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Share Your Views on Aftercare in BDSM Relationships!

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****tyG Man
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22.08.23 10:25
Share Your Views on Aftercare in BDSM Relationships!
Welcome to a discussion on “Aftercare” in BDSM relationships! I am eager to hear your thoughts and experiences about how aftercare contributes to building trust, emotional intimacy, and overall well-being in BDSM dynamics.

1. Your Take on Aftercare:
What does aftercare mean to you? Share your understanding of its importance for partners’ emotional and physical well-being.

2. Memorable Aftercare Moments:
Have you experienced impactful aftercare? Share a moment or ritual that left a positive impression.

3. Talking About Aftercare:
How do you communicate aftercare preferences with partners? Discuss the role of open communication in establishing personalized aftercare.

4. Exploring New Practices:
Curious about new aftercare ideas? Whether you’re new or experienced, talk about aftercare practices you’d like to explore.

5. Overcoming Challenges:
Share how you’ve tackled aftercare challenges in BDSM relationships.

6. Fostering Supportive Environments:
How do you ensure aftercare discussions are positive and empowering?

7. Engage and Learn:
Read others’ responses, ask questions, and share advice. Let’s build a respectful discussion together!

Join the conversation and share your insights on aftercare’s role in nurturing fulfilling BDSM relationships.
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*******brat Woman
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22.08.23 12:41
I think aftercare is very important and I try to communicate my needs up front and ask about my parnters. So we do know the basics, when we get to that point. Something that is important to me as a bottom is aftercare for tops. I want to accomodate their needs as well and not have the assumption that they just have to care for me.
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****tyG Man
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22.08.23 16:03
Quote from *******brat:
„I think aftercare is very important and I try to communicate my needs up front and ask about my parnters. So we do know the basics, when we get to that point. Something that is important to me as a bottom is aftercare for tops. I want to accomodate their needs as well and not have the assumption that they just have to care for me.

Yah that is a good point from a bottom role .
Many believe tops only has to do the aftercare but I am sure it is both ways …
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*********nots Woman
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27.08.23 17:33
Thanks @****tyG for your comprehensive list. For me as a sub aftercare is very important in order to feel good about myself and the partner. Doing normal, couply things together unrelated to BDSM/ sex would make me feel human and loved, and not make me feel 'used'.
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****tyG Man
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28.08.23 12:49
Quote from *********nots:
„Thanks @****tyG for your comprehensive list. For me as a sub aftercare is very important in order to feel good about myself and the partner. Doing normal, couply things together unrelated to BDSM/ sex would make me feel human and loved, and not make me feel 'used'.

Thanks for sharing your view and yes it is true and it makes big difference in the enjoyment once you feel loved and used by . I totally agree to that . Aftercare matters for me and I hope ppl can take that seriously..
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*******ntis Man
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04.09.23 11:14
Aftercare has even more meaning for me. Sure, first things first: Possibly taking care of physical bruises and then escorting each other back to a real world. Started with an almost ritual-like undressing of the signs of the sub and putting away the signs and tools of the dominant part.
After the action we like to cook something small for a late night snack, sit at the table and actually talk little.
When cleaning up the mess together afterwards, however, we usually laugh heartily and discuss the action before.
Until now, this was the most effective way to digest a session on both sides. Especially when Sub goes over her soft limits or when I've been very hard on her effective no-go limits.
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******_80 Man
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10.09.23 11:30
I traveling to Amsterdam for 3 days on 21 September. Any women or couple want to try swinging clubs, sauna or just have drinks and enjoying the trip together.
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