hello everyone

SamePlace bar could be. It's a bar with a small entry fee with play rooms, dungeon area, etc.
Better or different options would mean a trip outside the city. Fun4Two is a popular option if you do that.

Very interesting

If you're looking for general sex positive community (that put a lot of emphasis on emotional intimacy rather than just pure lust), I can suggest the following. They have a weekly playground at Saturdays which has a kinky basement. Plus they also have quite a few sex positive & Tantra festivals.
https://www.odessa.amsterdam/playgrounds

One other community I like is
https://www.exploringdeeper.com/events/

There are also other private communities, temple nights & play parties. If you're interested, feel free to drop me a DM.

But if you're into kink/fetish/sex parties I guess FetLife would be a good place to start

Hi there.
Welcome to the LS
In Amsterdam I have been to Club Paradise, in Northern Amsterdam and I enjoyed it. It was big, clean and had fun facilities.
Attendance was quite average but people were decent and respectful.

Good luck and if you have any questions, feel free to slide into my DM