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The forum for sex and eroticism with tips and suggestions for sexual positions, toys, vanilla sex, BDSM, blowjobs, bondage, erotica, fisting, anal sex, oral sex and more.

New at the JoyClub? Welcome!

*****ich wrote:

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It's nice that you registered at the JOYclub and found your way here. From now on you are a part of our exciting community. Congratulations! We are happy that you are here.

*********Life wrote on Sat, 4. July

Hi everyone, just wanted to take a moment to introduce myself to y’all. I’m a wife, mother of two, and happily owned by my husband and Master.

Would you ever have sex with a sex doll?

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No awkward small talk, no expectations. Just someone whose only mission is to please you. Sounds tempting? Our author got curious and invited a male sex doll over for a very unusual date night.

*******ro3 wrote 3 hours ago

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Big or small sex drive matters more than size. This is a place to show your cock and what you do with it. Have fun!

*******y77 wrote Yesterday

Any time couples or sexwife or milf or just nice sexy girl😍☺️😌. Don’t waste your time! Write me @****799 Currently in Barcelona

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Know Your Lube

22 April 2026

A guide to lube in kink: types, sensations, and how it enhances comfort, control, and creativity in intimate exploration.
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****A26 wrote on Fri, 3. July:

Water based ones are the best and are good for longer nights, but I love a women who's creams so often that you don't need a lube, if you lick it good 😊

Sexy Brands for Lingerie?

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I'm having a wardrobe make over and looking for new sexy brands to explore. Thinking latex, masks, hoods and silly magic that's highly feminine... Top recommendations please? 💌💌

*******unny wrote on Wed, 8. July

Can farting be a turn on?

*********usPod wrote:

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Have you ever farted with your pants down, mid sex or maybe post orgasm? Were you able to style it out, embrace it, turn it into a kink? Let us know!

******ind wrote on Tue, 7. July

I see no shame in this At moment could be sexy too , if done after anal

BDSM - what is your fav part of the acronym?

*********coach wrote:

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The bondage? or are you more a masochist? I think mine would be the submissive part for sure, but there is soo much too explore

*****SFX wrote on Tue, 7. July

I am a contradiction in every sense….

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I tested a male sex doll

05 March 2026

What is it like for a woman to sleep with a male sex doll? And can a Sex Doll replace a sexual partner? A brutally honest experience report.
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*******ro3 wrote 3 hours ago:

Hi

Pick your dick ladies!

*********ornE wrote:

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Take your dick… I mean pick!

*********torm wrote on Tue, 7. July

Let me know what you think

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How often do you masturbate?

*********coach wrote:

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I dont actually have a answer as it varies. Sometimes its once a week, sometimes a couple of times a month, sometimes it every other day.

*********torm wrote on Tue, 7. July

4 times today already

Porn Filming Location

********ndon wrote:

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Would anyone in the London or Southern UK area be interested in allowing me to shoot a porn scene at their home? You could watch it being shot. It would just be me filming POV and a female model.

******nte wrote on Tue, 7. July

I can accommodate in Zurich And available for outdoor fun in woods ( in Zurich )

Mutal Masturbation is ____

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Finish the sentence

*********torm wrote on Tue, 7. July

Fucking awesome

Exhibitionism in Berlin!

*****OOO wrote:

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Hey, I’m coming to Berlin for the first time on July 23. I’d like to use the opportunity of being in one of the more liberal countries, in a foreign city where nobody knows me.

******nte wrote on Mon, 6. July

Why most women are selfish when it comes to PLEASURE ( when they come first )?

What is your number one thing you bring to sexy parties?

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What is your must have when attending sexy events?

********er84 wrote on Mon, 6. July

Do You Attend Play Parties Solo?

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Have you ever gone to a play party on your own? What was the experience like? Did you find it easy to meet people, or would you rather go with a partner or friends?

***un wrote on Mon, 6. July

I have, it's a bit difficult where I am as I don't fully speak the language but then it gives you the role of lurker.

Your number 1 tips on eating pussy well? *g*

*********coach wrote:

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Something that seems to work every time or is everyone completely different?

****A26 wrote on Mon, 6. July

well well well, there is no one good way, key is to start slow by kissing around it and pause when she is close and kiss all around it - cause that…

Do you like anal?

*********coach wrote:

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If yes, what do you love about it, if no what dont you like about it. I tried it once and was a pleasant experience never really had any major thoughts about it but I know so many people LOVEEEEE it

******old wrote on Sun, 5. July

I love it... I do almost anything to get it...love to be played with first with toys though. I masturbate a lot with my toys anal ...

Thursdays in Berlin

*******sCpl wrote:

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We will be heading to Berlin later this year. Are Thursday parties any good? Should we choose pineapple Thursdays in Insomnia, or Unity at Kit Kat? Or maybe we should go to Avarus?

***81 wrote on Sat, 4. July

You need a situationship after a big break-up... discuss?!

