Don't fuck the Company
It's been a while since I posted here, and I though I might share / ask a question. But first let me describe my experience in short. I have been dealing with some emotional issues the last couple of years after my divorce, and a couple of months ago finally got to a point where I was willing to try again... As luck would have it, the moment I turned my searchlight on, the first woman it lit up was a work colleague...
Now she has been working with me for more than a year, but all of a sudden we both noticed that we where strongly attracted to each other, and could hardly contain ourselves. Even though we both knew that this was a mistake, we tumbled into each other, not once, but repetitively. To worsen the matter, she has a relationship, and as soon as he found out, playtime was over.
Now a couple of months down the road, she has resigned...
So I was wondering, has anybody here ever had a relationship with someone at work, without it getting weird. I know the general unspoken law of
"Don't fuck the company, cause the company will fuck you"
but maybe this logic is a bit out of date, we are in the 21st century after all.
Anybody care to share some experience, a modern experience that is. Anything older than 10 years is old...