„The circlejerk of people here with common, cliche "men are trash" analysis is cute. I'll offer a different perspective just to spice things up.
I agree it's a cliche but unfortunately it's so damn true. I have seen couple girl mailboxes its stunning what they recieve.
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Do you honestly care about other people?
If so, do you believe that giving more feedback and information is helpful? Or is Ignorance truly bliss?
As one of those people who used to ask "why" before learning that people are too trash to actually help each other improve and subsequently stopping, I think the bunch of crybabies who dump on others being "toxic" for reacting emotionally to an emotional topic are the Real Toxic People.
I agree 1000% but as said the times they respond to a why that they get a rude response (and rude is a understatement) is about 95%
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I think silence and assuming malfeasance is much more toxic for culture as a whole than acting in good faith, helping where you can, and not letting one or two bad apples become the exemplars for believing that planting apples only leads to poison.
The problem is the dating platforms are infested with assholes those bad apples are at least 50%
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I wonder where all the mature, compassionate people went in the world?
Where are the people who understand that sometimes giving feedback like "your profile makes you seem kind of boring" or "I'm sorry, I just don't find you that physically attractive" might generate a spiteful response, but that doesn't mean you should be afraid of it?
Do words really hurt you more than sticks and stones?
No but constant bombardment of bad one do.
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Where are the people that have the integrity to be honest and forthright in case it is helpful, but also the dignity and courage to brave a childish insult rebuttal with grace?
Shouldn't we be the change we wish to see in the world?
Those people apparently are not single.