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I have been wondering: Is polyamory maybe right for me?

I have never tried, but in hindsight I find that it is probably me. But then... I don't know how polyamory functions, is defined or what it feels like. I am often in a relationship and fall in love with other people. Then I wish I could love them both. Ultimately it leads to break up and new start with a new exclusive partner and the circle continues.

Could polyamory be a way out of this vicious cycle for me? How do I date then? How am I going to bring up the conversation? How much have people to deal with jealousy? How is love shared? How am I going to learn living a poly lifestyle?

I would want to have a community of at least four people, ideally living together and loving being around each other.

Yes, I am wondering!

Being polyamorous sometimes feels like a bit of a science project, there is a lot to learn and to unpack. Generally: to find out if it is something for you trying it out or talking to people with experience is a good start. Finding people open to polyamory can be done different ways, you could find people who already are poly, try to learn from them and maybe find people with whom you have good chemistry.
One thing you should be prepared for is that polyamory requires a lot of communication and openness, trust is super important.
Monogamy gives people a sense of security by coming with a lot of unwritten rules, like it usually being not okay to fuck other people, but it also comes with a lot of unclear territory, e.g. one partner thinks kissing other people is fine, the other sees it as an overstepped lines.
Polyamory often tries to have less of these unwritten rules and start clean and fresh with talking about wants and needs.
Going from simply deciding not to live monogamously anymore to living together in a complex constellation like multiple people living together takes quite a journey.
My best advice: Go and seek poly people, you can learn from them. Don't be scared to be one of the new people and also don't feel like you are "not poly enough" or something, especially if you have one or no partners. If you are in a monogamous relationship right now starting to be poly can put a strain on your existing relationship though, so if so start talking about it with your partner.

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Can't believe I started it all. And I am on a journey! After years of not understanding and even daring to think about it, I have set my profile to say I am poly and have a conversation with my partner.

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