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What do you think is positive at COVID-19?

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Dear Community, what do you think is positive at COVID-19? Do you have more time for other things? Explore new Hobbies? How does your daily life changed? In my Opinion, we all concentrate to really important things again and enjoy life more.

*********annie wrote on 13. July 2020

It got me really invested in politics.

When would a woman call her lover „Daddy“?

*****oka wrote:

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This goes to native speakers mostly but not exclusively. In Walter Mosley’s „Killing Johnny Fry: A Sexistential Novel“ there’s a crucial situation when the main character witnesses his cheating girlfriend call her dominant lover „Daddy“.

*********ease wrote on 28. June 2020

My wife and I have a very loving, sensual Dom/sub relationship.

do people find Indians sexy

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I am curious about how do you feel about Indian men? i am an indian men bit of submissive and i enjoy serving women but i find it really dificult here in Germany to get in touch with women...

********odox wrote on 28. June 2020

Well, I am also an Indian and in my experience race sometimes plays a huge role in sex.

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SEXCAPADES with Lisa Opel

22 October 2024

Exploring your fantasies in erotic literature - Lisa Opel is a pro at doing just that! Watch back her livestream where she reads from her erotic novel, and learn what it means for her to write down her dirtiest thoughts.
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*********nots wrote on Wed, 23. October:

Cur10us Thank you for sharing this wonderful story - I have already indulged in it! Well done JOYclub for bringing more of that topic in, as a sexy book worm I am all in for that topic! Cannot wait to take part in Lisa's workshop as well!

What was the craziest place you had sex?

******ins wrote:

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An exciting quickie in the elevator? Hot games in the office or at a picnic in nature? There are countless unusual places where you can have sex. But what is the most daring place you've ever had sex?

****SA wrote on 24. June 2020

"On" a statue in the middle of a field.

Your favorite comedy performances

*********dBoy wrote:

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During these times of Covid-19 the lives of many people are suddenly invaded by negative thoughts and emotions. Maybe this is a good time to remember what and who makes you laugh. After all a hearty laugh is good for your health.

Guest wrote on 21. June 2020

Eddie Izzard kills it here: https://www.joyclub.de/link/42299116.html OMFG this was hilarious *haumichwech*

Searching for a swinger club in Trier area

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Hello all! I’m wondering if any of you might know of or could recommend any Swinger Clubs in or around the city of Trier. I’ve done some searches, but surprisingly couldn’t find any. Maybe I’m just unlucky in my searches...

*******065 wrote on 16. June 2020

So cold this morning, still on my bed 😌

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Orgasm as a Tool to Heal - with Guided Masturbation

10 October 2024

Many women feel disconnected from their bodies due to stress or trauma. This article explores how guided masturbation and experts' insights on touch, fantasies, and sexual energy can help you reconnect and heal.
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*********er86 wrote on 15. October:

I like it, especially when someone is watching and enjoying to watch. And cuming for her... Having masturbation mutually is even more beautiful

Sexy Selfie: Show us your most beautiful side!

******ins wrote:

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Hello, I tell you something like my breasts. That's why I like to show my breasts on my pictures in the JOYclub: How are you doing? Legs, breasts, buttocks or the eyes? Show us your seductive side! SevenSins JOY-Team

Guest wrote on 16. June 2020

*******nic wrote:

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The secret The mild greyish blue of his eyes was gently framed by warm wrinkles while his gaze flattered the young man sitting beside his daybed. "Did I ever tell you about the most determining night in my life, son?

******ane wrote on 19. May 2020

Die unglaubliche Leichtigkeit der Liebe

outdoor sex Andernach?

*********_2019 wrote:

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Anyone experienced something like that here? I´m really curious.

****ace wrote on 17. May 2020

Definitely exciting like others have mentioned. A couple of times in a forest ;)

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Figging - Sex with ginger?

25 September 2024

Figging involves inserting ginger vaginally or anally to trigger pain and pleasure. Are you interested? Read more here!
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*********izard wrote on 8. October:

Never tried it, but would love to find a play buddy, female, to try on the giving and receiving end together during an evening meet.

What will you do next?

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It’s been a busy day. One of those when you can’t wait to shut the office door, get glass of whiskey, lean back on a old leather chair, have a sip and exhale. Shadows of fire place and a small red velvet pillow at your feet.

