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Welcome to the JOYclub-Forum

*******ire wrote:

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Welcome to the JOYclub-forum! Here you have the opportunity to inform yourself, to get involved and to exchange ideas with other members. Many members come back again and again, help our newcomers or discuss enthusiastically with us.

New at the JoyClub? Welcome!

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It's nice that you registered at the JOYclub and found your way here. From now on you are a part of our exciting community. Congratulations! We are happy that you are here.

*********mone wrote on 19. February

Hello there. I'd like to introduce myself because...well, why not? My name ist Simone. I am swiss made, living in Germany for about 20 years now.

Porn ... who is the kinkiest

*********igolo wrote:

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Hello beautiful people, This thread is about porn and the variety of categories it does include. As you might know, porn is a wide world.

********odox wrote 7 hours ago

People have different kinks and and category depends on moods. In general I like nice kissing and long foreplay porns.

German vs English Dirty Talk

*****uck wrote:

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What do you guys think? I just can't stand German dirty talk but english sounds so much more sexy <3

********odox wrote 7 hours ago

In my opinion, dirty talking are more effective and erotic in one's native language.

Spit or swallow?

*********igolo wrote:

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Very simple question to the ladies of the forum... do you spit or swallow? And why?

*********mone wrote on Sat, 27. February

@TopQueen74 ... snowballing is where two or more women swap cum from one or usually more men by mouth.

3 Post Lockdown Dating Options - which one do you choose?

*******Lady wrote:

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So picture the end of the lockdown has come and the masses are inoculated and things will be opened again. Which would you choose of the following?

*********mone wrote on Wed, 24. February

Definitely C. I miss going out, I miss people and I miss parties with my lovers and friends.

Share a random thought of the day

*******Lady wrote:

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Random thought of the day to myself : why did I not start dating a hairdresser or manicurist at the beginning of lockdown?

**********i_c_k wrote on 23. February

You are not alone... But whether changes for the good so we better get to it.

Anal sex 101: How to do anal

*******n74 wrote:

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Hello my fellow Kinksters 😈 This thread is for those who really know what to do to prepare and enjoy a pleasant anal experience. It is also for people who want to have anal sex but don't have any experience.

*******Lady wrote on 20. February

And to the three people who’ve reached out already, one offering money, no. Also I’m not a hooker.

For straight males: would you let another guy blow you?

*********epls wrote:

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Of course if you find him attractive 4 you. If you would - would you prefer eg. muscle and manly guy, cheeky young boy? Maybe fem bottom guy? Let me know!

****s85 wrote on 17. February

Nope, not for me, girls only

wrote a short story - wanna know? (Copyright is with me)

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18 and over This post has been classified as over-18 content.

*******021 wrote on 17. February

Thank you very much Grace for your hints. I decide to correct the grammar point, you mentioned (because it makes sense).

Height supremacy vs. bodyshaming

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Dear JOY-community, listening to a comedy special recently there was a bit that touches on something that upsets me for ages: Why is it ok that many women openly state, that they only want tall men but we are enraged if men state, that they only…

****021 wrote on 17. February

The femme od DnD here: I strongly believe in human dignity, irrespective of sex, orientation, physical appearance.

Snow pic challenge

*******Lady wrote:

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We could all use a good smile. It’s sunny today and there is snow on the ground in the Dirty B. How about getting out and taking a pic to make us smile, blush, get turned on, or simply laugh out loud along with you? Post them here.

*******Lady wrote on 17. February

The joys of enacting fantasies... *schleck*now if one was riding that giant mound... 😜

When you go black, you never go back?

*********igolo wrote:

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Hello beautiful people, This is a provocative post. When you go black you never go back! I believe everyone has heard this sentence at least once in life. What do u think? Ladies’ comments are especially welcome!

****eky wrote on 16. February

@rogueky Unfortunately, within race racism is more prevalent than between races in my experience as well.

What's your favorite sex position?

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There are many possibilities for positions during sex. Which one do you like best and why? Curious greetings Rifur JOY-Team

*******io79 wrote on 15. February

@NewYorkCity4U @properzio79 Confirm that missionary with reversed leg positions gives that extra enjoyable friction which works the entire crotch…

Best quality porn?

*******ner0 wrote:

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18 and over This post has been classified as over-18 content.

*******ty69 wrote on 15. February

Thus one is pretty good, always stuck with me from way back in the day. Watch Babylon (2000) Porn Full Movie Online Free - WatchPornFree https://www.

*********igolo wrote:

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Hello beautiful people, This thread is about the foreskin. As you may know in many cultures the foreskin is removed from the penis of baby boys for religious reasons.

*********onfly wrote on 15. February

Just after some intense fun between the sheets...

*******Lady wrote:

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What would you like the interaction to be with your lover? You are the Big spoon? You are the Little spoon? Hugging star fish? Near each other but not touching Get out, we are done. 😜

*****sch wrote on 13. February

For me, little spoon for a few minutes. Then near each other but not touching. Then sleep. Then when we wake up either big spoon and/or another round

Follow Up on why A counter perspective.

