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Malaga/Torremolinos - Looking for best clubs and beaches

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Hello! Looking for the best clubs and beaches in Torremolinos 24-29 may 😊

Guest wrote on 19. May

Wow I'll keep an eye we will be there the same time : ) Fun :)

Places to Go Baar/Zug

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I'm visiting Baar/Zug in June ant it's my first time in Switzerland, where should I absolute spend a night visiting?

First Time in Berlin, What should I do?

**********veler wrote:

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I'm going to berlin at the end of May. It's my first time in Germany and Berlin. While I do have work related plans, I wanted some recommendations about bars/clubs/etc. I could visit in my down time.

**********veler wrote on 13. May

Ketamine. (not srs ) (I think) lol idk about that one

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Kunyaza instructions

10 July 2024

Kunyaza is a love art from Rwanda in which the erect penis is used to tap the vulva until the woman has a powerful orgasm. We'll show you how to do it.
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*********an47 wrote on Wed, 24. July:

Hope your grandma wasn't in the cupboard

Are you mindful in exploring your sexuality?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, in our latest livestream, Venus Libido and Divine Theratrix had a chat about the importance of mindfulness and healing while exploring your sexual identity. Were you there? Cool! If not, don't worry: You can watch it back!

*******123 wrote on 12. May

Hi every Saturday I'm in Malaga and I look for fun in the afternoon and in the night. I don't have experience here but I would like to try

MMF Threesome - Living the experience!

*********nots wrote:

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There are many dating apps, date searches and posts, hook-ups and ads, but what is the reality behind it? What happens after the call for a date goes out into the world, how does the selection process work and what is the end like, for all parties?

****ris wrote on 10. May

What are your craziest bondage stories?

*********nots wrote:

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I am on the roll about crazy kinky stories! Today I wanted to share my craziest bondage story. Are you ready for some really tight sensations?

*********nots wrote on 8. May

The names Bondrage, Chains Bondrage double penetration ripped oohpen cut and scarred. And whatever you are having? Supposed it hasn’t happened yet?

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My Sensual Shibari Experience

02 July 2024

In a livestream, Anna taught April the sensual side of Shibari. Watch it back here and read April's reflection on the experience!
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***zi wrote on Wed, 24. July:

I am also new here

Bit cucky? Let's talk about cuckolding!

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, do you find pleasure in your partner getting it on with someone else? Or in humiliating your partner by letting someone else satisfy you? Well, you're not alone, and you might be into cuckolding. No clue what that is?

****es wrote on 5. May

We have to try new things to make sure we survive

What are your craziest BDSM stories?

*********nots wrote:

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Are we ready to reveal some secrets here? I am going to reveal my craziest BDSM story here- may not be the craziest for some people but a very memorable one for me, only because it is one from my early days of kink journey so it stuck in my memory.

*********nots wrote on 1. May

I have a couple so I will make them short.

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers!‌ This week, we have something special in store for you: Our JOYclub ambassador Bethany sat down with Sakura for an interview to introduce her as our Premium Partner! Exciting, right?!

*********nots wrote on 1. May

I am making my way to the Femdom even this Friday, cannot wait to be part of @*******ura 's new event empire.

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Intro to Kink

27 June 2024

Want to get started with some kinky play but not sure how? This tutorial is for you! Let Divine Theratrix show you her intro to kink.
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********ando wrote on 28. June:

I am just starting to feel present in life. All the kinks I have I have adressed philosophically and politically lately, I have not liked.

Bdsm berlin: experiences - where and what?

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Planning a week in Berlin, what olaces are there for a while week of bdsm experiences, bdsm clubs, places, dungeons, rent a place for it, workshops or any guided sex tour for a week?

******ayd wrote on 30. April

https://www.joyclub.de/my/10180329.kinkymne.html Not to forget the regular BDSM Lounge events, also to be found here on JOYclub: https://www.joyclub.

What's the naughtiest shit you've ever tried?

**********ver99 wrote:

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I'll go first: I had outdoor sex with a stranger I met in at the park. We fucked in the bushes whilst people went past us along the path, just a few meters away from where we were hiding.

*********r2024 wrote on 29. April

Bit of a long story but the facts are worth sharing.

Clubs in Amsterdam?

********rfun wrote:

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We're heading to Amsterdam for a long weekend, looking for recommendations for swinger clubs there. The only four listed here at Joy don't have any verification/stars, so we'd love to hear from folks that have been to Amsterdam and have thoughts. :)

****BG wrote on 28. April

Hi. Visited Club Paradise in the Northern part of Amsterdam in 2015 and loved it. The club is really big, it was clean and the facilities were great.

