We are new need advice

Yes, meet for a drink in a public place and then decide....

I usually have the first meeting in a neutral location. And establish expectations clearly. What you want and what you don't want

Go to a swingers spa.... relax in the steam, hottub showers etc....everyone is naked and clean and relaxed... its a great way to start... to experience seeing your wife receive pleasure will be an amazing thing for both pf you

you better meet for a drink or make a video call before meeting

Can you tell a bit more about your concerns?
Have you already found someone that you are planning to meet or are you asking about how to hook up with someone?

If you already have found a third person
or a couple that you don't know since before we would probably prefer booking a hotel room. Then meeting up in the hotel bar. If you feel there is good chemistry continue up in the room. Otherwise just say goodbye and no harm done.

If looking to meet someone.. If a couple we found going to swingers club and just socialising and experiencing the atmosphere was a good start. Then it kind of comes naturally from there. If looking for an extra guy then not sure what the best channels is in UK but either here or another forum.

Good luck and feel free to send a message if want to talk more.

Definitely the best advise 👏🏿👏🏿

First find a guy and get to know each other well. Then let her to decide by her self don’t be pushy.

You must not push her, find a guy she finds attractive on a dating site, pref here , exchange messages then a video call , if all is well arrange a meet in a pub etc and take from there. Maybe your wife should know in her own mind what she wants to achieve or gain or experience of this encounter.
It wasn't clear which one of you first bought up the idea?
Good luck , if your in uk South feel free to contact me.

Good luck finding a Latino bull

you're on the wrong website... you're not going to get any dates from here !

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