„All women are constructed in the same way, but all are, even so, different. I’m addicted to giving cunnilingus and have had the fortune to have been allowed to perform it on more than 500 women from all corners of the world. My advice is to first try to find out the level of intensity that the woman feel comfortable with; one way I find very reliable is to first start with kissing her mouth and then licking her nipples...then begin with kissing her pussy lightly. At this point most women are fairly wet, but not all, so don’t put any fingers in to try to reach the G-spot yet. Now, very gently lick the clitoris rhythmically - not to hard to begin with - then harder depending on reaction. You can never go wrong by focusing on the clitoris but you can enhance the feeling with fingers in the pussy or on the G-spot - or in the anal. If the woman does not distinctively ask you to stop or push you away because it’s to intensive keep on licking! She can start riding on an endlessly ongoing wave of multiple orgasms (three hours is my record). Put a towel (ore more) under her before you start and ask her to not hold back if she feels like she needs to pee and you might be rewarded by receiving her first squirt.
So I was going to explain the same based on my experience (although no where near 500 😐) but you pretty much summed it up. I would add first timers shouldn't try to go and search for the g-spot or vingering in general stick to the clit first. It takes practice to know when to insert and a g-spot is hard to vind if she is not aroused.(it needs to swell first)
Oh if it's first time squirter take 2 towels to cover your own face 🤭