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Zo we have the topic//www. joyclub. com/nl/forum/t2612100. what_is_your_experience_with_why. html To generalize the topic a little bit the consensus is that most men are not the nicest ones around.

*********mico wrote on 10. February

I don't think it's a generalized "high success rate", it probably is with women who like those pics.

Poetry celebrating people

*******Lady wrote:

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Please share if you know of a poem that celebrates life, sex or a beautiful human. My favorite so far is: Phenomenal Woman BY MAYA ANGELOU Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.

*********sjohn wrote on 7. February

1. Life’s a B-one-tch 2. A Rock and a hard place(Pun intended on hard)

Is breaking up getting easier, harder, or the same?

*******n74 wrote:

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Hello fellow Kinksters, I'm getting really good at breaking ups. Recently, a really promising guy I really liked broke up with me because of a joke that struck a nerve with him.

*******mot wrote on 6. February

Having firm boundaries on what I will and will not tolerate seems to be easier for dealing with poor matches. I highly recommend it.

5 types of vaginal looks

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Hello beautiful people, Since I notice vaginal look seems to be a popular topic, here my follow up. According to the internet women’ beautiful flowers can be categorized in 5 main looks: 1. Ms Curtains 2. Ms Barbie 3. Ms Puff 4. Ms Tulip 5.

*********igolo wrote on 2. February

@Miss_YinYang I would say you are a mix of Ms Curtain and Ms Tulip. Do you agree?

Vagina cosmetic surgery

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Hello beautiful people, Today we speak about vaginal cosmetic surgery. I have read that the number of women that recur to cosmetic surgery for improving the look of the labia minors is dramatically increasing.

*********igolo wrote on 2. February

Thanks, for bringing this up. As a woman with a big butterfly and knowing pornos for decades, I was thinking a few times about cutting my labials.

What’s your erogenous zone?

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Hello beautiful people, I am here again to speak about your sexual organ. Let’s exclude penis, balls, nipples, vagina, clit, anus and also lips, neck and ears... Beyond these part... where else do u feel the most physical pleasure?

*****sch wrote on 31. January

I agree with scalp massage 💆 , but for a really deep intimate relationship it's the mental connection

Working from Home & Chill?

*******ner0 wrote:

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Did any of you found working from home boosting sexual creativity? I was able to organise a couple of date of "Work from home & chill" with a couple of friends. One was even a colleague.

*******ner0 wrote on 30. January

After few days of fair isolation from both sides, I have met a new friend for a glass of wine at mine.

Nymphomania (undercover)

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Hello beautiful people, Today I propose to speak about a peculiar condition: nymphomania. Beyond the it’s own definition recalling a borderline clinical nature, I believe it has a relevance in the sexual universe, although it rarely heard of.

*****lut wrote on 29. January

hard to be married and be sex slut to soooo many guys

The Forbidden Fruit

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Why is it so tempting for young men to hook up with a married woman? In daily life, girls can get attracted to your status, looks or your popularity among your friends and that doesn't necessarily means that she is craving for you.

*********ty4U wrote on 28. January

I have been a few couples now, and I can say it can be very erotic. Especially when the woman is allowed to play without her husband.

What do you call your private parts?

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What do you call your private parts? In Germany we have many different names for the female and male genitals. Some of them are very direct, others are more trivializing or very personal. I am interested in how that is in other languages.

*********igolo wrote on 27. January

There is only one name: The king —> R O C C O

The first contact: What do you like?

******ins wrote:

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The first contact: What do you like? The first date is preceded by the successful establishment of contact. While some people find it quite easy, for others it's much more difficult.

***ym wrote on 25. January

I like it when a persons profile is actually filled with something describing them and what they are looking for, especially when it isnt…

Girl, Woman, or Lady. Boy or Man: What Names do you prefer?

*******Lady wrote:

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I’ve been called out that I may be the problem when someone uses the term “girl” instead of woman or lady. Do you like to be called “girl”? Are there any other names that you don’t or do like to be called?

*******Lady wrote on 23. January

Hello @Fierce_Lady I like to be addressed in the right situation.

Tips wanted: Cunnilingus

*********igolo wrote:

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Hello beautiful people, This thread wants to open a spot on cunnilingus. I personally love to give it, but I realized I use always the same technique: following labias’ profile with the tip of the tongue to then circle around the clit. So...

********lice wrote on 22. January

@Italian_Gigolo you couldn't be bothered to credit the artist whose work you used to illustrate your post?

Have you learned anything about yourself?

*******Lady wrote:

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During lockdown, have you learned anything about yourself that you might not have known if not for forced lockdown?

***ym wrote on 21. January

Even though I knew that I am extroverted and social, I didnt think I would miss some people so much *lach* Oh and how privileged I am living in my…

Do you even now think of your first love?

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There are memories of everything we do, one of the memories that sticks and probably will always is the memory of my first love. Do you revisit that part of your life?

*******mmer wrote on 20. January

Yes. I think of my playstation 1 from time to time

What do you miss most in this Xtra-lockdown?

*******Lady wrote:

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We’ve made it now 9 months in this lockdown, some freedoms, lockdown rinse and repeat journey. At this point, what do you miss the most from pre-Covid times?

