Fetishize black man? Fetischizierung von schwarzen Männern.

Oh ... what an interesting and important contribution! Thanks a lot for this!
I know your line of thought only too well. I struggel with these thoughts almost every day.
Where does racist fetish begin - a seemingly difficult question, but basically quite easy to answer.
First of all, we "whites" should become aware that these thoughts are clearly racist. And especially when we reduce our "preferences" to certain parts of the body. No "glossing over" helps.
But there is hope; once you've admitted that and started to reflect, you can work on your own racism and try to break out of this thought pattern.
In any case, the most important thing is never to lose respect and also to see people as human beings and not to objectify them!

A few days ago a young woman wrote to me asking for information because she is planning to go into business with blacks ... I almost puked at this statement.
My partners have been POC's since I was 25 years old (with one exception) so that I was able to experience firsthand what this "shitty racism" does to a person.

I really appeal to EVERYONE - stop reducing them! Also treats POCs as people, with the same value !


Oh... Was für ein interessanter und wichtiger Beitrag! Vielen Dank dafür!
Ich kenne deine Gedankengänge nur zu gut. Auch ich "struggel" fast täglich mit diesen Gedanken.
Wo beginnt rassistischer Fetisch - eine scheinbar schwierige Frage, aber im Grunde ganz einfach zu beantworten.
Zu allererst sollten wir "Weisse" uns bewußt werden, dass diese Gedanken eindeutig rassitisch sind. Und vor allem, wenn wir unsere "Vorlieben" auf bestimmte Körperteile reduzieren. Da hilft auch kein "Beschönigen".

Aber es gibt Hoffnung; hat man sich dass erst mal eingestanden und angefangen zu reflektieren, kann man an seinem eigenen Rassismus arbeiten und versuchen, aus diesen Denkmuster auszubrechen.
Das Wichtigste ist auf jeden Fall, niemals den Respekt zu verlieren und auch den Menschen als Mensch zu sehen und nicht zu objektizieren!

Vor ein paar Tagen hat mich eine junge Frau angeschrieben und wollte Informationen, da sie plant auch ins business mit blacks zu gehen.... Bei dieser Aussage habe ich fast das "Kotzen" bekommen.

Meine Partner sind seit ich 25 Jahre alt bin, POC's, (bis auf eine Ausnahme) so dass ich auch aus erster Hand erfahren konnte, was dieser "Scheiss-Rassismus" mit einem Menschen macht.

Ich appeliere wirklich an ALLE - hört auf damit! Behandelt auch POC's als Menschen, gleichwertig !

I ain’t black but I am mixed... my struggle is different but at the end of the day, I get called the same names as every other black dude in this society so I will just speak MY thought on the matter

Unfortunately a lot of the black guys here love the idea of being fetishised... or even worse they don’t even comprehend the basic thought behind it. All they see is the “benefits” which (I have to admit) can be very nice🌚

But some posts have been made in a couple of groups where I just have to wonder if the person isn’t ashamed of his own ignorance towards the “issue”. Sometimes I find it very embarrassing tbh.

Thank you for speaking out your mind.
We need more voices to call it out.

I tend to wonder is it because the color of my skin or is it for the (bbc) big black cock, because big cock can be really any color just like any other size cock. For some I believe they have a fantasy just to be with black men because it’s different. Some could be preference but to others this could also be a type of ignorance. I don’t run around saying I’m hung like a horse ( I am above average) but as a black man in the lifestyle it’s frowned at or a turn off to women or couples looking for bbc which is seemly to be the huge porno cock of their dreams. I guarantee I have plenty to please and for those women and couple looking for the porn bbc have fun