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Are you mindful in exploring your sexuality?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, in our latest livestream, Venus Libido and Divine Theratrix had a chat about the importance of mindfulness and healing while exploring your sexual identity. Were you there? Cool! If not, don't worry: You can watch it back!

****enx wrote 10 hours ago

Being present is hard but rewarding indeed.

New at the JoyClub? Welcome!

*****ich wrote:

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It's nice that you registered at the JOYclub and found your way here. From now on you are a part of our exciting community. Congratulations! We are happy that you are here.

*********nots wrote on 14. April

hi from another world, i need to find me my wife as a life partner, to really restart life.

MMF Threesome - Living the experience!

*********nots wrote:

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There are many dating apps, date searches and posts, hook-ups and ads, but what is the reality behind it? What happens after the call for a date goes out into the world, how does the selection process work and what is the end like, for all parties?

*********nots wrote an hour ago

The verdict: - Our date listing has expired and you must be wondering how it went?

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Rediscovering your Body through Mindfulness

07 May 2024

Are you mindful in exploring your body and sexuality? Here are some exercises that might help you keep your focus!
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****enx wrote 10 hours ago:

Being present is hard but rewarding indeed. Although some flashbacks can be automated by a torn psyche that was traumatised long ago and has not been healed, supported in its' need to be seen, heard, loved.

What are your craziest bondage stories?

*********nots wrote:

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I am on the roll about crazy kinky stories! Today I wanted to share my craziest bondage story. Are you ready for some really tight sensations?

*********nots wrote 12 hours ago

The names Bondrage, Chains Bondrage double penetration ripped oohpen cut and scarred. And whatever you are having? Supposed it hasn’t happened yet?

Bit cucky? Let's talk about cuckolding!

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, do you find pleasure in your partner getting it on with someone else? Or in humiliating your partner by letting someone else satisfy you? Well, you're not alone, and you might be into cuckolding. No clue what that is?

****es wrote on Sun, 5. May

We have to try new things to make sure we survive

First time in Munich - sexy clubs, whisky bars etc?

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Hello, We are going to be in Munich soon for the first time and looking for recommendations for sexy places ) Thank you!

********r977 wrote on Sat, 4. May

Greetings to all the good people on the site. *g* I am also primarily interested in good swing clubs in Munich and the surrounding area.

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Submit to Sakura's Pleasure

30 April 2024

Sakura is the founder of three fabulous events bringing kinsters together. From Femdom to kitty play, BDSM inspired goth nights to a sub-sorting hat, there's something in it for everyone. Learn more!
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*********nots wrote on 1. May:

I am making my way to the Femdom even this Friday, cannot wait to be part of @MissSakura 's new event empire. I am going to share my sexy outfit for the night here too

Fancy a Vaginal Massage?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, Massages and sex have one thing in common: they can be incredibly relaxing. So why not put them together and aim for the epitome of relaxation and pleasure?

**14 wrote on Thu, 2. May

Is there anyone available for threesome or foursome. We are travelling back tomorrow night to our place Staying in downtown salzburg

What are your craziest BDSM stories?

*********nots wrote:

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Are we ready to reveal some secrets here? I am going to reveal my craziest BDSM story here- may not be the craziest for some people but a very memorable one for me, only because it is one from my early days of kink journey so it stuck in my memory.

*********nots wrote on 1. May

I have a couple so I will make them short.

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers!‌ This week, we have something special in store for you: Our JOYclub ambassador Bethany sat down with Sakura for an interview to introduce her as our Premium Partner! Exciting, right?!

*********nots wrote on 1. May

I am making my way to the Femdom even this Friday, cannot wait to be part of @MissSakura 's new event empire.

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Vaginal Massages

24 April 2024

All vulvas are different - but all vulvas deserve a nice and sensual massage every now and then. Here's how Divine Theratrix does it!
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**14 wrote on Thu, 2. May:

Is there anyone available for threesome or foursome. We are travelling back tomorrow night to our place Staying in downtown salzburg

First Time in Berlin, What should I do?

**********veler wrote:

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I'm going to berlin at the end of May. It's my first time in Germany and Berlin. While I do have work related plans, I wanted some recommendations about bars/clubs/etc. I could visit in my down time.

*******yth wrote on 1. May

Avarus is a great night out. Highly recommend this place

Bdsm berlin: experiences - where and what?

*****mne wrote:

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Planning a week in Berlin, what olaces are there for a while week of bdsm experiences, bdsm clubs, places, dungeons, rent a place for it, workshops or any guided sex tour for a week?

