Ever explored the prostate?

Perspective of an exclusively hetero man to prostate massages - with a bit of openness to hear of the experience of others.

The inside of my ass has about an 70/30 breakdown of pleasurable vs painful and I have no real ability to know what sort of day it is going to be.

I have been blessed with partners that are not lacking in curiosity, and I am usually willing to go along with whatever new idea they have, or might have read or heard about somewhere. Over the years, that has brought prostate massage into play semi-regularly....and if it is hinted at during a handjob or blowjob, or during a normal massage, I will usually answer with some form of consent or encouragement to give it a try.

It is clear that going in fast and dry, with long fingernails or very rough fingers is likely to hurt - I also sometimes will have a sensation of burning or discomfort - even with slow prep, lube, spit or the like. I never really eat spicy, and I have no known digestive tract issues....just sometimes it is a very easy entrance that feels like barely anything intrusive at all - and other days it just is not on.

When I have had anal sex with female partners I am also acutely aware of "form on the day" and never have a very specific expectation that this act has to happen on this day - and will more likely err on the side of waiting for a better day.

Am I alone in this? Do others have theories that explain why it is one way on a certain day, and completely different on another...

But on a good day - and possibly one where I have not had a lot of ejaculation in the days prior - in combination with a real cock worshipping hand or blow job - a really good prostate massage elicits an orgasm and ejaculation so strong that I almost feel the need to check if any is stuck on the ceiling

By sheer luck I can make my bum cum it's amazing can anyone else do this too

I love prostate massage, I can do it myself with the right toy, but another lover doing it is the ultimate enjoyment.

Let’s do this together 😘

I've tried but it doesn't work for me. I need someone to help me.

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Yes love it

I consider myself lucky that my hubby loves prostate massages and especially also rimming - both are a huge turn-on for me.

Do you like to have him wear your panties???

Prostrate play was never a thought at all for me until 2 years ago, and wow the different intensity I get when I cum is so good

Very open and explicit video. Thank you @******080 for the personal feedback. I totally agree that it depends on the day and the feeling in the moment. Applies for any anal play in fact!
I tried to do prostate massage a couple of times and the male orgasm is very different with this massage to sex/oral... I am curious to practise to get better at it. I need to build more strength in my hands!

we all don't have enough finger strength. I was using digital stimulation on a woman last night as she wanted to squirt, and when I am doing that come hither motion at that G-Spot area - I always think, I need more strength in my fingers, and less carpal tunnel issues...but we just plow through it...

That said, when prostate stimulation with a blowjob or handjob has led to a volcanic orgasm....it probably was not about strength as much as stick-to-it-ivness and timing....the build up is just like with a woman - repetitive rhythmic back and forth....and when it starts to feel bigger, and you see those tell-tale signs of an oncumming orgasm. increase the tempo and pressure - both on the penis as well as the prostate.

That is different than what most women want - they do better with continuation of what got us close - not a frenzied crescendo....I think this is often the reason why women think men get that wrong a lot - our masturbatory inclination to do things faster and harder as we near orgasm...if we keep the tempo the same, we can masturbate for hours with an erection, but no release (OK, we could when we were young - now maybe half an hour and then move on)

Interesting...! A dilemma regarding any stimulation: It is nice to use fingers since one can feel so much more, but- most people do not enough strength to bring one to orgasm so a toy is then needed.
So how do the rest of the men here feel- Do you prefer prostate massage with a toy or fingers?

Both is nice if you know how tu use the finger, but plug is amazing ijijiji

I love finger's but toys can be nice as well. The best is a mix out of both 😍

We've got a curved prostate toy that vibrates and inflates to over 25 cm in circumference. Amazing!

Oh wow that’s not for the faint hearted! A lot of pressure there I’d imagine.
Now we are going into the discussion of: if size matters - or stimulation matters more!

What is the toy?

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Experienced fingers for prostate massage i number one. The feeling when a woman or man knows how to massage the prostate is unbelievable. I have multiple orgasms as opposed to ejaculations, screaming my head off.
And it is a thrill to do justice to another mans prostate, have him moaning and screaming and shaking and pissing himself and ejaculating not sperm but whatever it is.

A toy is a very much second, it cannot give the same effect, however as a stimulus with a plug up it can enhance the experience that is to come having removed it.