Your Group Sex experience and fantasy

*******brat Woman
386 Posts
Thread creator JOY-Team 
Your Group Sex experience and fantasy
Humans have participated in group sex for times immemorial and many long for this experience. If you had group sex, please share your experience, how did it hold up to your fantasy? What is your advice for those eager to try?
And if you haven’t been able to enjoy group sex yet, what do you wish for what are your fantasies?
Feel free to ask questions too, let’s share our experiences and ideas.
For some questions our article might provide the answers, you are looking for: G is for Group sex

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***ka Woman
10 Posts
I've tried a lot of combinations, with hetero/heteroflexible guys and bi/heteroflexible/hetero women.

Long story short - I am not a fan of a big gangbangs, it's too mechanical. Two, maybe three men are optimal. No one's in a rush.

It's also a nice experience to have women around. I see myself as heteroflexible, I like to interact with women to some degree, even if it is just holding hands.

What I also like is to watch a partner having fun with other woman. Yep, I am a cuckquean. Unfortunately I am single and watching somone you are not emotionally bonded to is not the same as watching a person you love.

I am really into double penetration (one cock in vagina, one in my butt), but it is almost impossible to do even anal itself in a club, not mentioning a good preparation for the dp. I would like to try double vaginal, although I am tight.

It has to be both sensual and perv for me. Some of you who met me already know that *zwinker*
****oz Man
2 Posts
I had first experience in Atlanta. It was my bucket list and I was overwhelmed. I watched mostly the reactions of everyone. I moved around and saw different angles and positions. I was aroused and satisfied with the echo and moaning mostly from women.
Finally, I got to play and went home fulfilled.
*********Sweet Couple
15 Posts
Regular gangbangs with many men and a few women at a time. Not a fantasy or a want, they are a need. I need to be fucked and degraded regularly by as many men as possible. *kuss2*
*********olate Woman
11 Posts
My good friend hosts bdsm and gangbang parties regularly. The atmosphere is very nice. Mystique. Trusting. Open. Mysterious. Energizing. The people are open and friendly. For me, it has never been a need. It s just a lovely evening, where I see, learn and experience new things. I have a group of friends who are sexually open. Dinner parties or pikniks become sexual. Hanging out together often ends up in sexual games or experiences. Just alot of fun.
*******_84 Man
44 Posts
I enjoy group activities from time to time. Smaller groups, with a fairly balanced ratio of men to women are good fun.

But larger parties can be great too. Like, you could meet a complete stranger and end up playing together without ever knowing their name. The mystery is a real turn-on.

Not really a need for me. But a treat to enjoy occasionally
*********ting Couple
2 Posts
So group outing take some getting use too essentially for the guy, some couples deal with jealousy issues and some guys have to deal with stage fright, always best for the males to take stimulants (viagra or whatever) so they don’t get left out of the fun. Takes a few times to get use to the group setting until you can relax have fun and let things cum naturally. That being said I highly recommend it, just takes some acclimation for the beginners
*****SFX Man
39 Posts
From a single male POV, couples can be complicated. I know a lot of couples that go to the clubs and I am friends with. But I haven’t crossed the line with them to intimacy. I have witnessed a lot of contradiction with some couples I know.

The issue is, I don’t know the couples agreement and its not so easy to get a true representation, because I go more by actions. When I see what I suspect is insecurity, I tend to put on the brakes quickly. I really do not want to be in the middle of a relationship and I am not a third wheel. I don’t have rules except respect. I will not go where I am not welcome nor invited and I will not engage where I am not attracted. Personality has as much to play as looks does. I prefer spontaneous and I think when you start engaging with multiple players, you can’t be spontaneous as it is harder to read the response to that spontaneity. With Couples you are going to not know where the lines are drawn.

I guess, what that means is, I probably am better suited to a group situation if I enter it with someone I am already connected to. And I am not into ownership, so I then don’t have to worry about lines or rules as the person I connect is free to do what she desires. As long as I am respected and vice versa, it works for me.

Bottom line is I need to connect. I am open to the group thing, but I am not going to be turned on if I am not connected, which means kissing, touch tease and all the senses going. If I am not at that point, sex is going to be disappointing and I can be more satisfied jerking off alone in my thoughts.

In terms of group experience, I have had a few offers, but have not gone there except for one situation. It was where a much younger girl (Latina) and I connected in the spa. While talking, she started moving onto another guy while looking at me and as he was massaging her shoulders from behind she started using first her feet then hands on my cock. I moved in and began kissing her and was entirely into it. The other guy did not bother me and it could have been two other guys for all I care. As long as she is enjoying the attention, why not? There was a mental and physical connection between us before it started.
*****SFX Man
39 Posts
Quote from *********ting:
So group outing take some getting use too essentially for the guy, some couples deal with jealousy issues and some guys have to deal with stage fright, always best for the males to take stimulants (viagra or whatever) so they don’t get left out of the fun. Takes a few times to get use to the group setting until you can relax have fun and let things cum naturally. That being said I highly recommend it, just takes some acclimation for the beginners

I never use and don’t need stimulants and stage fright is not a concern ever. Being aroused takes more than seeing a woman naked for me. I need to be connected and that can be conversation, all the senses, but most importantly kissing. Kissing is central to arousal for me and i really love kissing and touch.

If I get to a point I need to take a tablet to be aroused, it is not worth getting aroused for in the first place. If there is a connection, I will be rock hard and being on stage will not impact anything
****BG Man
46 Posts
My best advice is, to have a clear idea of what you want and how far you are willing to stretch your boundaries. To have an open mind without any hang-ups. And most importantly, to be certain that it is something that you really want to try. If you have any doubts, you probably shouldnt do it *g*

Iv always stuck to these and had a great time!
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