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Welcome to the JOYclub-Forum

*******ire wrote:

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Welcome to the JOYclub-forum! Here you have the opportunity to inform yourself, to get involved and to exchange ideas with other members. Many members come back again and again, help our newcomers or discuss enthusiastically with us.

New at the JoyClub? Welcome!

*****ich wrote:

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It's nice that you registered at the JOYclub and found your way here. From now on you are a part of our exciting community. Congratulations! We are happy that you are here.

****a79 wrote on Sat, 22. February

Hello to Everbody , I m travelling to Düsseldorf and Köln next Thursday till Sunday . Any chance to join private *party*

Differences and similaries

******a19 wrote:

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How much is important to have differences and similaries between two people in a relationship or other? And how can combine between them? For tastes, preferences, experience, etc?

******a19 wrote an hour ago

What is your opinion on the age difference between sexual partners? 1. Is the difference stimulating...? 2. Whether the difference is discouraging...?

When is it a Big Dick

*******Bill wrote:

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I see it ever so often that women likes to have a BBC, but for the rest of the colour spectrum, it seems there are no abbreviation. Now before you start thinking this is something based on race, it actually more the size that is driving this topic.

*******Bill wrote 16 hours ago

Hallo Lady's, thanks for the input, if I may breaking it down a bit enjoy a more than average girth a little bit more average is what we are…

What do you find most sexy thing in any man/woman.

*****anu wrote:

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What do you find most sexy thing in any man/woman? What is your fetish and obsession?

******777 wrote on Sun, 23. February

As I've written clearly on my profile : People with good manners and good attitude towards life are attractive.

Erotic massage for couples?

**********own88 wrote:

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We saw some ads online for erotik massage for couples, offered by one lady. We are really interested for it. Does anyone have any experience with couples massage? 1. Is it worth it? 2. Can we have sex after the massage session? 3.

******60y wrote on Sun, 23. February

Dreaming about erotic massage to my 63y wife *g*

Thailand: Tips for events wanted

*****fun wrote:

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Hi Has anyone amy odea about meetups or event in Phuket Thailand

*****am2 wrote on Sun, 23. February

Where are private party venues in Antwerpen?

Ladies opinion on pet names

*******Lady wrote:

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Hello ladies and thank you for taking the time to read and answer. I am curious to your opinion when someone addresses you with a pet name that you don’t know and have not met before. For instance: Sweety Babe Hey girl Honey Do you find this cute?

****ee wrote on Sun, 23. February

Real life imho is quite a bit different from movies...

What was the craziest place you had sex?

******ins wrote:

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An exciting quickie in the elevator? Hot games in the office or at a picnic in nature? There are countless unusual places where you can have sex. But what is the most daring place you've ever had sex?

****ou wrote on Fri, 21. February

I had my quicky in a park with a Lady it was night. Then we were caught by a Security 😂😂

What do you call your private parts?

******ins wrote:

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What do you call your private parts? In Germany we have many different names for the female and male genitals. Some of them are very direct, others are more trivializing or very personal. I am interested in how that is in other languages.

****ou wrote on Fri, 21. February

Türkisch: Mann: Yarrak, Penis, Sik Frau: Am, Vajina Lg aus Berlin 😊

Do you like anal sex?

******ins wrote:

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Do you like anal sex? I couldn't imagine anal sex for a long time. I was already 25 when I tried it for the first time. It was a special, pleasurable experience. Today I enjoy anal sex very much.

*********ard12 wrote on Fri, 21. February

I never had till now. But would like to try. Didnt find the lady who also want it. Maybe it changes soon

Which erotic wishes do you want to realize in 2020?

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Do you think about this or do you just let it happen to you? Try something new? Visit a special place? Maybe you want to share your thoughts. I am looking forward to your posts.

******r13 wrote on Fri, 21. February

I have one erotic desire that I want to fulfill. Last year I flew on vacation to Ukraine I really liked the Ukrainian girls they are very beautiful.

When do you like to have sex?

*******ire wrote:

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I would like to know from you, when the desire is greatest with you. In the morning after waking up? In the evening to relax or maybe even a little quickie in the afternoon? I am looking forward to your answers!

******r13 wrote on Thu, 20. February

i prefer the morning and sexual activities for waking up together

Men: Which tricks make you last longer?

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It was in California, 2009 near San Diego. We met at the beach while surfing and we clicked instantly. She was fully aware of her impression and I enjoyed it.

*****rty wrote on Tue, 18. February

Simply the best way of... *traenenlach*

First MMF for merridge couple how was it for you?

*********mromi wrote:

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Hi Few days ago Me and my wife just add a boy for the first time at Avarus club Berlin. How was your first experience? How did you behave to each other after, how did you felt afterward? How was the dynamic between you?

*****s88 wrote on 16. February

When u have no photos no one will text you

Hotel Dates - Why?

******Sir wrote:

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I can think of some practical reasons to spend some time in a hotel with someone: 1: If one of you lives in Bremen and the other in Pirmasens, and you meet at a club in Frankfurt, a hotel makes sense.

*********rlan wrote on 14. February

When it's a clandestine meeting. For instance one partner lives with overbearing parents ...