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Someone told me that you need a situationship after a break-up to process all the messy feelings/ bad habits/ toxic traits you might have picked up during the long-term relationship.

**********reets wrote on Sat, 4. July

Looking for a serious, sexually active girl; I will give her the love she needs.

******lut wrote:

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You arrived as a god wearing human skin lust without shame, a scientist of desire, the devil with patient hands. One night. Just one. Enough to haunt my dreams for years.

*****_78 wrote on Sat, 4. July

Hi how are you are you interested à single man

Do women get turned on by Pegging?

*******er9 wrote:

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Do women actually get turned on and enjoy pegging their man in his sissy outfit? Seems like a myth to me. Has any1 actually had this experience or is it only on PornHub etc?

*********Life wrote on Fri, 3. July

I don’t think there is one answer for women as a group; surely it depends on the person and the dynamic between them.

What do you think of lube???

*********coach wrote:

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HAPPY LUBE DAY! For me lube is a non-negotiable. I know others who hate lube and think its the worst thing ever! What do you think? I also always say to people there is a lube for everyone and a lot of people do not realise the different types!

****A26 wrote on Fri, 3. July

Water based ones are the best and are good for longer nights, but I love a women who's creams so often that you don't need a lube, if you…

Parties and locations in Milan?

*****gie wrote:

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I will be in Milan between July 20-24 and looking for a fun party…with dancing and playing…any suggestions…being with it being during the week.

Visiting Berlin

*******oom wrote:

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Hi! We are visiting Berlin for first time during the next few days. We would be happy to receive suggestions about partying and visiting there and perhaps making new friends? Testaferro

*****SFX wrote on 2. July

What are your number one tips for anal play?

*********coach wrote:

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Other than lube hehe, I can already tell that is going to be everyones number one tip

******944 wrote on 28. June

My top tips: 1) Use high-quality lube (silicone-based lasts longer). 2) Go slow and use fingers first.

Is the ‘Oase’ in Frankfurt a good place for couples?

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Can anyone tell us if Oase in Frankfurt is a good place for couples to go? Is casual sex allowed anywhere? We just want to have casual sex and don't invite other women to join us.

******944 wrote on 28. June

I haven’t been to Oase yet, but I’ve been to Club Passion near Bremen and HS in Hude.

What's 1 important thing before you play with new people?

*********sire wrote:

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What is 1 important thing for you to know before you choose to play with someone new? There are so many options out there, and it's easy to get overwhelmed by the choice of possibilities, however being selective is always a good practice.

******944 wrote on 28. June

Clear communication about boundaries and desires. I always ask: What do you like? What is off-limits? And what safeword do you want to use?

Sleeping with a chaser - would you do it?

*****Vox wrote:

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If you were horny enough and cool with whatever the chaser is into would you go on a one night stand with a chaser if you knew you would never see him again?

*******uple wrote on 21. June

Heading to Stiges in July, looking for recommendations to any swinger clubs nearby.

We are half way into the year! Spill your naughty secrets

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What is the spiciest/horniest/most surprising thing you've done this year so far?

****26 wrote on 20. June

Has anyone visited club luxoria or maze groningen? how are both?

Preferences and Expectations in your partner

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Hello everyone, hope all doing fine and having fun, For each individual, you find likes and dislikes, some preferences about how the partner expected to look like.

Attending a play party solo?

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Would you attend a play party solo? & if so, do you have any rituals to feel less anxious & more confident?

*****444 wrote on 17. June

Ik ben nog nooit op zulke feestjes geweest, maar ik zou ze wel eens willen proberen. Zijn er al data bekend?

Have to ever dreamt of having a gangbang?

********oach wrote:

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Gangbangs have been one of those fantasies I've struggles to allow myself to want... I blame society and the way they tend to shame the woman's role in gangbangs.

****y52 wrote on 16. June

Who is looking for fun on the 19.6.2026, 20.6.2026. in Berlin 19 till 40 With women) Wer sucht am 19.06.2026 und 20.06.2026 in Berlin Spaß?

Do you play with people that are intoxicated?

*******ober wrote:

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Interested in hearing peoples opinions on playing while intoxicated - whether one or two drinks is okay or where you draw the line?

****BG wrote on 15. June

Depends how intoxicated. One or two drinks - definitely. Annoying drunk or to the point of making unconscious decisions - no way.

What sex-positive festivals are happening this summer?

*********coach wrote:

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London? Berlin? Anywhere and everywhere what are your recs? x

*******123 wrote on 13. June

Hi, any recommendations for nice sex positive clubs and bars in Porto, PT and Marseille & Nice, FR?

Fantasy Sharing: Outdoor Sex Stories

********oach wrote:

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Intimate Confessions & Fantasy Exploration – Virtual Livestream Ever been turned on by the thrill of almost getting caught? The fresh air, hidden corners, stolen kisses, secret touches… Then is for you.

**n2 wrote on 12. June

Once, my ex-partner and I were driving back from the beach.

