Women in charge? - Pegging as a trend?

I noticed the same. But it could also be about MY surroundings. I know a lot of female Switchers who are into strapon sex, with men and women alike. They seem to really enjoy experimenting with being in charge and being the dominant/active part.

Maybe we're just in the same bubble, but maybe it really is a trend among young women.

But perhaps it is also because sexuality in general is lived out more openly. Here at Joy Club too, it is a topic of discussion and thus made accessible to a broad mass and couples can decide whether it is suitable for them or not. I also believe that men have become more open and that the penetration of the anus is no longer seen as a gay practice only.

I am dominant and in to BDSM. I like using a strap on for men and women in that aspect.

I was at a sexually charged party once with normal vanillas and a woman wanted a little more. The men were all spent at that point. I was not and obliged.

It’s a rare occasion I get to use it (them) if the truth be told.

There is no such trend. Absoutely not.

Now only because there are not too many women who might like that, but mainly because most men will not want that either.

Too many (mainly) male fantasies that have been fed by todays unloving, uncaring, unempathetic, terrible porn world are not really interesting for women.

But this is not a new trend, it's rather old and common in many cultures.
The male anus is a source of a lot of pleasure. Why not use it?

I think a lot love being stimulated but feel ashamed talking about it in public.

Fairy

Besides, not every fantasy is caused by "evil porn".

The question of this thread is actually if "pegging is a trend"...

And I insist that no, there is absolutely no such trend.

Well it is you who called it "evil". Porn does have effects on individuals and society as such.

One if these effects is that even the smallest niches and niche interests are forcefully torn into the mainstream by masses of young men who believe that what they saw in porn is reflecting real life. It is not and this should be said very clearly.

And it is you who always blames porn (and condemns it) for men's fantasies throughout the whole forum.
Would be nice to read a discussion without shaming men for their own desires and wishes for once. Not every fantasy is forged by watching porn.

Kailyn and it is you who gets personal - we do make clear statements that are our very personal opinion, which happens to be fed by professional input, family therapists and other friends in our direct surroundings here on the European continent.

Spending a little more time with other sources than this very forum might enlighten you - porn has changed, as has the society - and definitely not everything to the best. Denying or ignoring the effects porn can have of individuals and the society is something you may have decided for, we haven't. We have a certain responsibility towards our kids and they opened up our eyes in ways you obviously are not familiar with. So do not get personal, please.

Joyclub members seem to think that their very own thinking is the average persons thinking. Your choice, not ours.

If curiosity can be a trend, then sure it is imo. And that's not just limited to strapon sex but the whole sex topic in general.
And hopefully many other topics as well.

this is not an invite to write me asking to get pegged.

Interesting opinions, seems like it very much depends on the own social context as well as attitude towards this topic.

I´d be interested in getting to know more about the motivation of women to peg guys.
Maybe not neccessarily strapon pegging alone is a trend but the sexual preferences of women; and pegging is just one of many signs of this.

Could pegging be the manisfestation of growing female independence and emancipation, along with the confidence to be in charge and take what is desired?
Young women genereally seem very confident to me...

For instance, I have myself yet just been pegged by two girls.
The first girl was a bit younger than me but very confident about herself. Earning a lot more money than I do and being used to commanding men, even in professional life. From the first second of our meeting it was clear that she will be in charge and pegging was just one side of this.

The other girl was even more dominant and she didn´t even undress. I felt that for her it was not about the sensuality of anal stimulation and more about the act of humiliation. I also wouldn´t do this kind of pegging again.

Do you go to specialized sex clubs?


Where do you meet interesting people?

No clubs, I meet them here or on Tinder.

But that’s not really addressing my questions😅

tinder?

I think I know what you mean. I did mysef get into strapon sex just recently.
Have always been dominant but taking a guy with a strapon really is the perfect extension for this.

I actually believe that this may just be the manifestation of a shift in gender roles.
These days it is acceptable that women earn more than men, women can be dominant, guys can be shaved and it is nowadays accepted when a guy is in the sub role and gets penetrated by a girl.

My guess is that many women and men would always have liked to try strapon pegging but only now, when social conventions seem to be growingly lifted, such sexual endeavours are taken.

Personally I like both types of pegging. The one where I give very special pleasure to a guy and the one where I peg to humiliate a guy ,-)