******ayd wrote on 30. April

https://www.joyclub.de/my/10180329.kinkymne.html Not to forget the regular BDSM Lounge events, also to be found here on JOYclub: https://www.joyclub.

What's the naughtiest shit you've ever tried?

**********ver99 wrote:

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I'll go first: I had outdoor sex with a stranger I met in at the park. We fucked in the bushes whilst people went past us along the path, just a few meters away from where we were hiding.

*********r2024 wrote on 29. April

Bit of a long story but the facts are worth sharing.

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Taking It Slow

11 April 2024

In our fast-paced world, we rush attraction, dating, and sex, missing the depth of slower connections. Explore the art of slow intimacy for profound satisfaction and read on!
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*********uema wrote on 15. April:

Yes, of course taking the time that an encounter needs to let it grow into its most beautiful form will feel slow if "i" got used to do it faster, focusing on other criteria instead of enjoyment of the moment.

Clubs in Amsterdam?

********rfun wrote:

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We're heading to Amsterdam for a long weekend, looking for recommendations for swinger clubs there. The only four listed here at Joy don't have any verification/stars, so we'd love to hear from folks that have been to Amsterdam and have thoughts. :)

****BG wrote on 28. April

Hi. Visited Club Paradise in the Northern part of Amsterdam in 2015 and loved it. The club is really big, it was clean and the facilities were great.

Olimia Terme Slovenia?

********ejan wrote:

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Olimia Terme Slovenia? we have plans to visit Olimia, Orchidelia. Someone can share experience?

********ejan wrote on 27. April

Thanks, we are there wednesday and thurstday ...

Toys are for playing!

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, playing is fun, right? And what do you need to play? TOYS! This week is all about sex toys: Venus Libido is debunking myths and breaking taboos on sex toys, all while exploring BDSM toys in her newest article. Click here to read it!

**********veler wrote on 27. April

Personally I've never used one, but have wanted to try.

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Anal Fisting

02 April 2024

Curious to try anal fisting, but not sure how to go about it? You've come to the right place! Divine Theratrix will show you how.
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**********rl007 wrote on 22. April:

Hey guys you should all try you have orgasms by far enjoyable. I would definitely recommend it

Malaga/Torremolinos - Looking for best clubs and beaches

*******888 wrote:

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Hello! Looking for the best clubs and beaches in Torremolinos 24-29 may 😊

******ert wrote on 26. April

Kamelot papua Eden check Google

**********eld86 wrote:

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Let's take the advices. My favourite is Stranglehold - Ted Nugent.

******902 wrote on 24. April

Not sure if its the best, but I definitely think of sex hearing it ;-) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YHToQ2BNYOc

Pulling and Playing - do you have a hair fetish?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers! JOYclub is a fantastic place to discover new things, and today we might have something you’ve never heard of before.

****an8 wrote on 23. April

Love scrunching up hair tight as it gives so much control over your partner/partners.

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Everything about cuckold & cuckolding

27 March 2024

Cuckolding refers to a type of sexual play where the man gets satisfaction from the knowledge that his wife is having sex with others. We explain what this erotic preference is all about!
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****es wrote on Sun, 5. May:

We have to try new things to make sure we survive

Anal Fisting - ever put your whole hand up there?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, there is a lot of shame around the anal area, so let’s break some taboos! In this week’s article, Divine Theratrix provides us with an explicit tutorial on anal fisting for all the visual learners among you!

**********rl007 wrote on 22. April

Hey guys you should all try you have orgasms by far enjoyable. I would definitely recommend it *bunny*

Munich Swingers Club - any recommendations?

******955 wrote:

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Hi. I am visiting Munich for the first time, can anyone recommend the best club to visit?

***ur wrote on 20. April

The 'A' in April stands for ...Anal sex!

*********nots wrote:

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Did you know that April is anal sex month? It is not an official holiday but let's celebrate anal pleasure between consenting individuals, and get rid of the taboo around it! So let's make it a JOYclub challenge: Have YOU done your April anal yet?

*********nots wrote on 17. April

Meine Ex-Partnerin verlangte 'Anal sex', wahrscheinlich zweimal pro Woche. Ich war der Erste, der sie darauf aufmerksam machte ...

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Hair Play

20 March 2024

Hair play may sound innocent, but for some people it's a huuuge turn on! Follow April Maria to her first ever hair play party and learn what it's all about.
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****an8 wrote on 23. April:

Love scrunching up hair tight as it gives so much control over your partner/partners.