*****sch wrote on 20. January

Nn, sexy eyes with a broad smile... *heul* I miss it so much...

When do you feel the strongest intensity of making love?

*********sjohn wrote:

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When do you feel the strongest intensity of making love. Is it when you talk to each other while making love? or, when u let your body and eyes do the talking.

******bub wrote on 16. January

1) When I see my woman's emotional expression and hear her screaming from the pleasure of both physical and verbal interaction (some women plays…

*********igolo wrote:

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Hello beautiful people, This post is about mindfucking... I personally love it, and it is my favourite practice after sex. For me it means to control a dominate the mind of a devoted woman, bringing her to orgasm just with my words. And I did it.

*****sch wrote on 16. January

Of course I can be more specific: provoking an orgasm to a lady just speaking (no physical touch)! 💪 Italian_Gigolo, so how do you do that?

What is your experience with "why"?

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I tend to cringe a bit specifically when I turn a man down and he asks "why?

*****ina wrote on 15. January

1 or 2 rotten Appels? Sry but you are way of. I am here for a bit over a week. I had ~100 people massage me. 5 were absolut jerks.

FLR explanation request

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I just came across the term FLR-Female Led Relationships and I have no idea what it really means or if there is a general consensus on the meaning of FLRs. It was brought to my attention by sub but I'm not sure if it is any different from Ds.

*******Lady wrote on 15. January

It sounds like cuckolding falls into this or am I wrong?

Greek Mithology & Sex

*********igolo wrote:

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Hello beautiful people, Very few know the greek mith of Tiresias. He was the man who lived 7 years as a woman, knowing all the pleasures of the sex both as a male and as a female.

*******Lady wrote on 13. January

As the Myth goes, his statement made Hera angry and she struck him with Blindness. Zeus couldnt reverse the curse, but only bless him with foresight.

Masos: How to avoid injuries during rough play?

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Hello, fellow Kinksters; I have always enjoyed rough sex. The harder, the better. 🤤 Recently, I was pushing my limits of pain and afterwards I suffered a lot from it. During the act, my endorphins were so high, I felt no pain whatsoever.

*******Lady wrote on 12. January

The lesson I learned from my injury is that after I cum, I can't tell if the play is too hard since my body is full of endorphins.

Interesting in East Germany?

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What do you find interesting in East Germany as compared to west? Or how have your experiences been? For me being in east has been physically more open and more giving as compared to anywhere else in Europe.

****069 wrote on 12. January

Yes, I know *lol* I am not talking about the regional divide but the cultural thing. *g*

Cocks, a Lady's Subject

*********igolo wrote:

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This thread aims at triggering ladies’ responses on the most important topic ever: the cock! It goes without saying that the penis is a the very center of the men’s life.

*********igolo wrote on 11. January

If a man's whole sexual life revolves around his penis, I couldn't be less interested in the man himself and his penis especially.

Creative no spark comments

*******n74 wrote:

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Hello, fellow Kinkstersn What has been your most creative or effective solution for no-spark people who continue to contact you regardless how many times you express disinterest?

********dich wrote on 10. January

(At the risk of being accused of not reading the thread - oh, the irony - I realise that doesn't answer the thread at all.)

Blowjob: a woman perspective

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Hello beautiful people, I was shocked the other day listening at a survey revealing that 3 women out of 4 do not enjoy giving a blowjob! Thus the question to the ladies of this forum... do you enjoy giving blowjobs?

*****sch wrote on 10. January

Sure, not yet. But this is all theoretical. Don't be so serious. We're just a bunch of bored people wanting to talk about sex.

First dates with people from Joy

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Hello, Kinksters 😈 I would like to know what frequently happens when you first meet people from Joy. I have had nearly identical experiences over the past few years on first dates.

*******ner0 wrote on 4. January

Hello Kink-friends, I was wondering if you could share the most exciting first meet you ever had with a fellow kinky-friend?

Matching and Ghosting

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Been on this site for a year now and I’ve noticed a lot of people will “like” and once there’s a match, they never talk or respond. That’s my experience anyway. Easily happens more than 50% of the time.

*******Lady wrote on 2. January

From my point of view, your pics are hot and I might like one of them for the visual aspect etc.

*******ick wrote:

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Hello everyone my name is Berg Aurick and I am a new member on this forum. The reason to join this forum is to know about Escort Agencies and some information about sex.

*******ick wrote on 2. January

Thanks for the information

Hot Indian Wife

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The other day I started talking to an Indian woman on a chat app. She is married with kids but lonely and unsatisfied. We hit it off and agreed to meet up at a local hotel. OMG she is an animal! So sexy but so fucking dirty too.

Guest wrote on 1. January

This can happen only in USA ...not in Germany sadly Hot Indian Wife The other day I started talking to an Indian woman on a chat app.

How long do you have sex for?

*******n74 wrote:

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Hello, Kinksters; I was recently informed that having sex for an hour and a half or longer is a bit more than the average of 20 minutes. I like having sex until exhaustion kicks in or I dry up.

*********ty4U wrote on 30. December 2020

It depends on who I am with and I guess where I am. I like to spend time with the woman or couple... flirt, have a little foreplay, etc.