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Sex forum & erotic forum

The forum for sex and eroticism with tips and suggestions for sexual positions, toys, vanilla sex, BDSM, blowjobs, bondage, erotica, fisting, anal sex, oral sex and more.

Would you participate in a self-pleasure workshop?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers! Sex, masturbation & co are very intimate subjects and often deeply personal and something people may even feel ashamed of.

*****ral wrote 2 hours ago

Ahoj hladam zavilu zenu na orale je tu pozve ma k nej akutne ja som tiez zavisly

New at the JoyClub? Welcome!

*****ich wrote:

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It's nice that you registered at the JOYclub and found your way here. From now on you are a part of our exciting community. Congratulations! We are happy that you are here.

*******ove wrote on Mon, 9. December

Mehr Liebe, mehr Spielzeug, mehr Joy!

What’s the best fetish/latex sex party in Europe?

*****e_2 wrote:

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We’re looking for latex-style fetish parties that are sex friendly. We’ve been to Wasteland Berlin and Crazyland but these end up being more dance parties than play parties. Any recommendations?

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Let’s Talk About Touch- What We Learned Masturbating in a Circle

09 December 2024

Self-pleasure is something deeply personal - but that doesn't mean it can't be learned! Tag along with PlayfulTV to a self-pleasure workshop and see the effects of masturbating in a circle.
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*****ral wrote 2 hours ago:

Ahoj hladam zavilu zenu na orale je tu pozve ma k nej akutne ja som tiez zavisly

New here and could really do with some advice

*********rCane wrote:

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So I need some help understanding the lifestyle in Germany.

*********rCane wrote 5 minutes ago

Hi ever heard of the coconuts and peaches theory? Germans (Swabians even more - I'm a Swabian) are the coconuts.

Masturbation May- I tried mutual masturbation

*********nots wrote:

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May is an exciting month - beginning of summer, start into the holiday season and a full kink calendar. But also it is Masturbation May! A month to talk, share and reflect on this intimate topic I have the feeling isn't mentioned enough.

****ubi wrote 2 hours ago

I did it while being at a swinger club where a lot of bi persons attended. After a while there were a bunch of bi or gay guys watching me.

Do you ever watch fetish films?

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I've been interviewing a beautiful couple who run London Fetish Film Festival and it made me realise I know very few films where fetish and BDSM is the focus. Especially in an artistic and open minded way.

*****e_2 wrote 12 hours ago

If you’re looking for fetish films with raw sex and good music any of the Tanya Hyde films are very good.

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Nudism - being naked and free

19 November 2024

Nudism says: being naked means freedom. What is really behind this closeness to nature? A genuine nudist reveals in an interview.
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****y_7 wrote 17 hours ago:

So love doing it to some extent... specially when she is around, often put the towel or her cloths on my thing as it remain hard most of the time with her

Small Penis advice

*******1985 wrote:

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So, my boyfriend has the smallest dick of all the men i have ever been with. We had been dating for about 9 months, and for 6 months i had been feeling and thinking that it is not satisfing me. But i really struggled talking to him about it.

****y_7 wrote 17 hours ago

Feel sorry for your that you are in the situation...

Feeling naked and free?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, there are people who really enjoy being naked. Like, really really enjoy it. As in, they would prefer to be naked at all times. Maybe you're one of them?

****y_7 wrote 17 hours ago

So love doing it to some extent...

Is vaginal depth important?

*****ass wrote:

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I got the surgery in September and I am now healed enough to where I can technically have vaginal intercourse. However my depth is only between 10-14cm and I was wondering if that would even be satisfying for the person penetrating me?

*********nots wrote Yesterday

I am petite and experience discomfort in some positions during penetration. It is not s very nice feeling so I try to avoid those angles.

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What's a brat?

11 November 2024

The Brat spices up a BDSM session. She role-plays a rebellious brat who needs to be tamed. Sounds nerve-wracking? Read more!
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********ecca wrote on Sun, 8. December:

My kink for crossdressing in sexy lingerie was one of my original kinks and one that’s never left me and never will.

Anal Fisting - ever put your whole hand up there?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, there is a lot of shame around the anal area, so let’s break some taboos! In this week’s article, Divine Theratrix provides us with an explicit tutorial on anal fisting for all the visual learners among you!

