We've visited some swinger clubs in the past, but for various reasons, we didn't like the 'swinger-thing' at all.
So we've decided to give kinky dance parties a try - and we were absolutely thrilled and fascinated!
The atmosphere and people we met were so friendly, open minded and tolerant. It felt like a separated universe of love and joy (we're not into illegal substances tho

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Almost every event we know in this context wants to provide a safe space for everyone.
So you should be a respectful person who doesn't judge others due to any beliefs, preferences or opinions that don't fit your own mindset.
If you are, you'll have the chance to meet a bunch of wonderful, colorful, peaceful and cheerful people and have a fantastic time!
Another difference to swinger clubs is that the outfits are often very imaginative and elaborate. Of course it depends on the specific event, but strict dress codes are usual.
If you have any specific questions, feel free to ask.
Kind regards from the female part of the couple 🙃