Guest wrote on 16. May 2020

Then you see me hesitating. Standing next to you and smiling. But silent. - babe. You have something in your mind. Tell me.

Surprised by other cock joining to our play: A fantasy

**********ouple wrote:

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18+ This post has been classified as over-18 content.

********rexa wrote on 20. April 2020

Hey guys, I don't know how did I amazingly get here. Its good to see some people speak English here and such an amazing topic.

She just fucked me hard with a strap on and loved it

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We orderd new toys and what a suprise for me she put a strap on on and fucked me hard and made me fun so much. Is anyone else up for this?

****an1 wrote on 17. April 2020

Yes me too , I wish I could find such a lady

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Symbolism in the Swinger Community

21 August 2024

Explore the world of the swinger symbol and their significance! These are the top 5 symbols of the swinger community.
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****Zyy wrote on 3. October:

Dear Community, As this thread unfortunately never really took off in the right direction, we have to close it here. Thank you to everyone who has commented on this topic in an appropriate and respectful manner.

When is it a Big Dick

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I see it ever so often that women likes to have a BBC, but for the rest of the colour spectrum, it seems there are no abbreviation. Now before you start thinking this is something based on race, it actually more the size that is driving this topic.

*****_sa wrote on 12. April 2020

That does not add up. I tend to be a bit sceptic on this too, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt.

Women in charge? - Pegging as a trend?

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I am interested in the famale side of strapon action; meaning, is it actually such a trend with young women being interested in taking guys with a strapon?

Guest wrote on 21. March 2020

For instance, I have myself yet just been pegged by two girls. The first girl was a bit younger than me but very confident about herself.

Continue the Story: Write your own adventure ...

*******rgos wrote:

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Obeying social distancing in these crazy times means many of our relationships in the near future will be platonic at best. But who said we can't get creative right here till things get back to normal?

*******rgos wrote on 20. March 2020

She squeezed his hand, and nervously nodded towards the stairs. -Must be her, no? He followed her gaze and knew straight away that she was right.

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My First Tantra Massage

07 August 2024

Curious to try a tantra massage, but don't know what to expect? Tag along with Amanda from Playful TV and see how her first tantra massage experience went!
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*****lou wrote on 1. October:

I went with two teachers about 6 years ago. They don't work in the UK anymore. Just Google it... A lot of people do. I'd not be a good teacher I feel

Delightful: Which rituals sweeten your life?

******ins wrote:

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Delightful: Which rituals sweeten your life? In our office, the occasional walk to your favourite pastry chef is part of a cherished ritual that satisfies the sweet tooth. I want to know about you: What rituals do you enjoy?

Guest wrote on 10. March 2020

Morning coffee while enjoying nature...

Overwhelmed Newbie Couple - Selection criteria?

*******rgos wrote:

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Hello, beautiful people of the forum! This must be a rather common scenario: 12 hours after registering you seem to have a ton of interested parties. How do you narrow it down to a handful of options? What methods are still socially acceptable?

Guest wrote on 7. March 2020

Aw, next time screenshots with replies. ;)

Differences and similaries

******a19 wrote:

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How much is important to have differences and similaries between two people in a relationship or other? And how can combine between them? For tastes, preferences, experience, etc?

Guest wrote on 29. February 2020

I think it's extremely important to have similarities in lifestyle and core values.

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4 steps to a nipple orgasm

06 August 2024

Suck, lick, twirl: Playing with your nipples brings you maximum pleasure. How to use the sensitive pleasure buttons correctly!
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*********nots wrote on Mon, 21. October:

Wow, this is a product I have not known of before. Thanks for sharing. And thanks Amazon!

What is important for you at a first date?

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We have all had those first dates that were a desaster, and those that went perfectly. Imagine a story like this: We met at a bar and it was just - wow!

Guest wrote on 27. February 2020

Good smile and respect, i think most people have to high expectations. The person should be to tense 😅.

Thailand: Tips for events wanted

*****fun wrote:

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Hi Has anyone amy odea about meetups or event in Phuket Thailand

*****123 wrote on 27. February 2020

Hi , we are in Bangkok, Thailand. Give us your mail address or chat program id, we will meet up in Bangkok . Our whatsapp id +66882891817.

Erotic massage for couples?

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We saw some ads online for erotik massage for couples, offered by one lady. We are really interested for it. Does anyone have any experience with couples massage? 1. Is it worth it? 2. Can we have sex after the massage session? 3.

