Well that's why you are married to your husband rather than some (and lets face it) a virtually random stranger!!!
We have found, especially at clubs, couples often don't want to play that long and most want to move on after playing whereas we like getting to know couples, flirting, playing, chatting afterwards and hopefully play again but most don't want that whereas if you meet the right single guy at a club they will want to play with Tina all night cause she is amazing to play with.
As regards private/home/hotel meets we don't do many of those and when we have it's rarely been more than a few hours of play but once again if you meet the right couple (as our close friends) we often not only play all night but the next day as well. OK we do take lots of breaks but it's not unknown for us to be naked with them for 48 hours then just playing when the mood takes us! But that is so very rare.
I suppose some of the reasons why many 'single' guys that clear off after sex is probably because they have a partner to get home to or that's just what they have been used to when visiting married couples where they just want a fuck and then the guy to go.
I would have thought you would want to get that kind of detail sorted before you meet someone but at the end of the day no one should be matching the level of intimacy of your partner (especially on a regular basis) because if they do you may be in trouble relationship wise!
We have a great sex life and swinging is just the icing on the cake and gives us the opportunity to live out some fantasies and/or give us some ideas that we can bring into our bed at a later date whether that's fantasies or recalling adventures. It's never going to be as good as with our own partners but a single guy can give what I can't give after 35 years of married, the excitement of someone new and for me someone to enjoy and they totally enjoy the experience.
We never hold back and always try to have and give the best experience with other couples that we can but sadly most just want a quick bit of titivation then go, fair enough it takes all sorts, thank God we aren't all the same.
We have had weekends away with other couples with varying degrees of success but we are always up for an adventure!
Be careful what you wish for, if you met us you may be saying 'can't wait to get rid of us' after we have chatted, made love, fucked, eaten, chatted, cuddled, fuck, chat and more for hours and hours!!! hehehe.