It depends on how familiar we are with each other. If it's our first time, we can hangout for a minute but get out of my air space.
As we get more familiar with each other, I get physically closer. I'm usually hot as hell afterwards and end with a side embrace while resting my head on his chest.
My perspective, I'm ok with any post sex activity. Only a very small number want to just leave. Most will cuddle until they need to go and in many cases want to stay the night where we play again and have coffee before they leave.
I usually like having my lover resting on my shoulder and caress very lightly.
But since i am usually over heated i prefer to have the rest of the body free
Also after a bunch of minutes I turn into "friend mode" for a while, as all my most primal instincts has been squeezed out of myself 😅 that is why I select lovers i like as people, cause if they are not.. this part its awkward and unpleasant. And I like a good valuable and meaningful experience all around.
I often like to get up and go to the bathroom to re-set and re-fresh. I also find its often nice to have a little space air that gives everyone time to "digest". You know that its been really good if after all that, you still want to get back into bed and feel each others skin, touch and breathe again...
I think that if the attraction is there to have sex, hopefully the new partner is happy to kiss and cuddle as you calm down. I would feel very bad/sad if the partner left the scene after disengaging. For me the calm down is almost as important as the build up / foreplay as it signifies a care for the other. Is it only going to happen once (if one flees the bed that is the likely outcome)?
„I often like to get up and go to the bathroom to re-set and re-fresh. I also find its often nice to have a little space air that gives everyone time to "digest". You know that its been really good if after all that, you still want to get back into bed and feel each others skin, touch and breathe again...
women should always urinate after sex to prevent UTI’s. I mean after that.
In a club or spontaneous (car/outdoor,..) - after a few mins of aftermath definitely "get out"
Apart from that I enjoy a bit of cuddling afterwards, typically w/ her head on my chest or shoulder. Spooning somehow doesn't do it for me, always some of my body parts get numb after a short time
With my wife we would hold or she would lay her head on my chest. With others it depends on how it was...if it was good we both would sit and chill a second if it sucked we would be like okay we are good.