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The forum for sex and eroticism with tips and suggestions for sexual positions, toys, vanilla sex, BDSM, blowjobs, bondage, erotica, fisting, anal sex, oral sex and more.

Dental Dams - Your Thoughts & Experiences?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers! We've just published an experience report exploring the world of dental dams.

New at the JoyClub? Welcome!

*****ich wrote:

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It's nice that you registered at the JOYclub and found your way here. From now on you are a part of our exciting community. Congratulations! We are happy that you are here.

*********nots wrote on 10. May

@****nny Very good to hear that, livestreams are a great way to join in super close to people's activities- whatever they are! *g*

Masturbation ''Code Names''

*********nots wrote:

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In the UK they say “Flicking the bean” Tell me JOYclubbers - What’s your term for solo play? Is it poetic? Ridiculous? Completely made-up? Even rather strange, if translated from your native language?

*********vely wrote 6 hours ago

One of the British ones that made me laugh the most was "Making little Johnny sick".

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A man, a dental dam & a vulva

13 May 2025

Dental dams put to the test! One curious individual shares their personal experience with these thin latex barriers for safer oral sex. Discover the pros, cons, and surprising realities of using dental dams for cunnilingus and anilingus.
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*********rial
Wed, 14. May

Guys, what Pleasure is to you?

*********berty wrote:

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There is a lot myths about Men's Pleasure. Some say that it's as simple as long as he cums. for some it's more layered and complicated. Since it's the Month of Men's Pleasure, I would love to hear from men, themselves.

********Frei wrote Yesterday

@*********neer if you‘re still looking for a local guide to Köln, hit me up.

Looking for recommendations for swingers clubs in Vienna

*****an2 wrote:

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Visiting Vienna from Singapore. Looking for a recommendation for a swingers club. One day would attend as a couple and one day as a single man. In Vienna on Sunday and Monday. Thanks

What do you need for masturbation?

*********nots wrote:

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Some like it hot Some like it loud Some like it... visual When it comes to solo pleasure, we all have our own vibe. So let’s hear it: What sets the scene for your perfect masturbation session?

*****les wrote on Thu, 15. May

I’m not of a visual guy and I much rather watching someone over porn!

Naked in nature - yes or no?

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I've just spent a week naked in nature and it makes me feel sooooo relaxed, so nourished, so comfortable. And so cheeky! Anyone else relate? Are you a nudey person or a little more private?

****66 wrote on Thu, 15. May

A definite yes to being nude in nature.!

Sex Toys for Men

*********nots wrote:

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Once upon a time, a simple cock ring or stroker did the trick. No tech, no apps—just straightforward satisfaction. Today, men’s sex toys have gone high-tech, blending innovation with intense pleasure.

****nny wrote on Thu, 15. May

@****nny I had the pleasure of doing Shibari on mens balls before and I loved it, how much pleasure it brought them!

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Masturbation May - Month of Self Love

*********nots wrote:

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We talk a lot about self-love: setting boundaries, practicing mindfulness, taking care of our mental health. But what about literal self-love like masturbation? For some, it’s just a physical release.

*********nots wrote on Wed, 14. May

@**********lower you’re very lucky to have such a wonderful man by your side. Couples goals!

Tourist in Dresden for a week - any rec for swinger party?

******fun wrote:

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I am visiting Dresden, looking for recommendations to attend swinger party / orgy event for English speaking guy!

The Art of Self-Love

*********nots wrote:

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Let’s be real—sometimes the best company is yourself. So let's take this moment for ourselves and pay attention to JOYclub’s online course on masturbation for expert tips, techniques and very intimate insights.

*********nots wrote on Mon, 12. May

Indeed! Masturbation is one of the most natural, common, and healthy parts of human sexuality, so why is it still treated like a dirty little secret?

Would you participate in a self-pleasure workshop?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers! Sex, masturbation & co are very intimate subjects and often deeply personal and something people may even feel ashamed of.

****nny wrote on Mon, 12. May

Yes I would.Good to share and celebrate and learn. Let's do it!

how do u go about starting into kinks as a couple?

