I love giving blowjobs, sometimes... when I am in the mood of doing so. And I love doing it my way.... which is rather a slow and playful thing. Licking along the whole length with my tongue long and wide, or drawing circles around the glans, tipping the top, or whatever comes to my mind.... I like to control how deep he penetrates holding his cock in one hand, and leading it along my wet lips like a big fat lipstick. He may close his eyes in order to fully concentrate on his own sensations, or now and then look into my eyes to connect intensely mith me.
I like if he is attentive and holds my hair off my face (or sometimes I have previously put some hairclips).
What I do NOT like is:
Him urging me to anything, like deep throat - I must immidately choke
Swallowing his semen. Sorry, but I dont like it
Of course he is invited to give me personal hints to improve his pleasure. I will love to please him (as long as it doesn’t interfere with my no gos) for instance once I was very surprised when my lover told me he loved me using my teeth along his shaft...
What I particularly love, sometimes, is taking his soft and weak penis into my mouth, and feel how it gradually increases. With no hurry at all!