„It is absolutely possible to fall in love with someone one has sex with. But - at least in my opinion - it would be very superficial to fall in love with someone only because of (good) sex.
An experience I can relate too, but that's how we learn, by making mistakes. The Question you asked @*****ien was if it works, and how long it takes.
I think it's safe to say nobody here can give a time estimate on that, it's not like we are doing project Management, but then again that could be a fetisch
as for if it works, I have another way of thinking about it...
Is it possible to find Sex through Love ?
I would further argue to say that even Nature, intended this to be challenging, so first tip:
Patience.
Nobody wants to be rushed into a meaningful relationship.
Through my own experiences I have come to believe that women need "love" before sex, and men experience it rather after sex (I am over-generalizing of course), you can develop a loving relationship starting with sex, but you have to work on the rest of the relationship too. Sex is only one part of it all.
Could it be that you are a little heartbroken of a recent encounter with someone? (Sexually) This is normal for a guy, I would say, before you go nuts, double up on some good old self-loving, you will get over it. I personally have never had a serious relationship without having had sex with somebody, but that is another topic on itself.
Good luck on your Project