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I have recently started a 'relationship' with someone and our sex life is great. We want to experience our kinks or whatever u call it together before considering commitment.

********zare wrote on 10. May

I believe that before getting to know those around us, the most important thing is to know yourself, to know your limits (if any), to explore your…

Men, what do YOU really want?

*********nots wrote:

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As we asked the same question about woman last month for the International Women's Day, and April is the month of male pleasure, now we ask you men of Joyclub - what do you really want? Is it a hookup? A real relationship?

****BG wrote on 8. May

Ideally for me, a long-term stag/vixen relationship with the prospect of starting a family and my vixen becoming a hotwife :)

Ideas for games in swingers party?

*********rrow wrote:

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We are going to make a little swingers party, but we need some games and themes for this evening to make dating easy and enjoyable.

****BG wrote on 8. May

Truth, dare or command :D

Hey lover, what is your favourite way to foreplay?

*********berty wrote:

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Is foreplay important to you or do you like to get stuck in straight into the main meal? Or are you someone who like sizzle your lover with dripping desire?

******_86 wrote on 7. May

What gaps did you have in your sex ed knowledge?

*********coach wrote:

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I thought holding hands meant you were going to get someone pregnant and I thought when eggs that were released during periods were the size of a regular egg.

*********nots wrote on 7. May

Interesting question!

Happy Lingerie Day!

*********nots wrote:

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Today is all about celebrating confidence, self-love, and the gorgeous pieces that make us feel amazing in our own skin. I thought I’d kick things off by sharing a photo of myself in my favourite lingerie sets by Agent Provocateur.

**********riMUC wrote on 7. May

Good evening, Unfortunately we had to remove Off Topic posts. Please do not use threads in the forums for dating requests or to make contact.

Dominance = confidence ?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers! Have you ever noticed how confidence often seems to exude a certain air of dominance—or is it the other way around?

****ir wrote on 4. May

In my opinion real dominance isn’t loud—it’s lived. It doesn’t need to prove anything or chase anyone.

Feeling naked and free?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, there are people who really enjoy being naked. Like, really really enjoy it. As in, they would prefer to be naked at all times. Maybe you're one of them?

**********haven wrote on 3. May

Im completely naked right now laying in front of a window on my bed lights on curtains open

Are you a flasher?

********oach wrote:

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Anyone else a fan of a cheeky booty flash, a show of the nipples or a subtle genital display? I realised how much of a turn on it is for me to be given instructions by a top to show a part of my body that, in every day society, we hide away.

**********haven wrote on 3. May

Love flashing my juicy cock driving around with my hard cock out

Swinger Club Recs in Munich Or Private Parties?

**********ers08 wrote:

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I'll be visiting Munich around May 15th and would love some recommendations for the best swinger clubs with a fun, diverse, and sexy crowd. I'm looking for a spot that's lively, welcoming to newcomers, and where the energy is as hot as the people.

**ok wrote on 2. May

We can surely recommend Lilith, very classy and the owner really takes care of everything

Let's talk about Pegging!

*********nots wrote:

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A pegging harness may still be a little dirty secret for many people lying at the bottom of the drawer. Now is the time for it to come out of hiding and be put to use!

*******n12 wrote on 2. May

Hi everyone, I’m new to Germany and still discovering a lot of things I never thought existed before—like the idea of free couples, open…

Which is the best swingers club in Prague?

********ejan wrote:

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We have plans to visit Prague, next weekend, so we are looking for a good swingers club. Is there some?

****un wrote on 30. April

Hi, we visited Fantasy a couple of years ago and really enjoyed it.

Best and Worst Countries for Swingers

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Hi. We are addicted to swing and after 8 yrs, many club, party and event visits, wolould like to make a " Best and Worst " list of countries for swingers. We start. Our opinion is based on real experiences and objective thinking. Denmark 🇩🇰.

******cpl wrote on 29. April

Great post, thanks! Any club recommendations in Germany?

