How important is kissing to you?

******ins Woman
22,729 Posts
Thread creator JOY-Team 
How important is kissing to you?
How important is kissing to you?

I love to kiss. For me, kissing is part of good sex.

How is that for you? How important is kissing for you? *knuddel2*
What makes a good kiss?

*kuss2*
SevenSins
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******Mix Couple
79 Posts
for me it is simply primevil - we as a couple had this conversation...should we have sex with others but kissing is not allowed as it was the most intimate thing. we then learned that there are other types of kiss. all kissing makes you feel valued and alive. but there are kisses that only you and your partner can share. thats not a thing that can be learned...it can be seen. but yes Kisses are as much part of sex as anything. A kiss is the starter to all that we know as humans - our first kiss! our first time feeling in love. our first time learning that an ex partner is no longer interested in you. our mouths and our kisses and our eyes are gateways to the soul and this is why it is a hard thing to get right in a swinger scene. funny eh?

We can fuck. but dont kiss him or her! that in itself is homage to why kissing is important ...at least for us
****_84 Man
4 Posts
Kissing is very important to me. For me having sex without kiss is like sleeping without pillow
******ase Woman
104 Posts
It's the foreplay *zwinker*
Its everything and beyond 😘
You steal kisses from life when u make a moment everywhere with it
For me a good kiss is almost half the way to the goal!
Kissing is of utmost importance! Without it nothing goes.
********rlin Woman
1,345 Posts
Verrry important!


Entering intimacy with all senses definately MUST include kissing.

It is a dimension within sexuality. A form of communication amongst lovers - and yes - a vehicle for longings.

A passionate kiss confirms IMHO the ability and desire of passionate sex and the true effort to encounter your lover with all senses.
*******med Man
141 Posts
Quote from ******ins:
How important is kissing to you?
How important is kissing to you?

I love to kiss. For me, kissing is part of good sex.

How is that for you? How important is kissing for you? *knuddel2*
What makes a good kiss?



*kuss2*
SevenSins
JOY-Team

For me the kiss is the door to a perfect sex
Kissing is more nessesary than having sex.

It starts with a smile, goes further with a touch, then the first kiss.
I will not miss the feeling of the heardbeat bevore the touch, soft, smooth.....

For me it doesn't make sence to date someone, who is just interessted in having sex without kissing caused in the fact the kissing reserved for the own partner.

I think, love is absolutely enough to be reserved for the own partner.
****18 Man
1 Posts
When you meet someone the initial attraction is looks, followed by personality. The kiss can tell how much someone is in into you- is it lazy, passionate, or lustful. It lets me know how good the sex will be with that person.

I would say its very important.
*********terna Woman
14 Posts
I enjoy kissing, but I have found that some of my partners (particularly those who are in committed relationships) prefer not to. I don’t mind though, because while it is enjoyable it is not necessary for me.
I’m picky with whom I kiss. We have no rules in our open relationship so I kiss who I please.

I have a very strong sense of smell and taste. Kissing an ashtray mouth is a big turn off to me so I am careful.

I do not need to kiss to be turned on. Your mind, your smell....
*****d79 Couple
542 Posts
Kissing is something just between us. It is intimate. We share everything else, but the deep passionate kiss during sex, is reserved for us. You could say " that is love"
We respect the contra opinion of other couples and we present our " no Gos" right at the beginning, so we all don't waste our time. Only exception is that Mrs Meland kisses the girls. A bit paradox but it seems to work for us.
It has happened that a couple has tried to kiss us, in the grips of their passion. We don't get mad or anything, just move our heads slightly to the side.
********ooky Man
7 Posts
Kissing shows that you like the person
Quote from ********ooky:
Kissing shows that you like the person
I like my neighbor but I certainly don’t want to kiss them.
*******med Man
141 Posts
Quote from *******Lady:
Quote from ********ooky:
Kissing shows that you like the person
I like my neighbor but I certainly don’t want to kiss them.

Super answer i like it
********ooky Man
7 Posts
Yes true but when I kiss a lady which I would have meet in a club. That means that I like her. If not I wouldn’t kiss her.
Hope to meet you one day.
Might kiss you. 😀
Quote from *******Lady:
Quote from ********ooky:
Kissing shows that you like the person
I like my neighbor but I certainly don’t want to kiss them.

Hello!

Kissing is quit important,beautiful and sexy.
Dreaming allways to see my wife kissed sexy and hard
****la Man
44 Posts
let's take a moment here...
Kissing, the importance and the composition of the sensual kiss.
Kissing per se is the act expressing emotion with your lips. So let's list a couple of
Types of Kissing.

The hallo Kiss
no common practise in many societies, but toned down and to be set on the same level of "kissing Grandma". Just lips, and sometime not even on the mouth.

The expressive Kiss
this one takes the hallo kiss on target, direction mutual lip kissing. Tongue is still not really an option here, but there is more feeling and expression. You might pucker those lips a bit more, take a bit more time and linger on the actual kiss.

The I like you Kiss
commonly referred to as just kissing, this has sexual context, and should contain tongue, is not a must, but I think safe to say it is expected. If somebody was to see you kissing someone in this manner, they will not think that you are brother and sister.

The devouring Kiss
This one is filled with passion and lust, taking kissing to the level of almost propbing the partner's mouth. It's sloppy, seductive wild and intoxicating. If I could quote a sex novel, I would ( Please feel free to expand to suite your own needs ) Not something you would do in public really.

The porn Kiss
My personal experience is somewhat limited on this version, but it contains tongue flicking and is mostly combined with some kind of fetisch. The main goal here is to arouse sexually, not really affection.

This is not intended to be the invinative guide to Kissing, but posed with so many options you might see the difficulty that arise if someone asks you if you like kissing...

Yes sure I like kissing just like the next person, I think it is a basic urge every person has that had a mother, and that should cover about 99% of all people..

The real dripping question is however, how do you like it ?

My conclusion:
I like a honest kiss, and from someone new, this normally starts at hello and grows to a devouring experience over time. Without a kiss, I find it really hard to honestly share my body with someone else.
****nh Man
12 Posts
This is the same important
*****Guy Man
31 Posts
Very important! It establishes a connection of sorts. I hooked up with a girl who didn't like kissing at all (she just wanted penetration and a bit of spanking) and I didn't enjoy it at all due to lack of kissing (hence I only saw her once). Of course, you can do too much of one thing so don't over do it *g*
*********Dave Man
13 Posts
For me kissing is critical. Man or Woman, kissing establishes that connection that makes everything else better. Sadly when the other person isn't a good kisser or there just isn't electricity there, it does kill the mood. Still I would rather have a passionate connected experience than an ok disconnected one.
**********aison Man
372 Posts
Naturally I like kissing.

One woman I have with likes to take my bottom lip between hers and lightly tug on it. Very erotic.

But if a couple prefers that the wife does not, then I can respect that.
Very important and before kissing I must feel some really good vibes and chemistry ....I dont just kisss anyone it comes in my face .
*******0300 Woman
11 Posts
For me is absolutely important... and beautiful to do:)
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