What "Vanilla" dating app have you had any luck with?

Yeah I think you are hunting unicorns. From a purely one on one, Tinder provided plenty of opportunities for hookups and FWB. But to your point, the girl I've been seeing for a while wants to explore her "bi" side, maybe make a regular friend, and she wants me to just watch (she's possessive 😅). Sounds similar to your situation. We have yet to find anyone willing to even meet for a drink just to see if personalities fit. Let us all know if you find a solution ☺️

Try 3Fun

Thanks 4 the tip 3Fun, checked it out. Any feedback on 3Somes app, anyone?!
Femme of DnD

We’ve had far more success with 3Fun than Joy.

Feeld! You can also have profile as a couple there

.....3Fun app installing......🤣

I am surprised nobody told you here "OKCUPID" I used it when I was living in USA but in Europe is also very good (decent amount of users) and a lot of possibilities to setup your profile.

Did it actually gain any more traction here in Germany, @**********y1981 ?

I remember having been rather infatuated with its question based matching system which I found exceptionally smart - but hardly anybody was using it hereabouts back then.

I also seem to have gotten the impression that it was more used for going after long-term partnerships than loose hook-ups; has that changed?

Cheers

I’ve also found Tinder to be more LTR focused in Switzerland than in the states. As @******ers was worried about, the only comment I received was from a coworker who said it was stirring up gossip in the office…

Had more success on tinder, simply because many people use it.
It is too broad and exhausting though.

Feeld is awesome. That is pretty much a swingers app. Had some success there simply because everyone is there for the same reason.