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Exploring Female-Focused Events in London

13 June 2024

Sex-positive parties are a great place to explore intimacy - but they're not always a safer space. Anna explored the world of female-focused events in London and here's what she thinks.
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*********life wrote on 20. June:

It was a while back in a place where they sometimes roller skate. Forget the name. I’m seeing more Flinta events popping up on Insta.

Olimia Terme Slovenia?

********ejan wrote:

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Olimia Terme Slovenia? we have plans to visit Olimia, Orchidelia. Someone can share experience?

********ejan wrote on 27. April

Thanks, we are there wednesday and thurstday ...

Toys are for playing!

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, playing is fun, right? And what do you need to play? TOYS! This week is all about sex toys: Venus Libido is debunking myths and breaking taboos on sex toys, all while exploring BDSM toys in her newest article. Click here to read it!

**********veler wrote on 27. April

Personally I've never used one, but have wanted to try.

**********eld86 wrote:

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Let's take the advices. My favourite is Stranglehold - Ted Nugent.

******902 wrote on 24. April

Not sure if its the best, but I definitely think of sex hearing it ;-) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YHToQ2BNYOc

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Understanding Vulvas and Vaginas

28 May 2024

To fully understand sexuality, it's a good idea to start with the basics: Anatomy! Learn all about the vulva, vagina & co in this article.
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****yne wrote on 14. July:

Not to be confused with the vagina, which is internal, the vulva is the external part of the female genatalia. The vulva surrounds and protects the clitoris as well as the inner and outer labia.

Pulling and Playing - do you have a hair fetish?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers! JOYclub is a fantastic place to discover new things, and today we might have something you’ve never heard of before.

****an8 wrote on 23. April

Love scrunching up hair tight as it gives so much control over your partner/partners.

Munich Swingers Club - any recommendations?

******955 wrote:

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Hi. I am visiting Munich for the first time, can anyone recommend the best club to visit?

***ur wrote on 20. April

The 'A' in April stands for ...Anal sex!

*********nots wrote:

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Did you know that April is anal sex month? It is not an official holiday but let's celebrate anal pleasure between consenting individuals, and get rid of the taboo around it! So let's make it a JOYclub challenge: Have YOU done your April anal yet?

*********nots wrote on 17. April

Meine Ex-Partnerin verlangte 'Anal sex', wahrscheinlich zweimal pro Woche. Ich war der Erste, der sie darauf aufmerksam machte ...

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Trying Mutual Masturbation

23 May 2024

Can mutual masturbation enhance the sex life? Here's JOYclub ambassador Anna's experience!
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*********nots wrote on 1. July:

Interesting article! thanks for sharing!

Do you prefer ass or boobs?

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What you prefer You have men Who are ass lopers and men who love boops What you are/what you choose

Guest wrote on 14. April

I love booty also love to massage them

What is the best Swinger Party in the UK?

*********nots wrote:

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Thank you to JOYclubber @SensualSuffolk who lined out a few swinger clubs & parties in the UK. I am quoting them here to show their recommendations. We have the Unseen Lounge listing their events here on JOY already as well.

*********nots wrote on 14. April

We visir Cupid's in Msnchester. We're in the NW frequently so hoping to try some of the others. Found them too!

Another thought form a PoetWolf

*******Wolf wrote:

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I love you naked.  No, not without clothes on.  Naked without your walls up. I love you naked.  No, not bare skinned lying on the bed.  Naked with your mind wide open. I love you naked.  No, not emerging from the shower damp in lust and water.

*********nots wrote on 14. April

I am in awe of your work. It resonates so much- I was told how beautiful I am naked, truly naked without my walls up.

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Paypigs

15 May 2024

Paypigs are slaves who inflict financial pain on themselves by constantly giving gifts to a money mistress. We interviewed a paypig.
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**********inge2 wrote on Tue, 23. July:

Well, yes, there are many ways how people can ruin themselves.

Best parties in Budapest?

*****ght wrote:

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Hello, We are visiting Budapest the first weekend of April, and wondering from locals, what are the best parties and clubs there? Our first time in Budapest. Thank you, N

Guest wrote on 13. April

Interesting thread, will be more often in Budapest this year ;) Last time I stayed at this hotel (see pic).

What is the best Swinger Club in London?

