I'm here in munich and i am interested in some glory hole action. Just so you know i'm straight. Where should i go?

weissenhäuser strand hotel

*********lden wrote:

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Hey i visit germany alot at been at this place. Is there any clubs in that area.? Or any meet places for couples? 😊

*****_92 wrote on 2. March

Hey bbc suche spontan Treffen heute abend

Have you ever tried cross-dressing?

*********rial wrote:

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There’s many misconceptions and confusion around the topics of drag, transvestism and transformism - but this shall end now!

****01 wrote on 28. February

I would like to be my bitch 😈👋 I’m far as fuck but I’m as fit as fuck 😋

What do you think about Germans in regards to Sex?

**********ige76 wrote:

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I am curious to hear about your thoughts and what you associate with Germans when it comes to sex? Are we Germans conservative or more open than other nationalities?

Guest wrote on 23. February

I don‘t think that Germans are particularly conservative when it comes to sex.

reverse gangbang

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So everyone knows a traditional gangbang where a group of men share one or two women. but what about a reverse gangbang where a group of women share a man. That's something i'm really interested experiencing personally and would like the chance to.

Guest wrote on 22. February

Sounds like many men’s wet dream, but why would a woman want to share a guy with a bunch of other women? You’ve only got one dick, mate.

The more, the merrier?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers! How much do you really know about non-monogamy and negotiating polyamorous relationships? Poppy and Estella know a whole lot!

******923 wrote on 22. February

Single-Junge sucht ein Mädchen für eine neue Erfahrung!

Swinger events in Lithuania or Estonia, Poland.

******ple wrote:

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Can anybody suggest swingers events/clubs in above mentioned countries? Your personal expierence? Thanks! 🍍

*****_24 wrote on 21. February

Look at that: https://www.joyclub.com/en/event/1522820.nude_swingers_in_nature_estonia.html

Looking for Pornokino with body hole in Köln or nearby

**********skink wrote:

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Greetings, I’m passing through Köln and interested in finding a PK with a body hole I’m looking for recommendations in or nearby, a pk that’s busy on a Sunday. Any help is appreciated.

Swingers club in stuttgart for single men

*******win wrote:

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Is there any swinger clubs in stuttgart or couples sauna where single guy is allowed I will be staying in stuttgart hbf

**********_Dina wrote on 17. February

Swingers club in stuttgart for single men Hi there group Is there any swinger clubs in stuttgart or couples sauna where single guy is allowed I will…

Gangbang in Belgium - recommendations?

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Any recommendation for clubs in Belgium?Especially for gangbang/bukkake.Thank you!

**********_Dina wrote on 17. February

To all the men here, I would love to be a part of Gangbang or Bukkake. I love Bukkake and looking to do one...Hetero men preferred.

Did YOU fall in love blindly?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers! The other week we were wondering what you think about “Love is Blind”, the concept of dating blindly and how important sex is in the process of falling in love. A total of 141 people participated in our survey, which is great!

Guest wrote on 17. February

Well, it may not be love, but last night‘s date definitely put stars in my eyes. Is he the type of guy I can ever introduce to family and friends?

Kinky places in Amsterdam

*****r_2 wrote:

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We are planning our visit to Amsterdam and we would love to visit were we can find like minded people if anyone has any idea 💡

*******6360 wrote on 14. February

Every first Saturday of the month there is a party called KinkyParadise(.nl) at Partyplayers(.nl) in nearby Lelystad.

Why are more people into kink than tantra?

**********aland wrote:

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Seems like there is much more communication around BDSM vs Tantra. Why do you think there are not more trantra practitioners in the sex+ lifestyle?

******bub wrote on 13. February

@Lissenx Thank you for a deeper and wider explanation about Tantra.

Silence vs Noise

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Uuuuhmmmm How many of you are silent while lovemaking? Why? Let's start a discussion on the magic subject of sex-sounds or their absence.

****enx wrote on 9. February

Guys, as to beauty and sound! I have recently found this wonderful performer / sound healer who does and shares her interesting work.