Hotel Venus Maspolomas: good or bad?

******ore wrote:

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We are thinking about a visit to Hotel Venus Maspolomas…. Have any of you beautiful people been there and can give us an opinion of how it was for them? 😍😍😍😍😍

********set2 wrote on 9. June

Venus is a nice hotel and ideal for Naturism but swingers tend to go out for fun. There obviously is some play going on but not a given.

Bangkok Swinger Clubs: Any Recommendations?

*******BKK wrote:

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Hello everyone. Does anyone knows one or some swingers club or saunain Bangkok? Thank you.

*****n69 wrote on 6. June

We couple and will visit bangkok on july 2026

How will you be celebrating pride month?

*********coach wrote:

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Happy Pride! How is everyone celebrating this month? Remember, there are no wrong ways to celebrate, and Pride can mean something different to everyone.

****D43 wrote on 5. June

*********coach wrote:

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Finishing the sentence...

*****ket wrote on 5. June

surrendering to your inner most fantasies

Club Equinoxe shoes?

*****iki wrote:

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We read the dress code instructions of Club Equinoxe and everything is in order, the only doubt is about the men's shoes, since in the instructions it is mentioned no "Sneakers". These shoes were ok in many other classy clubs.

****man wrote on 4. June

Any stories abouf cuckldry ?

The Emotional Craft of a Whip

*******lin wrote:

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Creating a whip is both a technical process and an emotional practice. It begins with the selection of material: the leather must be of high quality and have the right texture and resistance.

*****a40 wrote on 31. May

Hm not he kind of whip I like to use and be used on me... but good article. And yes not ewerything is about sexuality.

Ladies, what is 1 thing you'd like men to know about you?

*********berty wrote:

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Ladies, be honest, what would you wish men knew about women? and why is it important? How would that 1 thing would impact your relationship, sex and connection?

**********lanin wrote on 27. May

*lach* @*********etter

Be honest...do you think you're good in bed?

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I feel like it depends so much on chemistry, communication, attraction, timing, confidence, comfort... so many things! Someone can be an amazing match for one person and completely not for another.

**********otwif wrote on 27. May

I’m selfish in bed , I focus on my pleasure, love to feel and enjoy and I enjoy to feel my partners skin and reaction , that turns me on … so all in…

What are you considering a red flag?

*********berty wrote:

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And how many of those do you accept before taking action?

*******ober wrote on 27. May

Needing alcohol/drugs to have a good time or have sex

How important is sex to you in a relationship?

*********coach wrote:

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I broke up with my ex because of it so i'd say very important to me lol

****ch wrote on 27. May

Gotta remember the asexual baddies who have amazing & supportive relationships without the sexual element!

Do you "bad sex" can be improved?

*********coach wrote:

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Hmmm yes and no, I think if bad sex makes you less attraction to someone once that attraction goes that will lead to bad sex and theres no coming back right?

****ch wrote on 27. May

I think it can be improved! Some people need a bit of time to feel comfortable in expressing their wants & desries!

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Let’s destigmatise using lube! Do you like water, oil or silicone based? any favourite brands?

***ll wrote on 23. May

Tips for masturbating if you live with other people?

*********coach wrote:

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Living with roommates, friends, family, parents... It all gets in the way, especially if you're a fan on toys My tips as someone who has always lived with people 1. quiet toys 2. using your hands 3.

*****SFX wrote on 22. May

I have my own place… problem solved!

Hot flirty foreplay you wish went further

*********ornE wrote:

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Tell us one flirty sexual experience that didn’t lead to full sex that still gets you all hot under the collar when you think about it. Mine was at a music festival about 12 years ago.

*********ornE wrote on 22. May

Yeah hot tubs are great places for a bit of secret foreplay. Just got to remember to keep your facial expressions as natural as possible!

What impact has spanking had on you? 🍑👋🏼

********city wrote:

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Because I'm a lover of a big fat pun, what has impact play had on you during your kink journey? As a giver or receiver of spanks: - What's your favourite implement? - How does impact make you feel? - How do you best like to receive impact?

**********otwif wrote on 21. May

My hubb spanks me to the edge of pain and then the pleasure gets awwsome when he sinks into me, the feeling of pleasure is like duble , kinda pain…

Do you see yourself having sex at older age?

*********nots wrote:

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As we live longer, healthier lives, one question becomes more relevant than ever: How long do you see yourself being sexually active?

******ind wrote on 20. May

Great topic. i dont know what i ll do when i m in my 70’s but would definitelly love to meet women in their 70’ s

Do you ever get worried you'll fart while doing anal?

********oach wrote:

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Anal, oral and even face sitting are those intimate acts that I can get super nervous about, especially if I'm feeling extra gassy. Does anyone else relate? What are your biggest fears when it comes to being face to ass...?

******ind wrote on 20. May

If it happens, and it does, we laugh. Lol yes exactly It s even exciting