*********nots wrote:

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Recently I shared my personal experience in the London group about my first visit to the swingers club LeBoudoir: My partner, wanted to try a club and it was the first to stand out due to it's central location- and their event listings on JOYclub…

******ini wrote on 12. April

Actually, I just discovered this club -on a recommendation by a JC member here - Thank you! have you heard of it/ been before? https://ourplace4fun.

Swingers experience in South Carolina

*******s61 wrote:

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Hi, I will be the next 2 years on regular basis in South Carolina. Is there a good way in the US to connect with women and couples? Has someone some clubs to recommend? Many thanks for any advice.

**********r2469 wrote on 11. April

You could try SDC. It has a pretty decent presence in US, although I don’t know about South Carolina in particular

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Rediscovering your Body through Mindfulness

07 May 2024

Are you mindful in exploring your body and sexuality? Here are some exercises that might help you keep your focus!
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*******123 wrote on 12. May:

I don't have experience here but I would like to try

Nude Sunbathing around Basel

*********an222 wrote:

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Hi! Looking to spend some time in the warm sun this weekend. Are there any wellness centers with outdoor areas that allow nude sunbathing and use of the saunas? Anywhere within an hour or so of Basel is good. I look forward to your suggestions.

Ever explored the prostate?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers! Anything to do with pleasure and the anus is often considered taboo. But it shouldn’t be, so let’s break it! For people who are lucky enough to have a prostate, this little “button” can provide immense pleasure.

*********_male wrote on 9. April

Experienced fingers for prostate massage i number one. The feeling when a woman or man knows how to massage the prostate is unbelievable.

******ple wrote:

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Can anybody suggest naturist/swingers resort where to stay in Maspalomas? As we was able to book just 3 nights in La Mirage. On booking. com its hard to understand is this for naturist, adults only etc... Thanks!

*****dor wrote on 9. April

Is there a lifestyle hotel or resort in Costa Rica?

Perspective from a Poetwolf

*******Wolf wrote:

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Hurricanes Are Not Just Thunderstorms. I don’t want ‘just sex’. Sex in a vacum Sex in a box Sex for a moment, An hour and then gone. I don’t want to ‘get off’. Get laid. Get some. I don’t want to show up. Fuck, Go home.

*****i26 wrote on 8. April

Lovely. Well said. There's definitely more to this journey than one and done. Lee'Ann

Uniting Zurich 😉 Which 🔥 places do you know?

*******inz wrote:

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Hey 👋 I'm new on this site and don't know exactly how everything works here) I speak English and German both, so you can contact me in any convenient for you language) Which 🔥 places can you recommend in Zurich?

*******am04 wrote on 7. April

Sexual bucket list?

*********life wrote:

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Places are common for bucket lists but do you have a sexual bucket list item or fantasy that you’ve not tried yet?

*********nots wrote on 3. April

Joining a happy couple and give a hi five to the guy while his woman is scream-orgazming in our intense dp. Team work must be great.

Where are all the unicorns?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, have you lost faith in unicorns yet? Well, hopefully Venus Libido can help you restore it! In her new article, she tells you all you need to know about unicorns, how to find them and how to secure one for yourself. Intrigued?

****i2 wrote on 27. March

Hallo, ich bin 21 Jahre alt und am 6. Mai in Stade. Ich möchte ein Mädchen zum Sex treffen

best sex clubs in Frankfurt for Hotwire Fun

*****and wrote:

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We are coming to Frankfurt on March 29 for a few days/nights, staying in Steigenberger Hotel and looking for hot sex clubs to attend for Hotwire to have fun with men

***nz wrote on 26. March

I went to Emmanuelle and played with the wife in a nice couple, but it was a weekday and fairly quiet. Grane opera in.

Do you worship in the bedroom?

*********rial wrote:

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You think you know all sides to BDSM? We might have something you’re not aware of yet: Our author PriestessPow practices BDSM with a spiritual or devotional approach! What that means? Find out in our new article!

*********nots wrote on 24. March

Bonjour, je m'appelle Piotr, je suis polonais, j'ai 40 ans, je ne parle pas français, j'habite près de Paris, Mon rêve est d'être…

Fetish sex club with playroom

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Hi. I want to surprise my husband by bringing him to a fetish club where we can see others to play around in different playrooms. The event should be on 06 April or 07 April.

****79 wrote on 24. March

Guten Morgen 🌞☕

Looking for libertine clubs in Malaga, Spain

******l50 wrote:

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I am planning a short trip to Malaga and the neighbourhood, Spain, at the end of April. Are there swinger clubs in Malaga?