Guest wrote on 23. February 2020

Dreaming about erotic massage to my 63y wife *g*

Ladies opinion on pet names

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Hello ladies and thank you for taking the time to read and answer. I am curious to your opinion when someone addresses you with a pet name that you don’t know and have not met before. For instance: Sweety Babe Hey girl Honey Do you find this cute?

Guest wrote on 23. February 2020

Real life imho is quite a bit different from movies...

Men: Which tricks make you last longer?

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It was in California, 2009 near San Diego. We met at the beach while surfing and we clicked instantly. She was fully aware of her impression and I enjoyed it.

*****rty wrote on 18. February 2020

Simply the best way of... *traenenlach*

First MMF for merridge couple how was it for you?

*********mromi wrote:

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Hi Few days ago Me and my wife just add a boy for the first time at Avarus club Berlin. How was your first experience? How did you behave to each other after, how did you felt afterward? How was the dynamic between you?

Guest wrote on 16. February 2020

When u have no photos no one will text you

Hotel Dates - Why?

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I can think of some practical reasons to spend some time in a hotel with someone: 1: If one of you lives in Bremen and the other in Pirmasens, and you meet at a club in Frankfurt, a hotel makes sense.

Guest wrote on 14. February 2020

When it's a clandestine meeting. For instance one partner lives with overbearing parents ...

What Role Does 'Power' Play in Your Sex Life?

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One of the most famous quotes of the TV-show House of Cards is Frank Underwoods: "Everything in the world is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.

Guest wrote on 5. February 2020

Sex can be a power play, if you want.

Chemistry, feeling, and affinities.

******a19 wrote:

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How much is important have chemistry, good feeling abd share things in common between two people in a relationship, and in a phisical meeting too?

******a19 wrote on 4. February 2020

Sex without chemistry is the worst we can imagine. We have never been into one night stands or other superficial encounters.

The End of the Partnership is the Start of a Better Sex Life

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There are numerous studies which try to find out what makes your sex life better. One of the aspects which seems of higher importance is your relationship status. Apparently, it makes a vast difference whether you sleep with your partner or not.

Guest wrote on 30. January 2020

What are your experiences with length, variety, satisfaction and all the other important aspects of intimacy when you compare your sex life in a…

What are your criteria for building trust?

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Hi, one can say that trust is one of the key point in being joyful in any human being connections and relationships. How do you trust people? what you should see or percive in someone to say oh yes he or she is the one you can trust?

******_sn wrote on 28. January 2020

What an interesting question on so many levels. I was just thinking about trust and if I trust the person I am currently sleeping with.

Totally new to sex parties

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Hello guys. im arvin living in winterthur, and also im new to this forum. so hiii all. and im totally new to threesome, swinger, or all kind of sex parties. well im half Mexican and half Asian.

Guest wrote on 26. January 2020

thank you guys . *danke*

How do I best approach people at a swinger's club?

******_19 wrote:

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First club this weekend any tips what to were or approach people?

Guest wrote on 21. January 2020

There is a lot of good advice already on this thread. We love it when a guy says hello and talks to us but sadly it is all too rare.

Clubwear: Who can explain the dresscode?

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I will go to a club party this weekend but the dresscode has confused me. Is there anybody here to explain or give example for the code below. I dont want to have a surprise at door. Dresscode. Herren...

******ins wrote on 14. January 2020

Hello everyone *meld* Some Off Topic posts have been deleted by us. Please answer the initial question in your posts: https://www.joyclub.

Is it possible to find Love through sex?

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I want to find out if there is anyone that has found love through be sexually active with one person? How long does it take?

Guest wrote on 12. January 2020

Communication is an important part of a relationship. Without fluently communication, it will normally fail.

Good Swinger club in Vienna?

*******018 wrote:

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Dear all We as couple - would like to visit some good swinger club in Vienna 15 or 16 of January - any suggestion?

*****bby wrote on 12. January 2020

If looking for a fun club with music and dance and some ppl, go to Frivoli or Le swing, if you like to see a traditional old fashion Vienna swinger…

Recommendations for swinger clubs in Frankfurt?

*******up74 wrote:

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We are absolutely new to swinging Etc.

*******sh2 wrote on 11. January 2020

You could also try https://www.joyclub.de/link/42184134.html It's not far from Frankfurt City Centre.

Kinky holiday gifts

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Anyone get anything kinky and interesting for the holidays?

