„I find it fascinating that men seek this kind of relationship but don't realize (or want to acknowledge) the time and (physical, emotional, and financial) efforts it takes for the Domme to create and support such a lifestyle. It is literally all the time.
How is one expected to be self-sufficient and support such an intense and time consuming relationship while managing children and career?
I am not in an FLR. My husband is a switch and I am dominant but we share responsibilities. I also have no children.
I’ve had many subs and as a former very close friend who is a Pro Domme once told me, sometimes it’s just easier to clean your own damn toilet.
My subs in the past cleaned my house but with input constant from me. I enjoyed the experience as most of these men were ultra professional. (Doctor, airline pilot etc).
I now pay a cleaning service but the smell of cleaning products does turn me on a little if the truth be told.