***96 wrote Yesterday

My girlfriend has fisted me a couple of times wow and she really gets off doing it

Ever explored the prostate?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers! Anything to do with pleasure and the anus is often considered taboo. But it shouldn’t be, so let’s break it! For people who are lucky enough to have a prostate, this little “button” can provide immense pleasure.

***96 wrote Yesterday

Anal hook hits the spot and you can apply and ease the pressure but u can't beat the feel of touch

Dear Santa, I was naughty...

*********nots wrote:

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And oh yes I was and I loved it! This year I said yes to things I would have said no before. Events in places I would have frowned upon resulted in great sexual adventures! How naughty have you been? Leave me a compliment if you did and tell me how!

***96 wrote Yesterday

I e gone out a few times with a butt plug in talking to people clenching really turned me on

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SEXCAPADES with Lisa Opel

22 October 2024

Exploring your fantasies in erotic literature - Lisa Opel is a pro at doing just that! Watch back her livestream where she reads from her erotic novel, and learn what it means for her to write down her dirtiest thoughts.
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*******3300 wrote on Thu, 5. December:

My self new to the site, I am looking for a mate who have fantasy of travelling around and like to erotic night foreplays can I find someone who are staying or from paris

*********fun98 wrote:

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Hey members, which swinger club is worth to be visited in Budapest?

****aif wrote on Tue, 10. December

The vacation is over now, but we had great time on Tik Tak. Totally worth a visit. Many yrs a go it was a great club, now is full of clowns 🤡

Disabilities and sex...

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When was the last time you saw an event that was catered to people of multiple access needs? Have you ever struggled with your own enjoyment of sex, kink and BDSM because of a disability?

What does Domspace feel like?

******nks wrote:

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A lot has been written about subspace, but not as much about domspace. I was reminded of this recently when reflecting on a recent encounter. For me, I enter a heightened sense of awareness.

**********lippo wrote on Tue, 10. December

I have always been curious to hear what It feels like for a Dom! Glad to know and also surprised! Sounds amazing actually. Thanks 💋 Natalia

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Orgasm as a Tool to Heal - with Guided Masturbation

10 October 2024

Many women feel disconnected from their bodies due to stress or trauma. This article explores how guided masturbation and experts' insights on touch, fantasies, and sexual energy can help you reconnect and heal.
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********rGod wrote on 2. December:

But that's only, like any other drugs, if you abuse it. Moderate use is actually good for you.

Glory Holes in Berlin

*******830 wrote:

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Please recommend a gloryhole in Berlin and the surrounding area

***nz wrote on Tue, 10. December

@*******830 moechtegern, you will be welcome with many to choose from

Let's write an erotic story together - a JOYclub challenge!

*********nots wrote:

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*****pel wrote on Mon, 9. December

I’m so excited for tonight’s workshop - it’s going to be full of inspiration, playful creativity, and plenty of naughty ideas.

Are you a brat?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, the word "brat" has gained quite a lot of popularity with the release of the eponymous album by hyperpop singer Charli XCX.

Guest wrote on Sun, 8. December

Question time Name a fetish that has stuck with you throughout your whole kinky journey.

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Figging - Sex with ginger?

25 September 2024

Figging involves inserting ginger vaginally or anally to trigger pain and pleasure. Are you interested? Read more here!
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*********sBLN wrote on Fri, 6. December:

Pink pssy wins

We want to visit Prague - looking for recommendations.

********dHim wrote:

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We are planning to visit Prague for a week or so in the beginning of January and would love to ask you for tips and recommendations <3 Which clubs are worth visiting, maybe some hidden gems?

*********nots wrote on Sat, 7. December

I love Prague! The alchemist museum is a very special place- magical and educational! Also the Cubist museum.

Need help in sharing Tips for a first timer

******ner wrote:

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Hello, I am single man 35 years old, only speaking english, thinking to visit frankfurt for few days, and decides to visit a swingers club fir the first time, I apperciate your help if you can share tips to consider in visiting sainger club as…

*********nots wrote on Sat, 7. December

Thanks for the revenant advice everyone, I can also recommend DIE OASE *herz* @******ner Make sure to check their events calendar to make sure single…

Crossdressers- wearing lingerie daily

*********nots wrote:

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Crossdressers and male bodied people at kink events do wear lingerie mostly in a submissive context like Sissies as seen at Femdom events. They style and adapt female lingerie from frilly trims to lacy and sheer materials nicely.