******ert wrote on 19. March

7 km weiter Torremolinos 3 clubs . Eden, Papua ,kamelot swingers.

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers! One moment you're head over heels for your partner, and the next, you find yourself recoiling at the mere thought of them. Know the feeling? Well, the problem you’re facing might be the ick. The ick? The ick.

*******7117 wrote on 16. March

*********rial wrote:

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Have you ever found yourself wondering: Is polyamory right for me?

****21 wrote on 15. March

Hallo, ich bin hier und nächsten Monat in Deutschland. Wer sich gerne vorher vernetzen möchte.

Happy International Women's Day

*********nots wrote:

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International Women's Day is a holiday celebrated annually on March 8 as a focal point in the women's rights movement. It originated during the Suffragette movement and gained importance in the second wave feminism.

****erj wrote on 10. March

И попробуй забыть про цветочки и подарки! )

Looking for swinger clubs in Salou, Spain

*******cki wrote:

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We're planning a trip to Salou, Spain, this summer. But even though the city has quite a reputation for "party central", we don't see any swinger clubs on the map, only strip clubs. Are there swinger clubs in Salou? Or in it's vicinity at least?

*********nger1 wrote on 9. March

Hallo, ich war schon öfters in Salou, aber nie in einem Club. Mit Google findet ihr bestimmt irgendwas. Ob es gut ist, muss man immer selber testen.

Swingers club in Copenhagen, Denmark?

**********sires wrote:

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Hello, Is there a good swingers club in Copenhagen, Denmark, where they accept single men?

*********oyce wrote on 6. March

We had a great experience at Cityswingers 1 and hope to return there some time soon! *herz2*

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Is there any swinger clubs open on a Monday, that is recommended for a couple?

***23 wrote on 3. March

Hey we visited as a couple with a friend of ours (M). We had a great time on a Sunday. The place is by far stunning inside. Not over crowded.

Looking for swinger clubs in Southwest France

**********spect wrote:

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Are there any great swinger clubs in south west France? I have been looking at events and parties in several French cities and does not seem to be very popular. Is it maybe that this platform is not very popular there?

Guest wrote on 3. March

P.s. just update we are not fan as well from now on, they suck and they are bad to be avoided , seems like they are all touristy attractions

Visiting Munich for a day

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Hello. I'm here in munich and i am interested in some glory hole action. Just so you know i'm straight. Where should i go?

weissenhäuser strand hotel

*********lden wrote:

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Hey i visit germany alot at been at this place. Is there any clubs in that area.? Or any meet places for couples? 😊

*****_92 wrote on 2. March

Hey bbc suche spontan Treffen heute abend

Have you ever tried cross-dressing?

*********rial wrote:

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There’s many misconceptions and confusion around the topics of drag, transvestism and transformism - but this shall end now!

****01 wrote on 28. February

I would like to be my bitch 😈👋 I’m far as fuck but I’m as fit as fuck 😋

What do you think about Germans in regards to Sex?

**********ige76 wrote:

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I am curious to hear about your thoughts and what you associate with Germans when it comes to sex? Are we Germans conservative or more open than other nationalities?

Guest wrote on 23. February

I don‘t think that Germans are particularly conservative when it comes to sex.

reverse gangbang

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So everyone knows a traditional gangbang where a group of men share one or two women. but what about a reverse gangbang where a group of women share a man. That's something i'm really interested experiencing personally and would like the chance to.

Guest wrote on 22. February

Sounds like many men’s wet dream, but why would a woman want to share a guy with a bunch of other women? You’ve only got one dick, mate.

The more, the merrier?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers! How much do you really know about non-monogamy and negotiating polyamorous relationships? Poppy and Estella know a whole lot!

******923 wrote on 22. February

Single-Junge sucht ein Mädchen für eine neue Erfahrung!

Looking for Pornokino with body hole in Köln or nearby

**********skink wrote:

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Greetings, I’m passing through Köln and interested in finding a PK with a body hole I’m looking for recommendations in or nearby, a pk that’s busy on a Sunday. Any help is appreciated.

Swingers club in stuttgart for single men

*******win wrote:

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Is there any swinger clubs in stuttgart or couples sauna where single guy is allowed I will be staying in stuttgart hbf

**********_Dina wrote on 17. February

Swingers club in stuttgart for single men Hi there group Is there any swinger clubs in stuttgart or couples sauna where single guy is allowed I will…