Happy International Arse-Eating Day

*********nots wrote:

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Let’s break the taboo: rimming isn’t just some dirty porn act — it’s a wildly underrated pleasure zone, also for men. Packed with sensitive nerves and often wrapped in stigma, the male booty deserves more appreciation than it gets.

*********hare wrote on 29. April

Wish I had seen this on the day! I absolutely love giving and in the right atmosphere/mood receiving.

Best pegging positions

*********nots wrote:

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New to pegging? Or some experiences have been made as this post shows? Here are my picks for the top five positions to ease you into it... Pegging is an awesome way to stimulate the P-spot and make your partner come like a vulcano!

********sSam wrote on 29. April

I live in Hamburg , looking for ladies Pegging and rimming on me ,write me a dm

Swingers Hotel - Bars Munich

********lion wrote:

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I am on holiday in Munich in the middle of May on my own. It’s my fantasy to be at a bar and start speaking to a milf/cougar that wants to show me a good time or a couple. Are there are bars in Munich where this is a possibility.

**********ers08 wrote on 27. April

I am actually travelling to Munich for the first time around mid May. Would be interested well.

Swingers club Berlin.

******des wrote:

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Hello! We are thinking about going to a swingersclub in berlin on may 2. Can anyone suggest a good club to us? Last time we went to tempeloase but they are closed as we can se it. So we need some new inspiration.

*********smoke wrote on 27. April

Hej ! Vi kan absolut rekommendera Avarus. Det ligger lite ruffigt till men ta en Uber direkt dit och hem så ska det vara lugnt.

Prague Events in May?

******can wrote:

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Any FUN events in Prague 2 - 5 May? FFM/MMF/FF Club suggestions…

What does your aftercare look like?

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Cuddles, a cup of tea, a walk outside, quiet time, space, isolation... What does your aftercare look and sound like? It took many years before I realised what I needed post play.

****rk wrote on 24. April

Hello everyone! I am a single man and will travel to Barcelona for 4days starting 29/04. Can you recommend any nice swinger club or sex club ?

How to initiate sex?

*********nots wrote:

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Do you know the moment where one wants the sex, but not sure if the other does too? Initiating sex can feel nerve-wracking, but it doesn’t have to be! The key is confidence, communication, and reading your partner’s vibe.

Guest wrote on 24. April

The more "natural" you want it to be, the harder it is :) I would say that you feel it when it comes.

Couple Bologna vacation - MFM

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Hey, we ll be in Bologna on vacation for a few days we re planning to go to an alt/hipster bar near our hotel and find and seduce a dude to get back to our hotel for MFM. What are the chances and where to look?

*********neer wrote on 24. April

Sounds like a great time

What do you like most about MFM?

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Dear women, What is the most enjoyable part of a MFM for you? Is it being the center of attention or more? Please share so that the stags can show up better 😊😊😊😊 Thanks 🙏

*******9900 wrote on 22. April

Yekang9900 Yea, I totally understand. I like having sex with women . But a man needs to be involved also. Indeed...

Gender Roles in Bondage?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers! When people think of bondage, they often picture a strong, dominant rigger tying up a soft, submissive bunny. And that's not without reason! Historically, BDSM practices have often mirrored societal gender norms.

********lava wrote on 22. April

You seem far to fake I doubt this profile will be verified. Your profile even reads as an espion.

Full head and dull in bed – How do you deal with it?

*********nots wrote:

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A close friend and I had this conversation recently. She told me she felt mentally overloaded and completely disconnected from her desire. I felt sorry for her so we tried to work out together what can work in a situation like that.

*********nots wrote on 20. April

@*****r65 Thank you so much for your long post sharing so deeply about your approach!

The Science of Morning Wood

*********nots wrote:

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Have you ever wondered why guys wake up with a little tench pitched up? Did you laugh or felt embarrassed? Good news is that this is absolutely normal and rather healthy - it is men's body's cheeky way of showing it's working just fine.

******024 wrote on 20. April

It's called a piss hardon... Can piss until you get rid of it. Can't get rid of it until you piss.

