Ruby Rare

I'm an award-winning sex and relationships educator, on a mission to get people talking more confidently and inclusively about all the things we were taught to feel shame about. I’m curious to have the conversations many shy away from, with a nuanced perspective that holds inclusion and sex positivity at the very core. I also centre pleasure and joy in our conversations about sex! My work is shaped by my experiences as a queer, non-monogamous, dual-heritage person. My pronouns are she/they.

Some of the stuff I get up to:

- Resident sexpert on Channel 4's Sex Rated (coming soon)
- Author of Sex Ed: A Guide for Adults, and I'm currently working on my second book all about non-monogamy.
- Host of workshop series Sexy Sermons.
- Being generally silly and sexy on insta - @*****are
- Ambassador for Brook, the UK’s leading sexual health charity.
- Co-founder of life drawing collective Body Love Sketch Club.
- Host of podcast series In Touch.

When I’m not in full sex-nerd mode, I enjoy seaside swimming, collecting Polly Pockets, and cooking endless Sri Lankan curries. Oh, and I really love jelly.