What is important for you at a first date?

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We have all had those first dates that were a desaster, and those that went perfectly. Imagine a story like this: We met at a bar and it was just - wow!

*********rlan wrote on 14. February

I think the most important thing is not to have any expectations. To be open for the person you are about to meet, and to be yourself. No playacting.

What Role Does 'Power' Play in Your Sex Life?

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One of the most famous quotes of the TV-show House of Cards is Frank Underwoods: "Everything in the world is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.

****ee wrote on 5. February

Sex can be a power play, if you want.

Chemistry, feeling, and affinities.

******a19 wrote:

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How much is important have chemistry, good feeling abd share things in common between two people in a relationship, and in a phisical meeting too?

******a19 wrote on 4. February

Sex without chemistry is the worst we can imagine. We have never been into one night stands or other superficial encounters.

The End of the Partnership is the Start of a Better Sex Life

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There are numerous studies which try to find out what makes your sex life better. One of the aspects which seems of higher importance is your relationship status. Apparently, it makes a vast difference whether you sleep with your partner or not.

*******Lady wrote on 30. January

What are your experiences with length, variety, satisfaction and all the other important aspects of intimacy when you compare your sex life in a…

What are your criteria for building trust?

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Hi, one can say that trust is one of the key point in being joyful in any human being connections and relationships. How do you trust people? what you should see or percive in someone to say oh yes he or she is the one you can trust?

****33 wrote on 28. January

What an interesting question on so many levels. I was just thinking about trust and if I trust the person I am currently sleeping with.

Totally new to sex parties

*******nti wrote:

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Hello guys. im arvin living in winterthur, and also im new to this forum. so hiii all. and im totally new to threesome, swinger, or all kind of sex parties. well im half Mexican and half Asian.

*******nti wrote on 26. January

thank you guys . *danke*

Sex while being watched - How to make this happen?

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My Girlfriend and I have always had the fantasy of being watched while we have sex. We are in Gelsenkirchen for a few days and we decided to do this while we are away from home as no one knows us in Germany.

******60y wrote on 23. January

The same dream have we.

I miss eating pussy!

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I miss eating pussy for a while now. I am in a happy relationship now where my partner says it is so ticklish for her and she starts laughing and the whole sex chemistry changes thereafter. I like her and we have other highly pleasurable sex.

Guest wrote on 21. January

A trick I like to pull now and again is keeping a small ice cube or menthol cough drop in the back corner of my mouth.

Searching for a swinger club in Trier area

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Hello all! I’m wondering if any of you might know of or could recommend any Swinger Clubs in or around the city of Trier. I’ve done some searches, but surprisingly couldn’t find any. Maybe I’m just unlucky in my searches...

Guest wrote on 21. January

following... Awesome! Hopefully we’ll get some feedback as to some places in the region to explore.

How do I best approach people at a swinger's club?

******_19 wrote:

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First club this weekend any tips what to were or approach people?

Guest wrote on 21. January

There is a lot of good advice already on this thread. We love it when a guy says hello and talks to us but sadly it is all too rare.

Live painting erotic

*******ion wrote:

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I have this fantasy of painting/sketching a lady in an erotic theme. I have been to many nude figure modelling sessions and painted, but erotic is something I haven't tried. I have been wanting to. I wonder if this is something a woman would fancy.

*******ion wrote on 19. January

Hello Maracuja, I have done some erotic photography of a friend, in the past.

do people find Indians sexy

*****jay wrote:

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I am curious about how do you feel about Indian men? i am an indian men bit of submissive and i enjoy serving women but i find it really dificult here in Germany to get in touch with women...

*****jay wrote on 18. January

Dreaming about an Indiand men or any colored men to our friends well there are many Indian or colored men around the world you just need to approach…

Quanto vi piace fare i p

******a19 wrote:

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How much do you like petting, kissing, touching, sucking before make love and have a good sex for long? Quanto vi piace fare i preliminari a lungo come baciarsi, toccarsi, succhiare prima di fare l'amore, e Buon sesso?

*********nies wrote on 18. January

Mi piace in ogni caso moltissimo che la domanda venne formulata in italiano :) E tutte queste cose li ci piacciono naturalmente, per non dire che…

Good Swinger club in Vienna?

*******018 wrote:

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Dear all We as couple - would like to visit some good swinger club in Vienna 15 or 16 of January - any suggestion?

********le85 wrote on 15. January

We have visited all swingerclubs, leswing is really the best

Clubwear: Who can explain the dresscode?

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I will go to a club party this weekend but the dresscode has confused me. Is there anybody here to explain or give example for the code below. I dont want to have a surprise at door. Dresscode. Herren...

******ins wrote on 14. January

Hello everyone *meld* Some Off Topic posts have been deleted by us. Please answer the initial question in your posts: https://www.joyclub.

Is it possible to find Love through sex?

*****ien wrote:

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I want to find out if there is anyone that has found love through be sexually active with one person? How long does it take?

****ine wrote on 12. January

Communication is an important part of a relationship. Without fluently communication, it will normally fail.