Does Male Pleasure exist?

*********nots wrote:

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It is first of April - a month dedicated to MALE PLEASURE - no joke! So, is male pleasure real? Does it exist beyond the 'cumming'? And when does it actually begin?

*****SFX wrote on 20. April

Pleasure for me is shared… Ejaculation is not the pleasure, the journey is. I walk into a bar and you know instantly when a woman is attracted to you.

Do you like Face Sitting?

*********nots wrote:

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Dear JOYclubbers, do you like face sitting? It’s the ultimate power move for the ladies and a front-row seat to pleasure for the other. Just let go and remember letting your partner breathe!

*****SFX wrote on 20. April

I love it when she rides my face and I feel her thrusting back and forth on my mouth as I see her face react

How far do you travel to play?

******nks wrote:

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After a weekend of much fun where several had travelled far to play, it got me wondering. How far do you travel to play? Do you fly, Uber or walk? When the urge and desire is there, what’s a few countries or continents between play friends?

***69 wrote on 18. April

A flight from Edinburgh to Berlin

What is your craziest masturbation story and/or confession?👅

*********coach wrote:

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Masturbation is a normal and healthy sexual activity. It can help you explore your sexuality, reduce stress, and improve your sleep. So lets open up the conversation, I want to hear your WILDEST stories/confessions.

Guest wrote on 17. April

I was on a coastal walk when I began feeling very horny (walking by the sea can do that to me!).

What's the Kink Outfit of Your Dreams?

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From harnesses to head pieces, gimp suits to latex... Omg there's so many options out there for what to wear. What's your DREAM attire? I'd love to know - drop the name of your fave brand below and share the knowledge honeys.

****ssy wrote on 17. April

Yesssss I love this idea!

Latex – Fetish, Fashion, or a Way of Life?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers! Let's dive deep into the world of latex - not just as a fetish, but as a whole way of life. Ready?!

Guest wrote on 11. April

wish i was able to but my body temperature is too high for it

What do you know about collaring?

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Any Joyclubbers share the desire to want to be owned... As I consider my options, I wonder have you been collared by your partner and what do you enjoy about it? I've always been intrigued how collaring can exist for switches like myself.

*********nots wrote on 10. April

@*****a40 I understand if that is not entirely your thing but I see you appreciate the concept.

Clubs and places to visit in Amsterdam

********_Ivi wrote:

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Hello all, we are visiting Amsterdam for a weekend at the beginning of October. Looking for some recommendations on clubs worth visiting and what to do in the city. Any advice would be much appreciated.

******a65 wrote on 8. April

For BDSM, sameplace on the first Sunday of the month from 15-20:00 Paradise club has also a BDSM party once a month as well.

Hotel in Berlin

**********ENBEE wrote:

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Looking for a discreet hotel in Berlin for a party. Any recommendations?

*********iele wrote on 8. April

https://maps.app.goo.gl/ajqrvihq6SwoH75C6 Rezeption nur virtuell und über Codes. Zimmer gut und sauber. Habt Spaß

Any club tips for a visit to Cologne?

*******ert wrote:

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Does anyone have recommendations for Clubs or parties in Köln? I’m hanging out city on my own, looking for fun:) thx

******_75 wrote:

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Does anyone have recommendations for Clubs or parties in Rome please?

Polyamory – Love Across Borders -

*******eUSA wrote:

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Navigating Long-Distance & Poly Relationships Hello everyone, Polyamory and long-distance relationships come with unique challenges—especially when different countries and cultures are involved.

****94 wrote on 2. April

Thank you so much for taking the time to write this very helpful article

Ladies - Do You Admit Looking for Sex?

*********nots wrote:

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Be honest—are you looking for sex? Not love. Not commitment. Just sex. Why does admitting it feel taboo? Women want sex too, yet society still nudges us to downplay it. But here’s the truth: desire isn’t shameful. Owning it is power.

********andy wrote on 31. March

I’d love to be approached by a woman. I find it’s getting harder to approach women these days, bars and pubs in London anyway.