How do you connect with your partners?

Dear community!

I have an existential question:

How do you connect with your partners?

Does anyone practice couple yoga / meditation / bodywork / osteopathy / classic and tantric massage / eye gazing as part of managing the relationship you're in?

Yes, it's a #nerd_alert post 🫶 Keep reading if you're a sapio-sexual 😊

I've noticed (it's just my observation, subject of change) that a huge load of people stare in their phones on a regular basis (duuh) while their beloved mate is staring into a different screen - and it seems these people are "lost in the net", disconnected from their bodies and each other. As if they're even hiding from honest connection...

Have you noticed this as well?
Whatcha say?


Personally I can't imagine myself being defined by situational opinions or drained in small talks as if I'm obliged to be a senseless "talking head".
I'm a sensualist and I just.feel.a.lot. I hear and speak with touch & it's essential for me to have sensual impressions throughout the day, not just intellectual or "fun".

It's like an existential need for meaning.

I wanna share something private here now, maybe it can spark some inspiration in you guys.

I started developing so called rituals with "ma'monkey"* throughout the day, starting with a morning "grooming session", ending with a night snuggles'n'giggles check-in, filled with reflections and dreams, words and of course touch.

Anyway, touch, huh?

I'm currently researching answers and exploring the path from simple satisfaction through sense to a truly fulfilled life and meaningful connection where touch is a great deal of the success. Well at least that just seems like my major conviction.

Share your feels!


*yes, I tenderly call my partner sweet animal names, but that's another story.