*****964 wrote on 6. January 2020

Yes..., we want to be kinky *nachdenk* We are very interesting... *slipstrip*

Best Swinger Club in Berlin?

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Looking recommendations and tips for the best swinger or sex club in berlin, thanks

****exx wrote on 31. December 2019

Avarus is nice, ofc depending on who sings up. Schloss Milkersdorf south of Berlin is really nice!

Femdom in Bulgaria?

********ject wrote:

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Any BDSM club or Femdom establishment in the Bourgas, Sunny Beach, Varna area? I am a sub with a property in Sunny Beach Bulgaria, hence my question.

Swing vacation in Bulgaria

*******nna wrote:

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Hi! We are organizing swing New Year vacation near the sea:) what do you think about this idea?

********ject wrote on 29. December 2019

Any BDSM club or Femdom establishment in the Bourgas , Sunny Beach , Varna area?

Frankfurt: Sauna/Spa?

**********man93 wrote:

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Me and my girlfriend are going to Frankfurt next week so we are looking for place where we can be naked with other people. We are in middle 20s so its likely the most of company its younger people.

*******sh2 wrote on 28. December 2019

There are swinger clubs with saunas *sauna* where you can have sex, if that's what you're looking for - https://www.joyclub.

xmas fun: Where to go near Mannheim?

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English guy here alone over xmas can anyone tell me any clubs around or near Birkenau / /Mannheim where I would be welcome

******_19 wrote on 25. December 2019

I’m available kim

Which Swing Club? Wednesday or Thursday

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For a alone man, cologne or Monchengladbach

Guest wrote on 21. December 2019

Bock auf ein heißes Date am Montag?

What is your Christmas like: Fun, Family, Kink or Grinch?

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The Grinch, Krampus, Christian Angel, Santa Claus - the Christmas traditions are about as varied as our interests themselves. Each family has its own rituals, different meals, gift ideas or guest lists. With my family it is relatively simple.

Guest wrote on 20. December 2019

Do women like it when a man cooks the dinner himself on a date? I mean is that an attractive quality or just another something?

Men's undies: What's your favorite?

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So there are plenty of posts on what you find sexy when a woman wears but not so much on men. How do you feel about men wearing the following? Sexy, undecided, on the right guy or never.

Guest wrote on 16. December 2019

A) tighty whities- Yummy B) boxers- Meh. No. C) banana hammock-Yikes! Nope. D) leather pants-Depends on junk size E) kilt- Yes!

Do you pee while showering?

*******dy38 wrote:

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When I was a little boy I came to the shower, the idea to simply pee in the tub instead of the toilet. At first I did not dare, but on the 4th attempt it worked.

Guest wrote on 15. December 2019

I did sometime when it was necessary but not often

Lick after cum - Do girls like that?

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I will love to know if girls like after a pussy cum someone to lick them 😊😊😊

Guest wrote on 11. December 2019

What a weird thread this is... "girls" are asked, men and one woman answer... *zwinker* I was a girl, eons ago.

Dress code for sex clubs

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Hello! What is the dress code for sex clubs? Both to get in and once you are in? We are a couple that are into lingerie and not S&M. Will be in Cologne next week so need to know what to pack!

Guest wrote on 10. December 2019

We like to be part of a xxx

Suspender belts or stockings?

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Dear ones, What do you prefer to wear? What do you prefer to look at? Suspender belts or stockings? I like the feeling of the nylon on my skin very much. But what often bothers me is fiddling around with the suspenders.

****uk wrote on 9. December 2019

Lace top stockings with a suspender belt and stilettos, all preferably black. That gets my vote every time!

To approach or not to approach

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I’ve been in the situation more than once where hubby and I are sitting in an open minded club having a drink or two and we are messaged later that they saw us but did not want to approach. This past weekend I was out with my sub and hubby with his.

Guest wrote on 8. December 2019

Start with a nice greeting and slowly see if the couple or woman likes than small touch on her body feel her softly make her hornyno offense but if…

Exclusive Private Party in Hamburg

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We are considering holding a stylish, “invitation only” party for like minded adults at our apartment early next year. Up to 8 people, couples & ladies only, curious / new to the lifestyle preferred, easy going & fun orientated.

***00 wrote on 7. December 2019

Marc Dorcel - Film producer. Google “Sex Games” for example... that’s the style 😉