Anal Masturbation: 5 tips for anal play for men

During anal masturbation you stimulate the anal region and prostate, which can lead you to reach a highly intense orgasm. It has a completely different quality, triggers different feelings and also lasts longer than the climax during usual masturbation. Here we explain to you how it works!

Anal masturbation: Endorphinic rain through the back door!

Gay, dirty, painful. Anal play for men is loaded with all kinds of reservations. It’s about time to tackle the stereotypes that inhibit men from tapping into an erotic wonderland on their own bodies.

Numerous nerve endings around the anus and the prostate, which is often referred to as the man's G-spot (also P-spot), promise a particularly intense climax thanks to extensive endorphin release. This, of course, requires overcoming and openness. But know that it pays off: anal masturbation is a gift that you have not yet dared to unpack.

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You have this grandiose terrain on your body that enables intense experiences, and you let it lie fallow?

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Tip 1: Break down mental prejudices against anal play!

There are three main reservations that still inexperienced, heterosexual men have about this topic when it comes to their own anal stimulation.

First prejudice: Isn't that gay?

Yes, definitely. Now it's out: you're gay. When are you going to tell your parents? Jokes aside, equating anal pleasure with homosexuality is nothing more than a crude stereotype. It's not the chosen orifice you insert something into for pleasure that determines whether you're gay. It's who you love. So calm down.

Anus and perineum are erogenous zones. But how do you overcome the inhibition threshold? Openness is the magic word. And anticipation of an exciting experience. After all, you have this grandiose, pleasure-fueling terrain on your own body that makes new, intense experiences possible, and you let it lie fallow?

Second prejudice: Isn't that unhygienic?

The anal canal, the name says it, is a passageway, not a storage room. Careful washing of the anal region while showering is sufficient in most cases. Shower, soap and off you go.

Cleaning inside the anal canal is not mandatory. If you are uncomfortable with bare-finger stimulation, finger condoms or gloves can help.

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Third prejudice: Doesn't it hurt?

We advise against a cold start with large calibers. The anus, rectum and perineum are highly sensitive territory. No fun without patient preparation. Painful tears in tissue and muscles are imminent. Don't skimp on lubricant and take the time to stretch the target area sufficiently, for example with one or two fingers.

What applies to all sexual interactions also applies to anal masturbation: an open and relaxed approach increases the likelihood of a pleasurable experience.

Tip 2: Start with first anal explorations

Miraculously, there is no starter kit for anal masturbation. But with lube and wet wipes or tissues, you're ready for your first attempts.

For initial explorations, the perineum is the best choice, that strip of skin between the scrotum and the anus. You can stimulate your prostate by stroking and massaging the perineum. Here's how to get started:

Onto the perineum!

A knowledgeable masturbator will have already helped themselves during solo sex with a light perineal massage. Do to this, you satisfy yourself with the "guiding hand", while the other hand strokes or circles on the perineum with ring and/or middle finger.

Find out which pressure is comfortable for you. A pleasant side effect: You can include the scrotum, for example by extending the stroking movement in this direction. Some people will prefer a flat massage. A cloth or blanket over the fingers increases the contact surface.

Take a hot shower!

All this can also be tried out in the shower. On top of that, you can "wash away" any last doubts about cleanliness, and slowly approach the anus. Make sure your fingernails are short and do not scratch.

Tip 3: Familiarize yourself with your anus

You'd better take off your rings, nail varnish is optional - but the fingers are elementary for anal masturbation.

Satisfy yourself and now include the anus. Start your "masturbation routine" and get in the mood. Arousal makes it easier to play with your anus. When you think you're ready, try this:

Place your lubricated middle or ring finger on your anus and gently increase the pressure. Explore the territory with gentle stroking and circular motions.
Insert one finger up to the first knuckle. If the sensation is too intense for you, slow down or try to relax by spreading your legs a little more. Important: Don't rush it, give yourself (and your sphincter) time!
Gently move your finger in and out, gradually penetrating deeper. Switch to a circular or stirring motion when your finger is inside you to its full length (or as far as you feel like it).
Mix thrusting and circular movements as you wish, experimenting with speed, depth, and intensity.
Reapply lubricant.

You may find these points to be too much for one session. If that's the case, spread out your experimental explorations over several sessions.

Tip 4: May I introduce you: This is your prostate

The prostate is a gland that can be stimulated through the anal canal. A prostate massage from the inside - fondly called the queen of all handjobs - holds out the prospect of a tremendously intense orgasm.

Where is the prostate located?

The prostate is about the size of a plum. If you lie on your back, you will find it about six to eight centimeters behind the sphincter towards the navel. If you find a small, bump-like elevation there, you're in the right place. You will notice it.

To illustrate: stretch your arm forward, the back of your hand pointing upward, and now point at yourself with your index and middle fingers. This is roughly the position of your hand and fingers to find - and pleasure - your prostate.

How does prostate massage work in anal masturbation?

Your finger movement should look like you're trying to coax out the orgasm. You stroke the top of the prostate and around it with the tactile surface of your middle or index finger. Start with light stroking, also try circling and "ringing", i.e. short, punctual pressure on the prostate.

In parallel, it is a good idea to stimulate the penis. Some men don't like the simultaneous stimulation of the penis and prostate, which requires a certain amount of coordination and practice anyway. Don’t overtax yourself at the beginning.

Maybe you won’t have an orgasm on your first try. But eventually seeing yourself come without touching your penis is almost like magic! You'll get there!

Good to know:

During anal masturbation, you usually don't have an erection - and if you do, it's very slight. The semen is not ejected, but flows out of the penis relatively slowly.
It can happen that you penetrate too deeply during the first attempts and accidentally massage the tissue at the edge of the urinary bladder. The urinary bladder is also stimulated indirectly by massaging the prostate - but with a direct massage there is a strong need to urinate. So, maybe go to the toilet beforehand.
Often, orgasms caused by prostate massages are very intense and are accompanied by a shortened refractory period, i.e. recovery phase. This means that, if desired, you can quickly move onto the second round.

Tip 5: Toy Stories! Sex toys for anal stimulation

Specially for the stimulation of the prostate there are anal toys. But also a normal dildo can push you into the goal. Here are a few tips:

Look for high quality anal toys

Stinginess is out of place. After all, it is an object that you insert into your anus for pleasure. Quality is a must. Look for high-quality materials like silicone, stainless steel or glass. And beware: to the dismay of the players, it has happened before that a toy has made their way inside the body and out of sight. Anal toys save you humiliating looks in the emergency room thanks to a soft "barb" on the outer end. And start small. And no, that doesn’t refer to your age.

Try out your anal toy gently

Even if you already have experience with anal play, allow yourself an extensive testing, approach and familiarization period with your new sex toy. Get to know each other! Your muscles will work against the "intruder". The request to relax is easier said than done. Maybe a stimulating movie will help you get your imagination going?

Anal masturbation is a gift that you have not yet dared to unpack.

Enjoy!

There are many different ways to approach anal play for the first time, as you can see. Hopefully this guide could help clear up some reservations you might have still held, and inspire you to explore a new erogenous zone! Because honestly, life is too short to keep yourself from exploring your body and sleep on all the pleasure it could bring you. And who knows, maybe you could also get a partner involved at some point..