Sex without chemistry is the worst we can imagine. We have never been into one night stands or other superficial encounters. "Physical" only may work for some people, but definitely not for us.
When it comes to relationships, common grounds have always been mandatory for us, even before we met. The more shared interests, hobbies, life goals, inner and outer attitude (and so much more), the more enriching, loving, caring and also sexually satisfying and fulfilling things can be -
as long as there is an honest and open communication and love.
We do understand and live sex as a love language; our sexual encounters are getting better and better, like a high quality wine. There are no words to describe this, especially not when trying to explain this to ppl who are into superficial, "physical" encounters only. We even dare say that the will never know what they miss...