As a black guy I find the whole BBC thing a but annoying, yes I have a big cock which I am very happy about but it does also have downsides. I enjoy anal sex and quite a few ladies we meet tell us they really enjoy anal sex....But then when they see it they usually say something like “Hmm.... no chance that goes in my ass” or “ I need some training before I let that in”
We have dated couples where the other guy was also black and of course where the other guy was white. My wife has no particular preference for any race, for her it’s all about the person, the connection and the way they behave.
Sometimes in conversations on Joyclub or even in person, the guy might say “my wife really likes black guys” or “it’s her fantasy to be with a black guy”. They say that to make me feel good and let me know there’s interest which is nice, but at the same time it can make me think “ so any black guy would do?”
I am an Individual who happens to be black, for me there should be more of criteria for selection than being black and having a big cock. That’s why I personally don’t like to attend BBC parties or events. Though i totally understand why ladies and couples looking for BBC or people that want to find it go to them.