Recommendations for swinger clubs in Frankfurt?

*******up74 wrote:

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We are absolutely new to swinging Etc.

*******sh2 wrote on 11. January

You could also try https://www.joyclub.de/link/42184134.html It's not far from Frankfurt City Centre.

Kinky holiday gifts

*******Lady wrote:

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Anyone get anything kinky and interesting for the holidays?

*********77_64 wrote on 6. January

Yes..., we want to be kinky *nachdenk* We are very interesting... *slipstrip*

Best Swinger Club in Berlin?

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Looking recommendations and tips for the best swinger or sex club in berlin, thanks

****exx wrote on 31. December 2019

Avarus is nice, ofc depending on who sings up. Schloss Milkersdorf south of Berlin is really nice!

Femdom in Bulgaria?

*********over wrote:

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Any BDSM club or Femdom establishment in the Bourgas, Sunny Beach, Varna area? I am a sub with a property in Sunny Beach Bulgaria, hence my question.

Swing vacation in Bulgaria

*******nna wrote:

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Hi! We are organizing swing New Year vacation near the sea:) what do you think about this idea?

*********over wrote on 29. December 2019

Any BDSM club or Femdom establishment in the Bourgas , Sunny Beach , Varna area?

Frankfurt: Sauna/Spa?

**********man93 wrote:

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Me and my girlfriend are going to Frankfurt next week so we are looking for place where we can be naked with other people. We are in middle 20s so its likely the most of company its younger people.

*******sh2 wrote on 28. December 2019

There are swinger clubs with saunas *sauna* where you can have sex, if that's what you're looking for - https://www.joyclub.

How important is kissing to you?

******ins wrote:

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How important is kissing to you? I love to kiss. For me, kissing is part of good sex. How is that for you? How important is kissing for you? What makes a good kiss? SevenSins JOY-Team

****nh wrote on 28. December 2019

This is the same important

xmas fun: Where to go near Mannheim?

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English guy here alone over xmas can anyone tell me any clubs around or near Birkenau / /Mannheim where I would be welcome

******_19 wrote on 25. December 2019

I’m available kim

Which Swing Club? Wednesday or Thursday

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For a alone man, cologne or Monchengladbach

******398 wrote on 21. December 2019

Bock auf ein heißes Date am Montag?

What is your Christmas like: Fun, Family, Kink or Grinch?

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The Grinch, Krampus, Christian Angel, Santa Claus - the Christmas traditions are about as varied as our interests themselves. Each family has its own rituals, different meals, gift ideas or guest lists. With my family it is relatively simple.

Guest wrote on 20. December 2019

Do women like it when a man cooks the dinner himself on a date? I mean is that an attractive quality or just another something?

The best club in the west part of Germany

*******_63 wrote:

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Who knows the best club in the west part on Germany Is it in Dortmund or Dusseldorf?

********un44 wrote on 19. December 2019

Maybe a bit late but I've only just seen your post.

Men's undies: What's your favorite?

*******Lady wrote:

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So there are plenty of posts on what you find sexy when a woman wears but not so much on men. How do you feel about men wearing the following? Sexy, undecided, on the right guy or never.

*******Lady wrote on 16. December 2019

A) tighty whities- Yummy B) boxers- Meh. No. C) banana hammock-Yikes! Nope. D) leather pants-Depends on junk size E) kilt- Yes!

Do you pee while showering?

*******dy38 wrote:

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When I was a little boy I came to the shower, the idea to simply pee in the tub instead of the toilet. At first I did not dare, but on the 4th attempt it worked.

Guest wrote on 15. December 2019

I did sometime when it was necessary but not often

Describe your sex life with a movie title

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Dear JOYclubbers, Last days I met my girlfriend. We wondered if we could describe our sex life with movie titles. Many film titles can be understood very ambiguously. So here's my question to you: from blockbusters to Bollywood to short films...

***zo wrote on 12. December 2019

Lost in Translation

Lick after cum - Do girls like that?

******ill wrote:

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I will love to know if girls like after a pussy cum someone to lick them 😊😊😊

****ee wrote on 11. December 2019

What a weird thread this is... "girls" are asked, men and one woman answer... *zwinker* I was a girl, eons ago.

Dress code for sex clubs

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Hello! What is the dress code for sex clubs? Both to get in and once you are in? We are a couple that are into lingerie and not S&M. Will be in Cologne next week so need to know what to pack!

Suspender belts or stockings?

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Dear ones, What do you prefer to wear? What do you prefer to look at? Suspender belts or stockings? I like the feeling of the nylon on my skin very much. But what often bothers me is fiddling around with the suspenders.

****uk wrote on 9. December 2019

Lace top stockings with a suspender belt and stilettos, all preferably black. That gets my vote every time!

How much foreplay during sex do you need?

******ins wrote:

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How much foreplay during sex do you need? An extensive foreplay with plenty of time for your partner can be very exciting. Just as much fun makes me but also faster sex in between. How are you doing? Does sex always need foreplay for you?

Guest wrote on 8. December 2019

It depends on first hand how much time you have during that moment, second how does the partner feels if she is too rigid and you have not that much…