Hotel Dates - Why?
I can think of some practical reasons to spend some time in a hotel with someone:1: If one of you lives in Bremen and the other in Pirmasens, and you meet at a club in Frankfurt, a hotel makes sense.
2: Neither one of you will have to wash the sheets the next day.
3: You really don't want the other person to know where you live. (Why not? If you're that unsure of the character of the other person, maybe you should reconsider bedding them.)
4: A tiny bit of extra naughtiness...although for that it should really be a sleazy motel with a "concierge" who is wearing a stained t-shirt and hasn't shaved in two days.
And I can't think of any other reason. Are there other reasons?