What do you think about Germans in regards to Sex?

Quote from ****ta:
On a surface I find German men more open and tolerant to a different sex adventures, they appear strong and confident, proud, reliable. Unfortunately, when it comes to gentlemen behaviour and integrity…. Not judging a nation, but individuals I met - they appeared either weak on emotional part, or scared or defensive.

And which nationality in your opinion display both gentlemanly behaviour and integrity? Just curious.
Im sure my answer will ruffle some feathers but if were talking in generalizations I'm going to say Arab and Asian men. That said I believe the qualities can be found everywhere.
*********nder Man
27 Posts
My expierience with german people have been really great for the most parts. Kind, humorous, well-spoken etc. But what I will never, ever understand is the casual use of racial slurs and blatant use of stigmas such as "BBC" "Bulls" etc. In my social circles and many kink communities that is one big, red flag. And considered extremely racist. That as something I have never experienced with any other nation.
If a Black man identifies himself as BBC how is that racist. Its a common dating App description even in the USA.

though i will say i find big White cock strange.

why not just big dick without race.
*********nder Man
27 Posts
Quote from **********tgurl:
If a Black man identifies himself as BBC how is that racist. Its a common dating App description even in the USA.

though i will say i find big White cock strange.

why not just big dick without race.

Just because it's a dating app description doens't make it any less racist IMHO. It is, of course, up to the person in question to identify with whatever the person wants. But that still makes it extremely complicated for a lot of people who does not want to be associated with such terms, and are involentarily put in such racial box.

I'll will encourage you, or anyone else for that matter to read and study the subject. Becuase this is a very complicated matter which i think should be discussed much more openly on this site.

https://www.intomore.com/culture/you/im-not-your-bbc/

https://www.literotica.com/s/the-racist-bbc-cliche-explained
Thank you for the resources. *herz* I will happily check them out.
*********nder Man
27 Posts
Quote from **********tgurl:
Thank you for the resources. *herz* I will happily check them out.

The pleasure is mine *herz* *g*
***nb Man
1 Posts
I love the Germans They are the best. In PDI until the 8 Dec.German people please contact me to meet up for food and fun. Seanx
********mi04 Man
108 Posts
The sounds in German swingers clubs can be quite revealing. The men tend, for the most part, to be silent, with perhaps a slight grunt at orgasm. The women, slightly more vocal. But other than the stiffled sounds, the Germans I've met in German clubs are quite open. However, this course, is a self-selecting population and certainly not representative of Germans in the wild.
My first sexual encounter with Germans was many years ago when I lived somewhere tropical. A friend of a friend was dating a German tourist. He invited my friend and me to join them one evening, and it was clearly something sexual. She was travelling with another woman so it was 3M and 2F. It started out as separate room fun (MMF in one, MF in the other), but after the we swapped once we all ended up in the same room. So based on that I thought Germans were pretty open. Then I met a German couple a few months later, at their hotel. And he just wanted to watch football while she and I enjoyed each other.
Now that I live in Germany I feel that, in general, the Germans are reserved. I don't think I've hooked up with any Germans outside of online dating and swinging sites. Maybe thats me. But there are some very adventurous German men and women, and perhaps, many more who would love to be adventurous but just need a helping hand.
I think that must vary the german men Ive dated were not quiet during sex. Of course the men in joy are by nature the more open ones. Thank god men who make no sounds during sex scare me. *lol*
****ta Woman
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Quote from *******_70:
Quote from ****ta:
On a surface I find German men more open and tolerant to a different sex adventures, they appear strong and confident, proud, reliable. Unfortunately, when it comes to gentlemen behaviour and integrity…. Not judging a nation, but individuals I met - they appeared either weak on emotional part, or scared or defensive.

And which nationality in your opinion display both gentlemanly behaviour and integrity? Just curious.

Touché:)
*******iggi Couple
1 Posts
I am engaged to a german lady, she is hot and veey open minded, we have swung with many couples ,i think germans are very open minded and love sex more 👍😁🏆👩‍❤️‍👨👨‍👨‍👧‍👧🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇩🇪
*****SFX Man
48 Posts
I find Germans a little methodical. I don’t connect that well with them emotionally nor physically… Which is not to be a negative… they just do not seem to be a match for me. I had more interaction with foreigners in Berlin than Germans as a result. I probably do not fit their ideal either. I visited a lot of clubs in Berlin when I lived there and coming out of a 33 years marriage, it allowed me to explore and experience new things and to be released and free of judgement. The German girls always seemed to have an agenda and I felt there was more show than passion. Things were more about trying to stand out, which I think stems from insecurity, rather than be in a moment of passion with another person. it is hard to really know as there are so many people in these clubs, there to purely tick a box, and it clouds the real from the fake.
******n83 Man
2 Posts
I think they good enough, especially at the porn. Have you ever watched how they act and what sex they have? It's quite interesting. However, recently I've found something good from here https://stripprofiles.com/model/lilaphoenix and you can also look at the model from there and get pleasure. I think it's reasonable to try something like that.
*********rlust Couple
312 Posts
Quote from *********nder:
My expierience with german people have been really great for the most parts. Kind, humorous, well-spoken etc. But what I will never, ever understand is the casual use of racial slurs and blatant use of stigmas such as "BBC" "Bulls" etc. In my social circles and many kink communities that is one big, red flag. And considered extremely racist. That as something I have never experienced with any other nation.

*********rlust Couple
312 Posts
Quote from *********nder:
My expierience with german people have been really great for the most parts. Kind, humorous, well-spoken etc. But what I will never, ever understand is the casual use of racial slurs and blatant use of stigmas such as "BBC" "Bulls" etc. In my social circles and many kink communities that is one big, red flag. And considered extremely racist. That as something I have never experienced with any other nation.
I find it actually rather stereotypical that this comment comes from a white person- not a black one. Maybe the latter do not have a problem with the sexual stereotypes associated with them? Anyhow, I would not know though since I do not have a BBC or a SWC for that matter.
As a German though I might have something to say about the stereotyping associated with this particular discussion. Just kidding *zwinker*
I don‘t think that Germans are particularly conservative when it comes to sex. According to my experience, especially Germans from the former GDR are really open- minded and pretty active.

When I was a student in the UK, I was happily surprised that the stereotypical „British reserve“ seems to be a thing from myths. Brits truly give Germans a run for their money! A couple of beers and they drop their inhibitions- along with their pants. I have never received so many rimjobs again. Noice. 😅
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