Hi Servicebrat,
thank you for the posting.
I've been tying since the mid-1980s, and indulged in the Japanese SM scene for many years before 'coming out’ in Germany a decade ago. So, you could say I'm a beginner... and always will be.
The basic tips I could offer newbies would be:
1. The adventure is with your partner. Not with the rope.
2. Learn slowly. Don't rush to suspend. In the end, you'll find you will learn far more from the partner/s you tie than from anywhere else. Grow together.
3. Beware of those claiming how long they've been doing it (see above), who they learned from, what invented styles or schools they follow, etc. These don't ask you why you want to be tied up. Watch out for narcissistic gurus. Most Japanese recognise their fantasy realms.
4. ‘Shibari’ is just a word for which we have our own in our language/s. Beware of those implying what it might mean, or where it might come from when they haven't travelled widely in Japan, don’t speak a word of the language, and haven't played/tied with nationals. Japanese cultural, societal, etiquette, hedonistic, etc. ideals are not the same as ours. We can only hope to scratch the surface.
5. A good teacher will teach how to find your way, not theirs.
6. Be aware of the commercial bandwagon. Lots have jumped on it to capitalise on the unwitting.
7. Be curious. There's far more to rope bondage than just the macramé. The more you understand the psychology, anatomy, etc., the more rounded you will become, and the more pleasure you will find in the adventure with your partner/s.
8. Keep things simple and spontaneous. If you have the end result in your head before you start, there is no adventure. It's more important to find the beginning: who is your partner at the moment? What are their primal fantasies, desires, taboos, fears, etc.? Why do they want to be restrained?
Best respects,
Sin