I have watched and dealt with disrespectful single guys of all ages and races at Avarus Events. it is hardly surprising that Single men are so unfairly excluded and I personally hate being lumped in with them and this is probably why I respect boundaries to the point of language at events and do not presume people speak English. I wait until they acknowledge or commence conversation with me after hearing from the people I am with that I am Australian.
I have been mid intimacy with a woman at Avarus numerous times to suddenly have her jump because some slimebag has touched her inappropriately, without warning, without any previous engagement and without permission or invite. On a few occasions I have lost it at them. One time in the Spa while she was on top of me after this guy did this I said, ‘did you get an invitation? I don’t recall her sending one nor did you send an RSVP, so back the fuck off!’
What pissed me off more was that one woman in the Spa was defending the behaviour saying that it is to be expected in a club. Not every woman wants a gang bang and it disgusts me that a lot of guys think it is okay to just join in without even the courtesy of talking with the lady first. It is disrespectful to the woman and to the person she is with. I think there are very clear signs when a woman wants numerous men at once, and that is fine, but I don’t partake in Gang Bangs as it is not my thing.
I have even had a guy start jerking off right almost in my face while I am with someone to which he was told where to go really quickly. So I get it, have experienced it and I don’t know how to separate yourself from this stigma when you are at a club and single… for me, it is a case of being what some think is maybe stand off’ish but I am hate appearing as such as well, since I welcome conversation.
I don’t think it is reasonable to touch anyone unless you have been given a green light and these guys think a woman having sex that is naked is a green light, so I get why you want to keep it couples only. Thanks to these slime, all single men are deemed persona non grata at events. I just hate their desperation as well