Slow and steady wins the race?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, in today’s modern society most things tend to happen pretty fast, and sex & dating are no exceptions to that. In our newest article, Paulina Tenner gives insights to the world of slow dating, slow attraction and slow sex.

*********uema wrote on 15. April

yes, of course taking the time that an encounter needs to let it grow into its most beautiful form will feel slow if "i" got used to do it…

Do you prefer ass or boobs?

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What you prefer You have men Who are ass lopers and men who love boops What you are/what you choose

Guest wrote on 14. April

I love booty also love to massage them

What is the best Swinger Party in the UK?

*********nots wrote:

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Thank you to JOYclubber @SensualSuffolk who lined out a few swinger clubs & parties in the UK. I am quoting them here to show their recommendations. We have the Unseen Lounge listing their events here on JOY already as well.

*********nots wrote on 14. April

We visir Cupid's in Msnchester. We're in the NW frequently so hoping to try some of the others. Found them too!

Another thought form a PoetWolf

*******Wolf wrote:

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I love you naked.  No, not without clothes on.  Naked without your walls up. I love you naked.  No, not bare skinned lying on the bed.  Naked with your mind wide open. I love you naked.  No, not emerging from the shower damp in lust and water.

*********nots wrote on 14. April

I am in awe of your work. It resonates so much- I was told how beautiful I am naked, truly naked without my walls up.

Best parties in Budapest?

*****ght wrote:

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Hello, We are visiting Budapest the first weekend of April, and wondering from locals, what are the best parties and clubs there? Our first time in Budapest. Thank you, N

Guest wrote on 13. April

Interesting thread, will be more often in Budapest this year ;) Last time I stayed at this hotel (see pic).

What is the best Swinger Club in London?

*********nots wrote:

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Recently I shared my personal experience in the London group about my first visit to the swingers club LeBoudoir: My partner, wanted to try a club and it was the first to stand out due to it's central location- and their event listings on JOYclub…

******ini wrote on 12. April

Actually, I just discovered this club -on a recommendation by a JC member here - Thank you! have you heard of it/ been before? https://ourplace4fun.

Swingers experience in South Carolina

*******s61 wrote:

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Hi, I will be the next 2 years on regular basis in South Carolina. Is there a good way in the US to connect with women and couples? Has someone some clubs to recommend? Many thanks for any advice.

**********r2469 wrote on 11. April

You could try SDC. It has a pretty decent presence in US, although I don’t know about South Carolina in particular

Nude Sunbathing around Basel

*********an222 wrote:

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Hi! Looking to spend some time in the warm sun this weekend. Are there any wellness centers with outdoor areas that allow nude sunbathing and use of the saunas? Anywhere within an hour or so of Basel is good. I look forward to your suggestions.

Ever explored the prostate?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers! Anything to do with pleasure and the anus is often considered taboo. But it shouldn’t be, so let’s break it! For people who are lucky enough to have a prostate, this little “button” can provide immense pleasure.

*********_male wrote on 9. April

Experienced fingers for prostate massage i number one. The feeling when a woman or man knows how to massage the prostate is unbelievable.

******ple wrote:

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Can anybody suggest naturist/swingers resort where to stay in Maspalomas? As we was able to book just 3 nights in La Mirage. On booking. com its hard to understand is this for naturist, adults only etc... Thanks!

*****dor wrote on 9. April

Is there a lifestyle hotel or resort in Costa Rica?

Perspective from a Poetwolf

*******Wolf wrote:

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Hurricanes Are Not Just Thunderstorms. I don’t want ‘just sex’. Sex in a vacum Sex in a box Sex for a moment, An hour and then gone. I don’t want to ‘get off’. Get laid. Get some. I don’t want to show up. Fuck, Go home.

*****i26 wrote on 8. April

Lovely. Well said. There's definitely more to this journey than one and done. Lee'Ann

Looking for clubs in Algarve, Portugal

*********ouple wrote:

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Any suggestions for clubs/private parties in Algarve, Portugal. Seems to be nothing available short of driving to Seville, Spain...

****BG wrote on 8. April

Was in Algarve last summer and couldnt find anything, after some excessive research :\

Uniting Zurich 😉 Which 🔥 places do you know?

*******inz wrote:

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Hey 👋 I'm new on this site and don't know exactly how everything works here) I speak English and German both, so you can contact me in any convenient for you language) Which 🔥 places can you recommend in Zurich?

*******am04 wrote on 7. April

Sexual bucket list?

*********life wrote:

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Places are common for bucket lists but do you have a sexual bucket list item or fantasy that you’ve not tried yet?

*********nots wrote on 3. April

Joining a happy couple and give a hi five to the guy while his woman is scream-orgazming in our intense dp. Team work must be great.