****Sen wrote on Sat, 7. December

Sen and I love buying each other gifts, not for birthdays or Christmas, no we have never bothered with them but especially of late we love to buy…

Ginger - spicy in more than one way?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, what do you associate with ginger? Sore throats? Curry? Maybe Christmassy gingerbread? Well, that might change now. Figging is a sexual practice that involves inserting the spicy root into your vagina or anus.

*********sBLN wrote on Fri, 6. December

Exploring fantasies with erotic literature?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, there's a lot of space in your head for your wildest, sexiest imaginations and fantasies in your head. But why keep them there? Our recent livestream guest Lisa Opel has found an outlet for all that : erotic literature!

*******3300 wrote on Thu, 5. December

My self new to the site , I am looking for a mate who have fantasy of travelling around and like to erotic night foreplays can I find someone who are…

Pleasure dominant or caring dominant

******99m wrote:

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Came across these terms for the first time last week & believe they are much more descriptive of real life than the aggressive, degrading, pain & demeaning attitude to women usually portrayed in Penn BDSM.

******978 wrote on 4. December

Is there any swingers club or resort in Phuket

Guided Masturbation?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers!

********rGod wrote on 2. December

But that's only, like any other drugs, if you abuse it. Moderate use is actually good for you.

Who is the best photographer for erotic and sensual pictures

*****nga wrote:

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We are interested in a very TOP photographer for some erotic, sensual pictures taken. Who would be the very best? Anybody knows?

*********hare wrote on 1. December

What exactly are you looking for? Boudoir? Fantasy? Portraiture? Open to it all and suggestions. But interested in a textile free shoot

Clubs in Vienna

*****DAP wrote:

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Dear Joy people, Would like to ask for recommendation for clubs in and near Vienna. We, two couples, are coming there on Thursday 12. Dec. Thanks in advance for all answers...

*********azul wrote:

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I would like to hear some advice on how to integrate into this ‘little world’ as I am a bisex man trying to have some kind of approach to couples or to know how I can talk to someone.

*****inx wrote on 30. November

Well, I would say you’d have the most luck catering your profile to other bisexual or gay men. Then, you’ll probably be in high demand.

Happy Spanksgiving!

*********nots wrote:

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Hey guys did you al know about Spanksgiving? Spanksgiving is celebrated the week following Thanksgiving, and most are unaware of the history of this cherished custom so here is the story.

*********hare wrote on 29. November

May have to give this a go!

When was the last time you went to a strip club?

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I am a HUGE lover of watching strippers work their magic. But as a woman, I've always found it difficult to access strip clubs and indulge in my kinky fantasies through the art of professionals. Do you fancy sharing your own experiences with me?

****ssy wrote on 29. November

I recently had the joy of interviewing a renowned stripper in London, April Fiasco, to hear what her experiences were and learn more about the…

How far do you travel to play?

******nks wrote:

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After a weekend of much fun where several had travelled far to play, it got me wondering. How far do you travel to play? Do you fly, Uber or walk? When the urge and desire is there, what’s a few countries or continents between play friends?

*********hare wrote on 26. November

I am happily fly to any destination while combining play and tourism. So if one or the other does not work out, I am not disappointed.

What's your perfect party?

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From stripping to spanking, swimming pools to chandeliers - what's your ideal kinky party?

*********enjoy wrote on 25. November

Interested question 😎

November 23rd is Polyamory Day

*********nots wrote:

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It's national Polyamory Day on the 23rd November History The digital birth of National Polyamory Day can be traced back to the year 2019 when it started getting recognition in the online world.

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Halloween Photo Contest Winner

*********nots wrote:

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And the winner is... The wonderful Martina is going to receive her gift via post this week. CONGRATULATIONS to you Martina and HUGE THANKS to everybody who has participated- you all looked incredible! Here again the gallery:

******nks wrote on 19. November

Oh wow, congrats! Can we have a photo of Martina with her new gift please!

*********nots wrote:

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Do you guys play games? I mean not ball games and not mind games, but board games! Adults leisurely are playing more and more boardgames. Such a great way to spend quality time together and reconnect!

*********nots wrote on 19. November

Interesting idea @******nks - A dirty play in the mud is the most primal experience I can think of.

Getting wet to get wet!

*********rial wrote:

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Water has many great uses. But next to keeping us alive and being able to swim in it, did you know there’s a kinky side to it for some people? This week’s article’s author Venus Libido is a true water lover - in every sense.

*****888 wrote on 18. November

What's makes you feel comfortable at a play party?

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As a non-binary person, I sometimes find it challenging to navigate party scenes. How has your experience been?

*******fer7 wrote on 17. November

@*********nots will do! ✨🤙

Age play in BDSM

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, ever engaged in age play? Whether as a little, a middle, a caregiver or dom: age play is probably one of the most popular types of BDSM role plays there is.

*****ika wrote on 13. November

@*****ika I´m very sorry for it. You mentioned almost lack of rules and frame.

Conscious kink in Portugal and Spain

*****_ju wrote:

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A thread to share opportunities for workshops, trainings and meetings that focus on self-development, deepening emotional intelligence and somatic practices in Portugal and Spain.

***ig wrote on 11. November

If you want to learn about rope and bondage, i would suggest to follow knoty.pt There are regular munch, workshops and more promoted by them.

Have you ever orgasmed from nipple play?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, how important is nipple play for you? Some are super sensitive with this particular erogenous zone, others barely care for it. And even others even ORGASM from its stimulation.

*******egar wrote on 10. November

Yes my lady often gets so wet we need a towel. As she says, her nipples are connected to her pussy.

Fairies, dragons and steamy sex

*********nots wrote:

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Sex with dragons, vikings or full on blood play with vampires? Welcome to the world of Romantasy - where fantasy meets Romantasyand the result is wonderful naughty, steamy smut.

Guest wrote on 10. November

Thank you for sharing that list @********Luna!

Swingers clubs - events in Copenhagen

*****mmy wrote:

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Hi! Hej! Who has experiences, recommendations about swingers scenes in Copenhagen. I found only 2 clubs and don’t know what to think. Have you ever been in those clubs? It is worth to go?

*****mmy wrote on 9. November

I’m planning to. Tucan is not in Copenhagen. So first my idea was to check swingers in city where I live.

The Magic is where you make it. (More of a blog post)

*********tsman wrote:

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I know this is normally a platform for just talking about subjects of the kinky variety 😂 however I hope that sharing this will potentially touch some similar souls or inspire. and apologies in advance for this rant being in English.

Guest wrote on 7. November

Thank you for your words… I can really feel every word. So true! I wish you a nice day! Cheers Luna

Honest first pegging experiences

*********nots wrote:

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A good old well made strap on should be part of any sex drawer. At least it is part of mine! Presuming one is 'in action' with a man, it is used for pegging right?

Guest wrote on 7. November

yes, I have experience with that, but only with toys myself and not through anyone else...

*********rial wrote:

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Have you ever found yourself wondering: Is polyamory right for me?

*****inx wrote on 4. November

I have been poly since 2008. At this point, my opinion is that you get to pick your poison. Both monogamy and polyamory offer medicine.

Castleevents Eyes Wide Shut Party 2024

*********ebee wrote:

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Hey, has anyone had any experience with Castleevents as of lately? :) We are thinking of going later this year and the planning/location of the event seems top notch, although pricey.

*****nga wrote on 4. November

We have been to 6 parties of Castleevents and we can say that they are fun. Worth going!

Scary / sexy Halloween movies

*********nots wrote:

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Wilspanks and I are going to indulge on our annual Horror movie night. The weekend is for the mad parties but that special day is reserved for an indulgent evening on the sofa. We love a bit of good horror particularly if it comes with spice!

*****a40 wrote on 2. November

Try Lifeforce (1985)

Rough or soft lesbian sex- first experiences?

*********nots wrote:

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A recent survey found that 11.5 percent of women, ages 18 to 44, said they've had at least one sexual experience with another women in their lifetimes.

***rn wrote on 2. November

My first experienc with a woman was a threesome when I was 18, didn't appreciate the experience until last week when I had a one on one with my…

Tantra Massages - worth it?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, tantra is a super popular topic in the sex-positive environment, as it's a practice that is especially conscious and mindful. But what is a tantra massage really like?

******nch wrote on 1. November

I asked but I haven't doing it but I would be try it 🙄😊