Where are all the unicorns?

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers, have you lost faith in unicorns yet? Well, hopefully Venus Libido can help you restore it! In her new article, she tells you all you need to know about unicorns, how to find them and how to secure one for yourself. Intrigued?

****i2 wrote on 27. March

Hallo, ich bin 21 Jahre alt und am 6. Mai in Stade. Ich möchte ein Mädchen zum Sex treffen

best sex clubs in Frankfurt for Hotwire Fun

*****and wrote:

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We are coming to Frankfurt on March 29 for a few days/nights, staying in Steigenberger Hotel and looking for hot sex clubs to attend for Hotwire to have fun with men

***nz wrote on 26. March

I went to Emmanuelle and played with the wife in a nice couple, but it was a weekday and fairly quiet. Grane opera in.

Do you worship in the bedroom?

*********rial wrote:

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You think you know all sides to BDSM? We might have something you’re not aware of yet: Our author PriestessPow practices BDSM with a spiritual or devotional approach! What that means? Find out in our new article!

*********nots wrote on 24. March

Bonjour, je m'appelle Piotr, je suis polonais, j'ai 40 ans, je ne parle pas français, j'habite près de Paris, Mon rêve est d'être…

Fetish sex club with playroom

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Hi. I want to surprise my husband by bringing him to a fetish club where we can see others to play around in different playrooms. The event should be on 06 April or 07 April.

****79 wrote on 24. March

Guten Morgen 🌞☕

Looking for libertine clubs in Malaga, Spain

******l50 wrote:

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I am planning a short trip to Malaga and the neighbourhood, Spain, at the end of April. Are there swinger clubs in Malaga?

******ert wrote on 19. March

7 km weiter Torremolinos 3 clubs . Eden, Papua ,kamelot swingers.

*********rial wrote:

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Hey JOYclubers! One moment you're head over heels for your partner, and the next, you find yourself recoiling at the mere thought of them. Know the feeling? Well, the problem you’re facing might be the ick. The ick? The ick.

*******7117 wrote on 16. March

*********rial wrote:

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Have you ever found yourself wondering: Is polyamory right for me?

****21 wrote on 15. March

Hallo, ich bin hier und nächsten Monat in Deutschland. Wer sich gerne vorher vernetzen möchte.

Happy International Women's Day

*********nots wrote:

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International Women's Day is a holiday celebrated annually on March 8 as a focal point in the women's rights movement. It originated during the Suffragette movement and gained importance in the second wave feminism.

****erj wrote on 10. March

И попробуй забыть про цветочки и подарки! )

Looking for swinger clubs in Salou, Spain

*******cki wrote:

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We're planning a trip to Salou, Spain, this summer. But even though the city has quite a reputation for "party central", we don't see any swinger clubs on the map, only strip clubs. Are there swinger clubs in Salou? Or in it's vicinity at least?

*********nger1 wrote on 9. March

Hallo, ich war schon öfters in Salou, aber nie in einem Club. Mit Google findet ihr bestimmt irgendwas. Ob es gut ist, muss man immer selber testen.

Swingers club in Copenhagen, Denmark?

**********sires wrote:

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Hello, Is there a good swingers club in Copenhagen, Denmark, where they accept single men?

*********oyce wrote on 6. March

We had a great experience at Cityswingers 1 and hope to return there some time soon! *herz2*

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Is there any swinger clubs open on a Monday, that is recommended for a couple?

***23 wrote on 3. March

Hey we visited as a couple with a friend of ours (M). We had a great time on a Sunday. The place is by far stunning inside. Not over crowded.

Looking for swinger clubs in Southwest France

**********spect wrote:

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Are there any great swinger clubs in south west France? I have been looking at events and parties in several French cities and does not seem to be very popular. Is it maybe that this platform is not very popular there?

*****mne wrote on 3. March

P.s. just update we are not fan as well from now on, they suck and they are bad to be avoided , seems like they are all touristy attractions

Best Budapest spots

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Best places to visit in Budapest? Clubs sex parties xx traveling alone 😇😇

****r1 wrote on 2. March

What are the best saunas to meet couples in Budapest?

Visiting Munich for a day

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Hello. I'm here in munich and i am interested in some glory hole action. Just so you know i'm straight. Where should i go?

weissenhäuser strand hotel

*********lden wrote:

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Hey i visit germany alot at been at this place. Is there any clubs in that area.? Or any meet places for couples? 😊

*****_92 wrote on 2. March

Hey bbc suche spontan Treffen heute abend